A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – JUNE 2, 2024

The Eucharist, the REAL PRESENCE of Jesus – body, soul, and divinity – is central to our faith. There’s something truly special about walking into any Catholic church and seeing the tabernacle with that sanctuary lamp burning brightly near it… showing us that Jesus Christ is truly present within our midst. Regardless of what a church’s architecture looks like or anything else… we can still feel a tremendous inner warmth because of our awareness of the Real Presence of Jesus that fills us with love, peace, and security.

Some years ago, I had an opportunity to travel to many Catholic churches in the Holy Land and Rome. Many of these churches were truly beautiful. One could sense the hard work and devotion of the people who gave their time, talent, and resources into constructing their walls, crafting their art, and decorating the worship space. And yet, no matter what church building we entered… one could sense that it was the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist, present in the tabernacles, that made everything special.

As we celebrate the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ, Corpus Christi, may we strive each day to recognize the precious gift of the Eucharist and actively work to conform our hearts to become more like that of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAY 26, 2024

“…And behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age” (Matt 28:20). These were the words that Jesus said to his disciples after he had given them their mission to go out and make new disciples, to go out and to bring people into a relationship with God, to help generations to move toward what is good, true, and beautiful with eyes fixed on heaven and eternal life with God. We, today in 2024, are given that same mission of helping to bring people to Jesus… and the Lord is truly with us as we strive to carry out that monumental calling.

God is always cheering for us… wanting us to have the very best and to make good choices. He’s with us when we’re alone and struggling. He’s with us in the brightest, most joyful moments of our life to share in that happiness, and also in the darkest, saddest moments of our life to help us through our grief. There is no one who understands us better… no one who knows what we are going through better… than God himself. We can turn to him any place, any time, because we know that he understands.

As we gather with family and friends this Memorial Day weekend, we pause to remember with deep gratitude all of those men and women who have lost their lives in service to our country and the families, friends, and loved ones who mourn their loss. We especially remember those from our parish who gave their life in service, especially our most recent loss of Sgt. David Solinas Jr. We remember and hold in prayer all those who are currently deployed and continue to risk their lives for our protection, as well as those who have previously served. May the Lord Jesus guide us, his children, always on the path of love, peace, and healing.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAY 19, 2024

This weekend we celebrate the gift of the Holy Spirit that has been given to the Church at Pentecost and continues to be active in our presence today! The Holy Spirit calls us to action and service, while also inviting us to enter more deeply into our own internal life of prayer. When we’re faced with challenges big and small, when we’re not sure where to turn for help, when we don’t know what our next step will be, how wonderful it is that we can look to the Holy Spirit who is in our midst for guidance and support. 

Part of living a life of faith is developing an attitude of discernment: actively striving to identify which path God wants us to take, which solution God wants us to embrace, which responsibility God is asking us to take on. The key to facing any difficulty or challenge in life is to recognize that we can’t always do it alone and that God has a plan. We can and should allow God into the mix! Sounds easy right? Well…it certainly takes effort on our part to do the hard work of listening. An attitude of discernment means trying our best to recognize that soft, still voice of God moving us in the right direction, guiding us by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Becoming more aware of the presence of the Holy Spirit and listening to the voice of God requires a freedom from distraction that most especially comes from making time for prayer and silence. It involves cultivating a sensitivity to the internal movements in our life, especially our thoughts, feelings, and desires. Where we feeling the most joy? What is causing us the most sadness? What is our deepest desire? These might sound like quite simple questions, but they’re really profound and very important. Prayerful quiet gives our mind a chance to be calm, to gain perspective, and to make room for the Lord.

One saint who can help us learn about and practice prayerful discernment is St. Ignatius of Loyola. St. Ignatius is famous, in part,  for his “rules of discernment” that can really help us enter more deeply into our own interior life and discover God’s will for us in whatever situation we are experiencing. If you’re facing a difficult decision in life or are just trying to make sense of all of the “stuff” that is swirling around in your mind or heart, consider doing some research about St. Ignatius and Ignatian Spirituality! Learning about St. Ignatius and his insights on the spiritual life has been a blessing in my own life, and I hope can be a blessing for you as well.

Remember that God is with you today and always.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAY 12, 2024

This is such a beautiful weekend to celebrate. To celebrate the great Solemnity of the Ascension of our Lord, as well as to celebrate the special gift of mothers and the vocation of motherhood. Before the Lord ascended into heaven and was commissioning his disciples for the work of ministry, he made a promise. He promised to be with them always (see Matthew 28:20)… a promise which holds true and strong today.

As we live our lives, doing our best each day to listen to God’s call and to follow it with an open heart, we have opportunities to communicate God’s love to the world in very real and tangible ways. One example highlighted especially this weekend, is through the vocation of motherhood. Mothers, through their willingness to carry and bring life into the world, through their kindness, love, and commitment, are a reflection of the love that God has for all of us as his children.

Just think… like all of us, Jesus had a mother too! He was nurtured and loved as he grew up in the household of Mary and Joseph. Mary who is so gentle, pure, and open to the will of God, gives us the best example of what true motherhood is all about. Perhaps all of us in whatever vocation we have, can look to our mother Mary as an example of what it means to tenderly care for others, to follow Christ with our whole heart, and to embrace the call to bring the joy of God’s love into the world. To all of our mothers and to those who have shown us a mother’s love… Happy Mother’s Day!

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAY 5, 2024

One of the most beautiful parts of the Easter Season is having the privilege to witness some of our parishioners of all ages receiving the Sacraments for the first time, and to have an opportunity to share in the joy and excitement of their families during those special moments. Our life as disciples and the practice of our faith hinge on the Sacraments. Each and every time we receive a Sacrament, it is a moment of profound encounter with Jesus who loves each and every one of us regardless of where we find ourselves, and calls us to become better and better disciples as we strive to follow him.

As I witnessed our fellow parishioners receiving the Sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist these last few weeks, I couldn’t help but notice the tremendous joy that was in the expressions of the family members, friends, and candidates as they received their first Sacraments. That joy is something very special and its something that we experience at these moments because true joy has Jesus and all that is good, true, and beautiful at its center. May the risen Christ continue to bless you and your families during this Easter Season with profound joy, happiness, and peace as we continue our journey as a parish family into deeper relationship with God and one another.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – APR. 28, 2024

This day and age, it seems like we’re always “connected” in some way. We form connections with our friends, network with others at work, and develop many other bonds throughout our lives. In a very practical way, nearly all of us are “connected” constantly to the world by our phones and computers through the internet! Recently I’ve been pondering… without the internet, our computers and phones would loose a majority of their practical use. It’s by being CONNECTED that they’re able to link us with friends and relatives over long distances, help us to find information, and even send a simple text message.

The best and most powerful connection we have ever have and ever will have… is our connection to Jesus. Through our Baptism and participation in the Sacraments, we become connected to Jesus in a very special way as his disciples on mission. The strength that we have to do good things, to speak kind words, and yes, even to love our enemies as Jesus calls us to do…. doesn’t come from our own effort alone. It comes because of our willingness to be joined to Jesus and receive his grace.

The branches are intimately linked to the vine. They share nourishment, water, and really EVERYTHING from the vine. Without the vine, the branch dies. When we think of our life of faith… all of us are intimately linked to the Lord. He is the vine and we are the branches! As Catholic Christians, we are nourished by Jesus when we make the choice to remain alongside him. By being joined to Jesus as individuals and as a parish community, we can do incredible things!

We have such an active parish here at St. Joe’s and are bearing good fruits through many diverse ministries. The personal relationship we have formed with Jesus and continue to grow in as disciples, has had a tremendous impact on the people around us. It helps to create our welcoming environment and build others up as we all journey together.

If you are looking to get more connected or get involved in a new ministry, don’t hesitate to reach out. Sometimes we might feel a small “pull” in our heart toward a particular ministry. That could be a prompting of the Holy Spirit calling us to action! We shouldn’t ignore it… but rather go deeper and answer the invitation to serve.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – APR. 21, 2024

On some level, I think it’s safe to say that all of us have a deep desire to be cared for and to belong. We want to be loved, to feel that someone is looking out for us, to be understood. There are many people in our lives who know us well: family, good friends, maybe some coworkers. But above all, the one who knows us the best is the Lord himself. Jesus knows and loves each one of us as his sons and daughters. He wants the best for us and to help all of us to grow in love of him and one another, and gives us the grace to do just that day in and day out.

One of the most fundamental aspects of the spiritual life is to recognize the care that God has for each one of us. It’s a care that is deeply personal: God wants to be involved in every aspect of our individual lives, to share in the good times, to comfort us in the sad times, and to help make those bad moments that we all experience in our lives at one point or another more bearable by placing our trust in his grace. Indeed, Jesus is the Good Shepherd, the one who would do anything for we his sheep… even to the point of laying down his life for us… like he did on the cross. May God bless you and your families as we continue to celebrate this joyous Easter Season.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – APR. 14, 2024

“Peace be with you” Those are the beautiful words that the risen Christ spoke to his disciples (see Luke 24:36). Peace…I’m sure all of us could use peace in some way, shape, or form. Anxiety, fear, uncertainty are all very real things that we work through in our lives. The lists of concerns that we have are many! Worries about our family, friends, something at work, and the unknown of the future among many others. Yet, even in the midst of whatever it is that we’re going through at the present moment, the risen Christ speaks words of peace to us here and now.

Experiencing the Lord’s peace doesn’t always mean that problems suddenly disappear. It doesn’t mean that we won’t have obstacles to overcome. It doesn’t mean that we’ll have all of the solutions for the issues in our lives. But what it does mean is that we can live our lives with confidence by placing our trust in Jesus, realizing that he is always with us. Perhaps we can all take comfort in the words Jesus said to his disciples as he sent them into the world on mission, “…behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age” (see Matt 28:20).

With Prayer,

Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – APR. 7, 2024

First, I would like to take this opportunity to sincerely thank everyone who helped with and participated in our Easter Triduum celebrations! It takes a lot of hard work, organization, and dedication not only to plan for those liturgies, but also to serve them so beautifully and to help all of us enter into them with a deep sense of prayer. We are truly blessed as a parish by the work of so many dedicated people in all of our ministries and activities!!!

This Sunday, the Second Sunday of Easter, is also known as Divine Mercy Sunday. It’s a day when we can take a step back and recognize the tremendous love and mercy that Jesus poured forth from the cross. God’s mercy is truly endless and he invites all of us to open our hearts to receive it! How do we open our hearts? Well… a good first step is to recognize and acknowledge that we are all in need of healing and that there are places in our life that could use improvement. The Lord loves us so deeply and continually calls us to be better and better! As disciples, we seek to put our best foot forward each day to help us get closer to God and one another.

Once we acknowledge our need for God and his mercy, a good next step is to take a serious look at our life up to this point. This takes a lot of courage and trust in God’s love to do well. What have been our highs? What have been our lows? Is there something from the past that keeps coming up in our memory? Are there any feelings of guilt or anxiety or worry that stick out? Our lives can be a mixed bag of ups and downs, but nevertheless, Jesus is there with us through them all. Many times, the greatest healing we can receive is found in those dark and dusty places in our life where we were in the most need of God’s peace and mercy. The Lord doesn’t seek to push us down, but rather to lift each one of us high, to truly save us, and to help us experience what it means to be loved. Christ suffered, died, and rose from the dead for us… may we be willing to hand over our heart to him to experience the fountain of his overflowing mercy.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAR. 31, 2024

This is such a special day… it truly is. It’s a day to celebrate victory, to rejoice in love, and to be mindful that, “…the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” (John 1:5). We gather on this beautiful Easter Sunday to give thanks and praise to God for the gift of his Son Jesus, to celebrate his resurrection from the dead, and to
recognize the gift of salvation that he won for us. If you are visiting our parish for the first time, please know that you are very welcome to worship here with us.

This day is a clear reminder of the everlasting love that God has for each one of us, his children, fashioned and molded in his image. The reality is that no matter who we are, what life experiences we’ve had or how close or far we’ve been from our faith… we all need to be saved! We are all in need of healing. In a very practical way, I’m sure we can point to different moments in our life when we’ve needed someone’s help or a shoulder to lean on, someone to take our side. Living the life of Catholic discipleship isn’t something that we can do on our own… we need the support of each other and above all, the grace of God that we especially receive in the Sacraments.

When it comes to helping us get to heaven and living up to our full potential and being truly and eternally happy… Jesus is always on our side, bestowing on us the gifts we need to succeed. Will we make the decision to be on his side? Living the life of faith can be challenging, there may be things that we don’t understand or certain teachings we might struggle with. Jesus is there with us in all of those moments. God is a father in the most perfect sense of the word. He cares for each one of us more than we could ever know. He proved his love and commitment to us all those years ago by offering his son on the cross and renews his promises each and every day, as we pray and experience the gift of Jesus in the Sacraments.
“But now, thus says the Lord, who created you, Jacob, and formed you, Israel: Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name: you are mine. When you pass through waters, I will be with you; through rivers, you shall not be swept away. When you walk through fire, you shall not be burned, nor will flames consume you. For I, the Lord, am your God, the Holy One of Israel, your savior.” (see Isaiah 43:1-3).

So enjoy this day, rejoice that Jesus truly lives, hold your head up high as a follower of Christ even in a challenging world. Follow Christ boldly and unreservedly… and remember that you are precious in the sight of God. Happy Easter!

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAR. 24, 2024

This week coming up is a BIG week for all of us. In fact, it is THE week of our Church calendar. It’s a time when we celebrate some of the most holy days of the year: the Easter Triduum which includes Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and the Easter Vigil. In each of those days, we are personally invited to walk with Jesus as he made his way to the cross out of love for us, and to acknowledge the amazing gift of salvation that he gives to us and that desires us to receive with all our heart, mind, and soul.

We “kick off” Holy Week with the great celebration of Jesus’ entrance into Jerusalem amidst the great crowds whose shouts of, “Hosanna to the Son of David; blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord; hosanna in the highest” rang out in the streets as they lined the roads with branches and even their own cloaks (see Matt 21:6-9). The people recognized Jesus as a King and wanted to give him honor and praise! How beautiful it is that we commemorate that special moment which took place thousands of years ago even still today, as we too hold out our palm branches in praise and honor.

The humility of Jesus’ entry into Jerusalem is truly astounding! Notice how he arrived… He didn’t come in hoisted high on a throne, he didn’t ride on a fine horse or come with many war chariots; he came on the back of a donkey showing that he is truly humble, gentle, and peaceful. How blessed we are to be the followers of Jesus who conquered evil and death not by violence or aggression, but rather with humility and the very gift of his own life poured out for us.

Our lives are very busy, there’s no doubt about that. But I would like to encourage all of us to make this week truly special, to intentionally set aside some time for Jesus. If you’ve never been to any of the Masses/services of the Easter Triduum, take the opportunity to join us in worship! Each day has a different experience of the Church’s liturgy that is unique to those days and is very moving. It’s an opportunity to experience first hand the richness of our faith tradition alive in our worship and to put God in first place as we rapidly approach Easter. May God bless you and your families during this sacred week.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAR. 17, 2024

Regardless of how old or young we are, or the experiences that we’ve had in life, no matter how close or far we have been from our faith… the Lord Jesus invites all of us to conversion. There is always more work to be done! Much of the Christian life centers on humility. To be humble doesn’t mean to be a “push over.” It doesn’t mean to sit back idly while others might try to take advantage of us. Being humble means having the courage to allow God to be the center of our lives and to recognize that God is in control! Sure, it is important that we work hard to achieve or goals and put effort into our lives. We can’t progress even in the spiritual life without effort on our part; sitting back and doing nothing won’t get us very far!

It is also very important to recognize, however, that we don’t have all the answers and that our efforts ALONE aren’t enough! We need Jesus and the grace of God to come into our lives and inspire our mind and heart to seek out the things in our midst that are good, true, and beautiful, so that we can prepare ourselves to experience the eternal life that God desires to bestow on all of us as his beloved sons and daughters.

As we get closer to Palm Sunday and with Holy Week fast approaching, perhaps we can make an effort these days to go even deeper in our own life of prayer. Here are some ideas for things we can do on our own or together at home with our families:

  1. Consider taking some time in the evening to review our day with Jesus, asking him to show us the times where we followed him well and the moments where we could have followed him better.
  2. Pray with some passages of Scripture that have touched your heart in the past or read some parts of the Bible you may feel less familiar with.
  3. Take a moment each day to write down some things you are grateful for and thank God for those gifts and blessings. These are just a few suggestions! There are so many more great things that we can do, far too many to list. The goal is that we are striving to keep Jesus in first place in our daily life and continue to live out our discipleship with commitment and intentionality.

    May God bless us all!!!

    With prayer,
    Fr. Christian

A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAR. 10, 2024

Wow, it’s remarkable how it’s the Fourth Sunday of Lent already! We’re getting so much closer to the great celebration of Easter. The Gospel this weekend is so beautiful and arguably instantly recognizable by its well known verses, “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that anyone who believes in him might not perish, but might have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him” (John 3:16-17). John 3:16 is so widely known that it can be seen on billboards along the highway, the sides of buildings, and even in ordinary media. As with all Scripture, there must be something about that passage that deeply resonates with the human heart… and indeed there is.

God’s love is so great, his mercy so ever flowing, his heart so big – that out of love for us he wouldn’t hold anything back, even if it meant giving his own Son up to suffering and death. If anyone questions whether or not God loves them, all they need to do is look to that very act of Jesus on the cross. God loves each and every one of us as his sons and daughters. There may be times where we might feel unworthy, moments when we haven’t lived up to our best, instances of weakness… but even through all of those things, God’s love doesn’t leave us, but rather, invites us to come even closer to his embrace and experience conversion and forgiveness. Jesus promises new life and restoration to anyone and everyone who turns to him with a sincere heart and makes the decision to follow him. He willingly and happily enters into some of the most broken parts of our life and our world to offer us opportunities to experience healing and grace. Lent can feel like walking through a desert… our lives can sometimes feel like a desert too. We might be genuinely suffering: this truly may be a time that is really testing our faith and forcing us to dig deep to find meaning in the midst of it all. Yet the unchanging and eternal reality that Jesus is there walking beside and along with you remains true. God loves you. You are wanted. You are blessed.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – MAR. 3, 2024

We as humans have many characteristics that make us different from all of the other animals in the animal kingdom. We’re simply not like every other mammal! Each and every person has been made in the image and likeness of God and with that, has been given a particularly special gift: the gift of a rational soul and the freedom to make choices. Think about it! The fact that we have a rational soul is on display every day of our lives through our use of our intellect and free will. When we wake up in the morning, we can choose what to wear or what not to wear, when we’re hungry we can decide what restaurant we want to go to, who to go with, whether we want to order meat or fish! We can solve complex problems, show tremendous creativity, and build advanced technology… and the list goes go on and on and on.

God gave each one of us our intellect and free will so that we can identify what is good and choose to embrace it, while avoiding evil and those things that can take our eyes off of Jesus. The invitation of our faith is to always choose Jesus and follow his example! To move our mind and heart to make choices that draw us deeper into what is good, true, and beautiful. To treat others in the way that we would like to be treated. To make the decision to offer our lives in service out of love for God and love for neighbor without counting the cost. Choosing to follow Jesus is the path to true happiness and fulfillment!

As we journey through Lent, we have the power to use our freedom to put God in first place through our acts of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. Prayer keeps our minds focused on God and our relationship strong. Fasting helps us to deny ourselves so that we can give more attention to God. Using our freedom to be generous to others through our acts of almsgiving helps us to imitate in a small way, the immense self-giving love that Jesus showed to all people by the giving of his life on the cross.

Staying strong in the promises and commitments we made this Lent requires determination, strength of will, and a heart that is open to receiving the grace of God. It’s awesome and inspiring to see more and more people deepening their faith and coming to Mass to receive that grace! Our community is growing stronger and we’re digging deep: allowing
our hearts to mirror the generous and merciful heart of Jesus. Let’s continue to pray for one another as we follow in the footsteps of Christ together as a parish and remain steadfast in our Lenten commitments!

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – FEB. 25, 2024

We as Catholics have been given a tremendous gift. It’s something that we carry with us each and every day and is so much a part of our lives that at times, we could forget that it’s even there. That very real and very important gift is the gift of faith and our relationship with Jesus Christ. This is a time of year when we can really let our faith shine all the brighter by our increased prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. Our relationship with God is the foundation, and our works of fasting can contribute all the more to that relationship and our life of prayer.

Typically when we speak of fasting, many of our thoughts could go immediately to fasting from food, which is true! Fasting from food is a traditional Lenten practice and is important. Even that feeling of craving some food item that we are letting go can be a physical reminder to draw our attention back to God. But fasting also can extend well beyond lessening our food consumption or not eating a particular thing we like. At its core, fasting is essentially an act of self-denial for the sake of Christ. It’s saying no to something that we would usually enjoy or easily have access to, for the sake of offering ourselves more and more to God, to put him at the center, to give him praise and honor.

We are so blessed. Walk into any grocery store and you’ll see plenty of food and items with so many choices it could be difficult to make a decision (for example, when we’re in the frozen section and see 5 different brands of plain vanilla ice cream or many brands of aluminum trays!). There are countless options for clothing, toys/games, cars, you name it! With the internet, we can have the information of the world at our fingertips in seconds. No need to wait… everything on demand. And while there’s certainly good things to say about all of that… there’s also something to be said about making the willing sacrifice to let some of it go during Lent. Jesus has everything! Yet, he chose to give everything and completely empty himself as St. Paul so beautifully writes, “though he was in the form of God, did not regard equality with God something to be grasped. Rather, he emptied himself. Taking the form of a slave, coming in human likeness; and found human in appearance, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to death, even death on a cross” (Philippians 2: 6-8).

Jesus gave everything for us… what can we sacrifice for him?

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian

Our Thanks and Best Wishes to Sr. Josefina! I would like to take this opportunity to express my sincere gratitude and best wishes to Sr. Josefina Morales who has been a resident in our PLC building for the last 8 years and a warm presence in our parish community. Sister informed me that she is preparing to take the next step of her journey and will be moving at the end of this month. Below is a message from Sr. Josefina to our parish community. Please join me in keeping Sr. Josefina and the mission entrusted to her and her religious community in our prayers during these days of Lenten journey! —Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – FEB. 18, 2024

It’s hard to believe that we are already a few days into Lent! Amazing how time flies. We are blessed to celebrate this holy season. It’s a time for inner renewal to take a few steps back, slow down, and really concentrate on our relationship with God. That’s what prayer, fasting, and almsgiving help us to do! Even the tradition of “giving something up” for Lent helps us to go deeper into faith if we do so with the right mindset and from a place of prayer.

Prayer is the cornerstone of our relationship with God. It’s in prayer when we have the opportunity to share with Jesus the things that are going on with our lives and in turn allow Jesus into the mix of it all. Perhaps the most difficult part of prayer is not necessarily finding the words or coming up with ideas (Jesus wants us to be completely honest in prayer… no fluff needed!), but rather, with making the time to do it. Going deeper into prayer begins with making the commitment to God and ourselves that we are going to set aside some time in our busy days to work on our relationship with God. Whether it’s in the car stuck in traffic on the way to work or school, walking outside in nature, or kneeling inside the Church before the Blessed Sacrament in the Tabernacle, the time we take to speak with God matters!

Imagine having a spouse or good friend and never sharing anything with them or even talking to them… I would imagine that the relationship would be rocky at best, or at least start going downhill. Any type of serious relationship is born of trust, mutual respect, communication, and love among many other things. If you’re struggling with prayer or honestly haven’t done it often and want to make a change, start small. Take 10 minutes… or even just 5 good minutes… to speak with Jesus. Having trouble thinking of what to say? Maybe read some Scripture, be inspired by the love and mercy Jesus showed to all he met, place yourself in the story! It’s just one way of immersing ourselves in the presence of God. Another way might be to consider how your day went with the knowledge that Jesus wants to help: What went well? What could we have done better? What are we most grateful for? And if we’re still struggling… just having the discipline to sit in the silence and stillness with the intention to enter into prayer is a great start. Don’t give up easily! Be persistent. The Holy Spirit will inspire if we commit ourselves to trying!

As we journey through these days of Lent together, may the Lord inspire us with a prayerful heart and disposition so that we can grow in deeper union with him and with one another.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian



A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – FEB.11, 2024

One of the greatest challenges of evangelization, of going out to bring more people to follow Christ, is meeting people where they are. Our lives are very complicated! People have different experiences and life circumstances that shape the way they view the world and by extension… the views they may have toward faith as a whole. That can impact the way we can communicate our faith so that people can receive it and understand it well. All throughout the Scriptures, Jesus spoke in parables so that the people to whom he was speaking could relate and understand. He spoke the “language” of the people of his day. Similarly in today’s society, we can communicate the teachings of our faith that have stood firm for thousands of years in ways that people can understand and receive. The way we would speak and communicate with someone in the 1800s is different than how we would communicate today in 2024! Bishop Robert Barron and his “Word on Fire” ministry is just one of many widely known examples of Catholic leaders using YouTube and other social media to meet people where they are. With just a simple search online, we could find countless more examples even from right here in the Archdiocese of Newark!

We are approaching the season of Lent, a time of deepening our own relationship with God and experiencing conversion. If we remain faithful to the teachings of Jesus and his Church, reach out to our brothers and sisters whoever and wherever they may be, use our God-given gifts for the greater good, and live our life with Jesus and prayer at the center, God will use us as his instruments to bring hope, peace, and joy to the world. May God bless us all as we walk the journey together.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – FEB. 4, 2024

As disciples of Christ, each one of us is invited to share the love, joy, peace… and yes, even the challenges of living the Gospel with the people we encounter in our day to day life. That’s how faith spreads! Just think how amazing it is that our faith began with Jesus and his disciples in one region of the world and now spread throughout the entire earth. Now that shows the power of Christ and the message he brings at work! The same power of God is at work today as well.

We all have different personalities, skill sets, and interests that we can draw on to bring the Gospel to others. Are you good at sports? Then try to live and share the Gospel on the field by being supportive of teammates who might be struggling or by taking a moment to bring people together in prayer before a game. Have a particularly intellectual mindset? Then really dive deep into the Theology, Philosophy, and teachings of our faith to make convincing arguments for belief in Christ and the Church. Are you a good listener or story teller? Then take some time to listen to the stories of other people, show them genuine care, and take the step to share a little bit of your own journey and how faith helped you overcome life’s obstacles.

There are so many ways we can share our faith that there wouldn’t be enough space in the bulletin to list them all! When we speak to others, we all hold fast to the same Catholic Faith and the truth of its teachings, but can use our own life experience and stories to lead others to experience an encounter with Christ who
loves them.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – JAN. 28, 2024

I’m sure each one of us can relate to a feeling of being anxious. Our minds are filled with so many things! Concerns about supporting our families and raising children, feelings of pressure to deliver high performance at work or school, and perhaps one of the most common fears of all… fear of the unknown. It can be so easy to get sucked into the vortex of anxiety and sometimes it can feel that there isn’t a way out. Yet, it is exactly in those moments when we feel the most vulnerable, that the Lord Jesus reaches out his hand even more to bring a little peace and comfort.

There is no technology, philosophy, or any other thing in the world that can predict the future 100%, every single time. We as people of faith don’t experience peace and tranquility because we have all the answers to our problems and have some kind of foresight into the future! We can experience hope and peace even in the most difficult of circumstances because we trust that God has a plan for us. Jesus knows the challenges we face now, those we will encounter in the future, and equips us to be able to respond from a position of strength. The key to unlocking inner peace in the midst of adversity and uncertainty is to keep our eyes fixed on Jesus. He shines as a bright light, a beacon that we can be drawn to and follow when all other lights are out.

What has been in your heart these days? Is there something deep down that you feel should be brought to the Lord? Have we made a good effort to invite Jesus into our heart? Just think… if sharing some of our struggles with friends or family members can be helpful (as we hopefully recognize and experience the loving presence and support of others), how much MORE care and support we can feel from sharing with the Lord, whose ability to love and support us is infinite! It just takes some time in prayer and a willingness to be open and honest with God. Some of the greatest moments of healing I’ve experienced came from spending some quiet time with the Lord. Time might be hard to find, especially with our busy schedules, so be creative! Even turning the car radio off and spending that time driving in quiet with God can have a positive impact. May we recognize the love of Jesus for each one of us today and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – JAN. 21, 2024

If we take a good honest look at our lives, I think all of us in some way, shape, or form can recognize a need for healing, for a fresh start, for improvement and growth. Life, our discipleship, is a journey that goes through many phases. At some points along the way in our personal lives, we might feel really strong: things are working out well for us, everyone seems happy, the future looks bright! Yet, there are also those times where we might feel that things just aren’t working out, that there are problems within our family or with friends, and that the future feels dim. There is nothing wrong in admitting that we have some personal weaknesses or struggles and need God’s help to overcome them. Admitting that we need God’s help is a first step toward healing and deepening our own faith! In fact, there is a beautiful passage in St. Paul’s letter to the Corinthians related to this very topic: “…but he [the Lord] said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.’ I will rather boast most gladly of my weaknesses, in order that the power of Christ may dwell with me. Therefore I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and constraints for the sake of Christ; for when I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10).

How beautiful is that! Even in the times when we are at our weakest and need the most help, we are still made strong by the power of Christ. Turning to Jesus with humility, trusting him, and asking for his grace is a part of being a disciple and makes us strong. We don’t have all the answers for every problem, we might not always have an easy solution or a clear path forward… but the Lord Jesus knows how to give us that extra boost we need to make it through.

With God’s grace, we can overcome any adversity- and the individual challenges we face are many. We might struggle with self doubt, anxiety, or fear of the unknown. Yet the Lord remains there to keep us held high. Think of the strength that God gave young David as he faced the monster Goliath. People surely thought he was too weak, that he couldn’t possibly win, and he ended up victorious later becoming a great king. Even more modern figures like Mother Teresa had to struggle: there were periods in her own life where she felt internally empty and alone- in a type of spiritual desert. Yet, she was able to persevere in faith, care for so many people, and bring the light of Christ to them.

So be confident! Stay strong. Jesus reaches out his hand to us in this very moment to give us whatever help we need. It might not happen overnight, it might take time, but when we stand side by side with Jesus in faith, we know that we don’t face our struggles alone. Reach back out to him with faith and hope! Jesus is here for us all.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – JAN. 14, 2024

Well, we’re off to a great start to 2024!!! I would like to take this opportunity to sincerely thank our Music Director Monroe Quinn, our instrumentalists, cantors, choir, and everyone who helped to make our Christmas Concert such a beautiful event for our parish. We are grateful for your ministry and for the joy that you have brought to all of us here at St. Joe’s by your gift of music!

I feel moved deep in my heart when I read Scripture passages where God is calling someone to a mission. Whether it is the call of Samuel like in the first reading this weekend or when Jesus called his first disciples, or really any other time (there are plenty of moments to choose from)! How beautiful it is to be called, to be chosen by the Lord. The Lord calls each one of us by name (Is 43:1) for a special purpose. Each one of us has been given a unique set of gifts, our personalities, our skills to help build up one another in faith, to be of service to others, to bring the presence of Christ into the world. There are so many people today who are searching for meaning, trying to find purpose in their life, trying to understand what they can bring to the world. Jesus brings meaning, purpose, and hope to our lives!!! He gives us our mission and saying yes to Him brings joy to the heart. God calls each one of us everyday to bring kindness, love, and peace into the places where we live, work, and spend time with others. We ALL have a role to play whether we are still in school, working one or many jobs to support our families, or happily retired. Each one of us has a mission!

Yes, life can be hectic sometimes; yes we have a lot of obligations for work or school or our home life; yes there are days when we might not have time to do much other than check things off the seemingly endless list of tasks to do! But it is so important in our search for meaning to take some quiet time with the Lord: to ask Jesus, “What do you want me to do?” We might just be surprised by what he says! We might hear him speak to our heart and think, “oh no way can I do that!” That’s a natural reaction, but the one thing I’ve learned over the years is that when God calls us to mission, he equips us with exactly what we need to get the job done. The Lord will never abandon you and me. He will always be there to help. May each one of us have the courage to open ourselves to Christ and respond with generous hearts.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – JAN. 7, 2024

This Christmas Season, I’m sure we’ve all experienced in some way what it feels like to give and to receive. It is such a wonderful time of year to show our love for each other, and our love of Christ. Families together opening presents, celebrating the birth of Jesus, just enjoying each other’s company. There is such joy and satisfaction in giving isn’t there? It’s a joy that comes from putting the other person first, from really thinking about what they would enjoy, and from seeing their reaction once the present is unwrapped… among so many other things! Truly, as St. Francis so beautifully put it, “it is in giving that we receive.” The wise men brought precious gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh to the newborn Christ to give him honor; they were overjoyed when they saw the star leading to his birthplace and they wanted to do him homage (see Matthew 2:10-11).

I’m sure during this Christmas season, we’ve all received our fair share of gifts and hopefully we have given our fair share too! It feels good to know that someone was thinking about us and cared enough to give us a present or a warm Christmas card. As we come to an end of the Christmas Season and get deeper into this New Year, perhaps we could ask ourselves, “What gift could I give to God?” “How could I give God honor this year?” The gift of ourselves, of our mind and heart, of our love, devotion, and faith is perhaps one of the greatest gifts we can give to the Lord. Putting God in first place in our lives isn’t always easy, but with the help of his grace, we can strive each day to give more and more of our heart to him, to spend some extra time in prayer, and to reach out to others who may be in need. May the Lord bless you and your families this coming week and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – DEC. 31, 2023

Well…we made it! Here we are at the last bit of 2023 and getting ready to make the leap into 2024. We really never know what a new year will bring… but one thing that we can all count on is that Jesus will be walking right beside us, guiding us through whatever ups and downs we will face. Just think, regardless of what we went through in 2023… we are still here now! Some things that we experienced this past year may have been very hard. There may have been losses in our life or things that didn’t go the way we’ve planned. But we are still here! God helped us to get through. We never walk the journey alone, and in fact the feast day we celebrate this weekend gives us a great insight into that! Jesus was born into a family with his mother Mary and his foster father Joseph. They stayed together, cared for one another, and loved each other.

We all were born into a family too! We have our individual families or extended relatives who love, nurture, and support us. Perhaps we might have some “issues” that we need to work out… but in the end, we have God and each other. By the grace of our Baptism, we also have the family of the Church as well as our own individual families! All of us are a part of God’s family as his beloved sons and daughters. Isn’t that something? Just think, the family portrait would be huge!!! God our Father gives us his support and love no matter what difficulties we face. He looks out for us and wants the absolute best for us. He would do anything for us without counting the cost…, “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life” (John 3:16). We begin this new year together walking as disciples of Christ…together as the parish community of St. Joseph. May God continue to richly bless our vibrant, growing parish and all of us who call St. Joseph’s our spiritual home in this new year and always. Happy New Year!


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Dec. 24, 2023

This Christmas and indeed every Christmas, we celebrate in a very special way the faithfulness of God who loves each and every one of us so deeply. Just think, God’s love for us is so great that knowing our weakness, He sent His son Jesus into the world, born humbly in a manger. He knows us through and through, “for we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has similarly been tested in every way, yet without sin” (Hebrews 4:15). He understands what it means to celebrate, the joy of being together with family and friends, and yes… even how it feels to mourn the losses that we have in our lives. Jesus is there for you and for me at every moment of our life, even in those times when we feel most alone.

We as Catholic Christians have a very special message. That Jesus Christ truly lived, that he suffered death on the cross for our sake, and that he rose again and ascended into heaven to open for us the path to eternal life. This is a day of hope. There is nothing that God wouldn’t do for each one of us so that we could experience true happiness… even to the point of sending His Son to die on the cross. “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13).

If this is your first time here at St. Joseph’s, or if it’s been a while, please know that you are very welcome here with us in our community of faith. We are strong together, united by the Baptism that we share as we strive each day to follow Jesus as his disciples. The world needs Jesus. We need Jesus. He is the source of peace, joy, and light that we crave as human beings and we all have a role in spreading the love of Christ to everyone we meet. So, live joyfully in the light of Christ! Celebrate this day well. Yes, open presents… yes, enjoy a great meal… yes, share stories with family and friends. But don’t forget the true reason that we celebrate… the Gift of Jesus Christ to you, me, and our entire world. There is no greater gift that we could ever ask for and receive. How blessed we truly are.

Best wishes for a Very Merry Christmas to you and your families.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A Note from Fr. Christian – Dec.17, 2023

I would like to take this opportunity to give my sincere thanks to everyone who helped us on Friday, December 8th, the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, when the relic of St. Jude visited our parish. It was such a beautiful experience for us as a community and there are so many people who came together to make the day a success, from our dedicated staff members, to our countless volunteers who gave some, if not all of their day to help us (if I started giving names the list would be way too long!). Please know that you and all of our volunteers are all so greatly and deeply appreciated. This is what being a community of faith is all about… allowing the grace of Christ to work through us, coming together as a parish family to help each other, sharing our love for Jesus, and going out to help others come to know God’s love. IT’S INSPIRING! We are so richly blessed here at St. Joe’s.

As we enter the third week of Advent, the last full week before the great celebration of Christmas (since the Fourth Sunday of Advent falls on December 24th), we have a nice opportunity to take inventory of where we stand on our journey of faith. How have these days of Advent been for you and your families? Have they been peaceful or a bit hectic? Do we feel spiritually ready to welcome Jesus into our heart this Christmas? It is a challenging time of year for sure with all of the preparations we have going on for Christmas in addition to our other school, work, or home obligations. But, regardless of how these days have been or what is coming for the days ahead… know that Jesus is with you and has been with you each and every day. Take a moment, even if it is a short one, to acknowledge his presence, to ask for his grace, and to experience his love. He never turns anyone who seeks him away, but welcomes us with open arms. May God continue to bless us all.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Dec. 10, 2023

We are now entering the second week of the Season of Advent! I hope these days leading up to the great celebration of Christmas have been and are beautiful times for you and your families. I‘ve always been fascinated by the changing of seasons… both in the climate and in the Church. When seasons change, the things around us change too, giving a different “feel” to what we experience. The hot and humid heat of Summer is very different from the cold and snowy nature of Winter. The multicolored leaves of Fall are different from the new green growth of Spring. As we move into a new Church season, the things around us change too! In Advent, the green vestments of the priest and altar linens are replaced by purple, there are not as many decorations around the church, we do not sing the Gloria at Mass, the music changes, the readings focus on themes of hope, peace, preparation for the coming of Christ, and many others. We are in a new season!

The days and weeks leading up to Christmas are surely very busy for all of us. Making plans for dinners and get-togethers, going out to try to find the perfect gifts for our family and friends, and even decorating the house inside and out can take a lot of time and effort! All of it could easily get exhausting. That’s where truly entering into the spiritual nature of Advent can really help. It’s a time to joyfully wait for the coming of the newborn Christ. A time, perhaps in our own mind and heart, to enter into a bit of stillness… To take some time each day or week to spend some quiet time with the Lord. To allow his peace and love and gentleness to touch our hearts. It’s surprising just how big of an impact a few moments of silence and prayer with the Lord each day can have! Give it a try! As we get closer to Christmas, I pray that we will all take the opportunity these days to rest in the gentle arms of Christ, and be ready to welcome him this Christmas. Peace and blessings to you and your families.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Nov. 26, 2023

There are a lot of things that can come to mind when we think of a King. Perhaps its an image of a man from a movie or cartoon show, dressed in purple flowing garments, wearing a golden crown, holding a scepter in his hand as he sits confidently upon a marble throne. It could be an image of a strong dictator who looks down on his subjects as he rules his kingdom with little concern for the individual lives of his people. Or… we could imagine a benevolent king, one who rules with gentleness, kindness, and compassion. A person who gives and sacrifices himself for others. A person who desires to know and to love each and every person he serves.

This weekend, we celebrate Jesus as our King. But he’s a king unlike any other. He is a king who is slow to anger, rich in love and mercy- a king who loves his people so much so that he went to the Cross for their salvation, a king who traded the golden crown that would rightly belong to him for the pain of the crown of thorns and the suffering of crucifixion, a king who put others before himself and knelt to wash the feet of his disciples. He is humble and is a shepherd who guides his flock with loving care and concern. He seeks out the lost to bring them home, the wounded to bring them healing, and those who are lonely to bring them company. Jesus leaves no one behind. How blessed we are to be his disciples and strive to follow his example!

The world is in desperate need of Jesus… we are in need of Jesus. There is a beautiful healing that can come from opening our mind and heart to Christ. He reaches out to each one of us with arm outstretched whether we are filled with joy, or feeling burdened by anxiety and grief. There is no problem that is too big or too small for Jesus… he understands and wants to be with us to help. Perhaps as we enter into a new week, we can all make a deliberate effort to open our hearts more deeply to Jesus in prayer and to imitate his good works by doing an act of kindness for someone else. May God bless you and your families now and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Nov. 19, 2023

It’s hard to believe that we are on the second to last weekend of November isn’t it? Personally I can’t believe it. Amazing how time flies. This week we are approaching the beautiful day of Thanksgiving where many families across the country will gather to share a meal and quality time with each other. I hope Thanksgiving day will be special for all of us. As Catholics, the concept of giving thanks or gratitude is very significant in developing and maintaining a healthy spiritual life! If we’re honest with ourselves, I’m sure we can point to at least a few instances where we’ve spent our prayer time asking God for something. “Lord, please help me get x, y, or z; Lord help me, Lord give me the strength…” It’s not a bad thing to ask God for grace or success in our life, but it’s also very important to remember to give thanks to God for the gifts that we have already been given. It can be easy to forget the “thank you!” Even in the Scripture where Jesus heals the 10 lepers… only one of the 10 returned to give thanks: “And one of them, realizing he had been healed, returned, glorifying God in a loud voice; and he fell at the feet of Jesus and thanked him. He was a Samaritan. Jesus said in reply, “Ten were cleansed, were they not? Where are the other nine? Has none but this foreigner returned to give thanks to God?” Then he said to him, “Stand up and go; your faith has saved you” (Luke 17:15-19).

We have so many things to be grateful for. The gift of our family, our friends, the ability to worship together… the list can go on and on. In moments when we are feeling down or thinking that nothing is going right, counting our blessings can have a tremendously uplifting effect. Even on our worst day, we still have many things to be grateful for… the very gift of life, the gift of being called children of God, the gift of knowing that God loves us deeply and holds each one of us by the hand.

One thing that I felt grateful for as I reflect on this upcoming Thanksgiving is you, the people of St. Joseph parish. You are the people who make this parish truly special and the welcoming home that it is. You make up the families who bring vibrancy into our Church! You are the beloved sons and daughters of Christ who are committed to growing in love of God and love of neighbor each day and who want to make positive impacts on the world. It is inspiring to see your faith in action and to have the privilege of accompanying you on your journeys of faith and indeed, being a part of our journey as a parish in following Jesus.

May God richly bless you and your families.
With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Nov. 12, 2023

Almost everything that we do in life requires some form of preparation. Whether it’s something simple like deciding what to make or buy for dinner or things that are more complicated like deciding on a new career. We put a lot of forethought into planning for things that we care about. If sports is our thing, then practice is a priority to succeed. If we want to get a good career or job, working hard and studying are important. If we are interested in a major project like a home renovation, careful planning and selection
of materials are needed. Frankly, life has a funny way of teaching us a lesson when we’re not prepared for something as much as we should be… I speak from my own personal experiences! It’s pretty easy to spot when someone is prepared vs someone who is unprepared. If someone didn’t study for a test, it’s likely they’d get a low grade. If someone keeps skipping practice whether it’s for sports or musical instruments, it’s likely they won’t perform well. Some of those things are obvious. But what isn’t always so easy to see from the outside is how prepared we are in our life of faith.

It’s important for all of us, as disciples of Christ, to make our faith and the practice of our faith a priority in our lives. It starts with the choice to care and to want Jesus to be a big part of our lives. Living a life of discipleship and faith takes work, time, effort… and yes, even some planning! There’s a lot of things competing for our attention these days. So it’s important for us to intentionally and deliberately choose to make our faith a part of our daily life. To see the gift of Jesus and the workings of the Holy Spirit in our midst each day. Perhaps scheduling some silent prayer time on the calendar, even if it’s in between dropping the children off at the game or running to and from the store. Maybe taking some time to read Scripture before bed. How about even researching some things about our faith learning more about Catholic Social Teaching or Ethics or really anything pertaining to our Church teaching to gain deeper understandings? After studying for years in the seminary, it’s amazing just how deep and profound our faith really is! The Lord waits for us with open arms. May we be ready to meet him and receive him with open arms of our own.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Nov. 5, 2023

A few weeks ago, there was a large Eucharistic procession through the streets of NYC, the videos of which are all over the internet. Thousands of people took part. While watching different clips from the procession, I was very moved to see the reaction of the people. Not just the tremendous and beautiful faith of the people walking in the procession, who more likely than not, were fully aware of the real presence of Jesus in the Eucharist – but also the interest of the people passing by who may have had no idea what was happening. People of other faiths or maybe even those with no faith who were casually walking by doing their business. Cell phones were out taking videos of the extraordinary event that was taking place in their midst. People were drawn to the Eucharist. There were no flashing lights or special effects— just the presence of Jesus in the midst of the business of the city.

People are hungry deep within their soul for Jesus and the peace, love, and joy that comes from following him. The world today has so many distractions, from modern technology to the anxieties that plague our mind and heart. We might try running from one thing to another, trying to keep busy, hoping to fill the emptiness with whatever we can find or to distract ourselves from the pain that can be within. But ultimately, anything less than Jesus doesn’t work in the long term. Temporary relief may come, but it is only just that… temporary. Eternal peace and security comes only from Christ.

The Lord always extends a hand inviting us to draw closer. Allowing him into our heart doesn’t take anything fancy or expensive… but it does require us to make a choice and to be firm in that choice. To use our free will to let him in. To say, “Lord Jesus, I want you to come into my life. I want to experience your love. I want to know you more.” Once we make that choice to put God in first place and remain committed to our own spiritual growth as disciples, he does the rest as long as our dedication to following him remains firm. May God bless you today and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Oct. 30, 2023

There’s a lot of things to “love” about life! We can love a particular type of food, a certain vacation destination or place, cars, movies, the list goes on and on. “Love” is a term that we frequently and casually use. But from the perspective of faith, true love has a much more profound meaning. A deep meaning that flows from the heart of God and from our hearts to others. God loves each and every one of us with such a depth that he even sent his son Jesus to us. Jesus, though completely pure and innocent, suffered, died, and rose again for the sake of you and me because he loves us that much. Talk about deep!

As disciples of Christ, we too are called to love and to model our love on that of Christ. First, to love God above all things, “…with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind (Matthew 22:37) and to then, “…love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:39). It’s not always easy to show this kind of love because it requires, on some level, sacrifice on our part and a willingness to put God and others before ourselves. There are many ways that we can show our love for God and our love for our neighbor. We can show our love for God by making the sacrifice of time in prayer or by making the effort to frequently come to Mass. We can show our love for others by sacrificing something we would like to do so that another person in our life could enjoy what they would like. There are many more examples, far too numerous to list here. As disciples we are invited to look into our hearts to find more ways to let our love for God and others shine. As we begin a new week, may we have the grace to put God in first place in our lives, and to truly care for and love others as fellow beloved sons and daughters of God.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN – Oct. 23, 2023

Continuing to grow in faith, following Jesus as his disciples, learning to cope with the many issues we face takes time, patience, and endurance. Despite all of the “modern comforts and conveniences” that we have, anxiety, fear and loneliness seem to be higher than ever, even with technology that allows us to be in contact with anyone, anywhere, anytime. Libraries are filled with “self-help” books with authors who seek to help their readers experience some level of peace in the midst of struggle, yet none of them really seem to be enough. Many people claim to have the answer… yet fall short in some way. In reality, there is only one person who truly knows how to touch our hearts and instill peace. That person is Jesus.

Jesus knows each one of us through and through, “before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I dedicated you, a prophet to the nations I appointed you” (Jeremiah 1:5). Sure, there are many people who know us- friends, family, colleagues- but no one knows us fully like the Lord who made us does. And he wants us to be happy! To really be happy. Not just for a moment or two, not just when things are going our way, but for each day of our lives despite the challenges or struggles we might encounter.

How do we experience this happiness? How can we recognize the encounters with God’s love that we have? Through prayer, speaking with God, inviting God into the different moments of our life. That’s partly where the time, patience, and endurance comes in. Coming to know God better, realizing who we are as beloved sons and daughters of Christ, getting the strength to cope with hardship, comes when we make the effort to put God in first place. Prayer is something that we can do with anyone, anywhere, anytime and is a significant part of developing our relationship with Christ, who always reaches out to us with arm outstretched. Perhaps as we enter a new week, we can renew our commitment to prayer and invite God to touch our heart in new and beautiful ways.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Oct. 15, 2023

As we continue with our Increased Offertory Campaign (which I am delighted to say is already showing positive results for our parish), I feel that now is an excellent time to
introduce a “relatively new” committee that I have created called the “Advancement Team.” This committee, comprised of members who have served or are currently serving on
the Pastoral Council, Finance Council, Fundraising Committee, and other parish groups, has a mission. Its mission is, along with me, to look forward to and to plan for our future as we continue to journey in Christ. In fact, all of the speakers that you heard from a few weeks ago in our witness talks are members of this team! We are dedicated. We have a vision. We are making a plan. Above all, each member loves this parish and wants us to thrive, as does every single one of our parishioners and families. Prior to Msgr. Hubba’s passing, I had asked his blessing for me to start this committee. I am so grateful that the creation of this group and its mission had his support. Now as we continue to look toward our bright future, the Advancement Team has been meeting to plan for some exciting things that will come our way in the next few years (planning takes a lot of time!). In fact, the parish survey which we did a few months ago and the Increased Giving Program in which we are participating was planned and executed (along with our staff) with the support of this team once we saw that our weekly collections need to increase before any of our future dreams can become realities. The workings of this committee are (and have been) reported not only to me, but also to our parish Trustees, Finance Council, and Pastoral Councils. As plans continue to develop and ideas continue to form, new initiatives will be shared with the larger parish community. The support of our families is paramount in anything that we do! We are a community and work best when we are all united. I am excited for the future of St. Joseph’s as we walk together to continue allowing our thriving community to shine here in Bergen County!

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian

Advancement Team Members: Fr. Christian Scalo, Parish Administrator; Carol Winkler, Parish Trustee; Phil DeRosa, Chair; Sharon Murdock, Secretary; Mark Alleman; Gerard Maron; Tom Moran; Mike Petrella; Eric Shuler; Jen Sullivan


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Oct. 8, 2023

Anxiety is a very real experience for many of us these days. Whether it’s “the fear of missing out” that so many of us feel in the era of social media and instant communication, or the concerns we might have trying to support our family/friends through difficult times, or the fear and nervousness brought on due to any other particular reason (insert your situation here…. the sky is the limit!), our minds and hearts seek security and certainty. To know that everything will be ok. To feel like we are not alone in our struggle, but are supported and loved all the way through.

Whatever the anxiety or fear or concerns you may have, and they can be different for everyone, know that you are NEVER alone. The reality is that none of us are ever alone even if we’re the only person sitting at the dinner table. Turn to Christ in prayer. The Lord Jesus is present in our midst. He who loved us from the very beginning, the one who suffered and died for our sake, the one who rose again opening the path to eternal life, sits right beside us waiting for us to lean into his heart for peace. Jesus wants to bring us peace in the midst of fear, security when the things and circumstances around us seem to be falling apart, and company when it feels like everyone has left us behind to fend for ourselves. He wants us to know that we are loved.

We as the people of St. Joseph parish are on this journey called life together. We support and love each other, striving each day to let the love of Christ shine through our words and deeds. We are good hearted people who pray for one another. Jesus is doing beautiful and amazing things with us and for us each day. Sometimes it may be difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but with the grace of God there is no mountain that we can’t climb, no obstacle we can’t overcome, no circumstance that we can’t endure if we bring them to prayer and sincerely ask the Lord for help. Perhaps St. Paul said it best, “have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7).

May God bless you and your families today and always.
With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Oct. 1, 2023

Life doesn’t always seem fair on the surface does it? I think we all have had moments from time to time when we’ve thought something should have happened for us that didn’t, when someone else got the credit for the work when it should have been ours, when a success or honor was bestowed on someone else when we thought should have come our way. Sometimes when we’re feeling like things aren’t the way they “should” be, it’s helpful to think about the mental and physical anguish that Jesus experienced on his way to the cross. He was unjustly condemned, he did no wrong… but he still submitted to a punishment that he didn’t deserve and went to the cross to save us: the innocent for the sake of the guilty, the sinless for the sake of the sinful, the master for the sake of the servant. How blessed we are that Jesus did that for us! He gave us reason to hope. He paid the price of a debt that was not his, so that we could be free. By his suffering, death, and resurrection Jesus brought redemption to us and opened the path to salvation. His death destroyed death, and his rising restored our life.

So yes…indeed there may be times when things don’t go our way or things don’t seem to be fair. It’s just part of life. But the good news is that Jesus understands what it feels like and is ready to accompany us through the trial, to grab our hand and pull us up when we’re down, and to embrace us with arms outstretched to forgive us for our own failings when we come to seek it with a sincere heart. Stay strong in faith! The Lord walks with you today and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Sept. 24, 2023

This weekend we are introducing our Increased Offertory Program at all of our Masses. I am truly excited to introduce this program to all of us here at St. Joe’s! It is an opportunity not only for us to increase our support for the parish that we love, but also to draw attention to the needs of our parish and bring an increased awareness to the spirituality surrounding giving as we move together into the future.

We will outline what St. Joseph’s is embarking on over the course of the next 2 months as well as the reasons we need to address our Sunday offertory collection. Hopefully by now or within the next few days you will receive a mailing which highlights the reason for and urgency of this program. Each mailing will have a confidential reply card included. After prayerful reflection (and discussion) we ask you to please consider filling out that card and returning it to us in the provided envelope, the Sunday collection basket, or at
the parish office.

Below is a brief summary of what we are embarking on, why we are addressing these needs, and how you can be a part of it. As we move forward with the program, you will be provided with more information and updates on our progress. In addition, you will be hearing from some of our fellow parishioners when they share their experiences of our parish through lay witness talks. I sincerely thank all of you who have so generously supported St. Joseph’s over the years and for your consideration of supporting this important endeavor. Your support and presence in our parish community truly make St. Joe’s what it is today – a loving, welcoming, and inviting home for all who walk through our doors.

May God continue to richly bless you for the love and kindness that you share with our parish.
It makes a difference!

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian

Ministry Growth and Outreach!
We have so many ministries to be grateful for here at St. Joe’s; ministries that cater to all ages and are kept alive and running smoothly by the dedication of countless volunteers. We are blessed with a large Religious Education Program, a vibrant Youth Ministry and Young Adult Group, our parish Care Corner, an active and growing Men’s and Women’s Cornerstone, multiple volunteer opportunities, Ministries of Worship, and Adult Faith Formation opportunities. These are among the many examples of how we work together here as a parish and live our lives in a Christ-like way. Our Community Outreach Programs continue to provide services responsive to the needs of the larger community and our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. And we are especially conscious of the needs of the Mission Church throughout the world.

Why must we address our offertory?
St. Joe’s is and continues to be a growing and vibrant community! In order to keep our parish vibrant and serve the needs of our parish community, coupled with the rising cost of goods and services in general, our expenses have noticeably increased. With the active participation of our Finance Council, the expanded ministries and parish expenses are closely monitored to ensure that our finances remain fiscally strong. For some time now, our Sunday collections have been trending downward and do not meet our financial obligations. Therefore, it is extremely important that we continue to remain prudent and proactive as we manage our finances to secure our future.

We invite you to consider……
We invite each registered household to reflect on their current financial support and prayerfully consider increasing that commitment to the parish. A consistent and modest increase from all our parishioners will help us to better address our existing financial needs, as well as plan for our future. Every donation helps and is truly appreciated.


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Sept. 17, 2023

Jesus came so that we would have life and experience it to the full (see John 10:10). He came to break the chains that hold us down including those that way heavily on our heart
each day. Ever held a grudge against someone? Exchanged harsh words? Maybe refused to help someone, or harbored some negative thoughts in our mind and heart after a person did us wrong? It’s true, there’s sin in the world and at times we ourselves fall in one way or another. But that’s not all! There’s also goodness, beauty, truth… there’s the love of Christ that has been poured into our hearts and the gift of forgiveness that the Lord extends to us each day. Unfortunately our “issues” those past, present, or anticipated don’t just immediately fall away all the time. Faith in Jesus doesn’t mean that all of our problems suddenly disappear! It means at very least that Christ the Savior walks with us each day, that we can be secure placing our faith and trust in God, that we have the grace to live from a place of peace and hope that tomorrow will be even better than today. As a parish we hold each other in prayer. My prayer for each and every one of us is that we will experience the peace and joy that only the Lord can give; that even in the midst of challenging of circumstances, we will have the courage to entrust our cares to him. “Cast all your worries upon Him, because He cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7).

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Sept. 10, 2023

One of the things that we are all invited to do as Catholics is to love one another and to follow Jesus’ example of what it means to love. The word “love” gets used a lot. I’m sure we’ve all said or heard someone say, “I love that movie” or “I love that restaurant” or phrases like that. Those are more colloquial uses of the word “love” and are usually associated with some sort of enjoyment or pleasure that something gives to us. But from the perspective of faith, true love is not simply an emotion or a feeling- it’s so much deeper than that. In fact to adequately explain all of the dimensions of love we would need more pages than the bulletin has! Love is fundamental to everything that our faith teaches. In fact, when asked by a scholar of the law which commandment in the law is the greatest, Jesus said, “…you shall love the Lord, your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and first commandment. The second is like it: you shall love your neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments” (Matthew 22:37-40). In the living of our daily lives, love is a choice that we make and is a virtue! In fact it is the greatest of what we call the “Theological Virtues” as St. Paul puts it, “So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love” (1 Cor 13:13).

We can disagree with someone’s point of view, we might not support 100% of everything they do, we might not even be interested in a “friendship” with a particular person; yet, we can still love them for who they are as a beloved son or daughter in Christ. We can even be angry with someone and still love them! And that can have a transformative effect on our own life and that of another…deep within our hearts we all desire to be loved.

Jesus showed us the greatest love, a self-sacrificial love, when He suffered and died on the cross to save us from our sins, “no one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13). Love is humble and gentle, love wants the best for the other, love is patient (see 1 Cor 13:4-7). Doing something for someone else, going the extra mile, giving of our time, our talent, or our material possessions are just a few ways we can show love for others. As we enter a new week together as a parish, maybe we can go forward with a firm commitment to show a greater love for our brothers and sisters, whether it be for our family, friends, fellow parishioners… or perhaps… for someone that we do not even know by name.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Sept. 3, 2023

Well, it’s that time of year again! Many of our college students have returned to school and our high school/elementary schoolers are on their way back soon as well. They are all in my prayers! As the schedules start to become more complicated for everyone, I think it’s really important to start the school year off right by remembering the daily presence of God that walks with us. Especially when things get hectic with homework, sporting events, and other obligations that pop up, it’s important to not only enjoy those things and work hard, but also to make sure we devote time to nourishing our soul by practicing our faith. Don’t forget to pray and come to the Sacraments! It makes a difference for the better in our lives. Even the smallest efforts day to day to bring Jesus into our lives matter and, of course, our commitment to coming to worship Christ in the Eucharist remains important.

No matter what this upcoming year will bring, Jesus will be there offering peace, comfort, and love. Thank you for your gift of faith and sincere desire to grow in love and service to Christ! It has an impact on us all for the better.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – July 16, 2023

Spring/Summer has classically been associated with a time for growth. The days are longer, the temperature warmer, and the climate is right for helping the nature that surrounds us to develop and flourish. Just taking a short drive down the street we can see beautiful flowers, trees, and other plants/animals teeming with life. When the soil is rich plants grow strong, but if the soil has its nutrients depleted growth can be stunted or in severe cases, not even begin. To grow, plants need care, attention, and nourishment. Our spiritual lives too need care, attention, and nourishment as we walk on the road of faith.

Jesus sows seeds for us day in and day out- gifts of grace, words of peace and love through the Scriptures, moments and opportunities in our lives for us to give and to receive love, kindness, and mercy. While these seeds are indeed sown in abundance and without cost, it’s important for us as people journeying as disciples to be aware of the condition (the soil if you will) of our heart and soul. Sometimes our hearts can be heavy and burdened from past wounds in our life, laden with guilt, in need of healing. It is difficult for a hardened heart to receive- kind of like those seeds in the Scripture that are sown on rocky ground and are unable to effectively take root. But the good news is that we are never ever left on our own. If we say “yes” and allow Jesus to enter into our hearts, into those places where life has become burdensome, where things have become dry, where guilt has taken hold… the once depleted and infertile soil can become renewed and ready to receive life. Jesus will gladly give that refreshment to everyone and anyone who desires it.

So why not start the process of renewal today? If your heart has been heavy for one reason or another (we’ve all got something!), take a moment even while reading this note, to ask Jesus to bring healing. It starts with recognizing the need deep within, our own limitations, and simply asking God for his help. Maybe our prayer could be something like this…, “Heavenly Father, we give you thanks and praise for the love that you shower down upon us. You are always willing to bring your gift of healing to all who seek it with sincerity. My heart has been (insert here the particular feelings…lonely, anxious, fearful, etc). I ask with faith for your healing touch to bring me refreshment and peace, so that my heart will be truly healed and ready to receive all of the abundant blessings that you have in store for me. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.”

May God Bless you and your families today and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – July 9, 2023

When the cares of our lives become heavy, where do we turn? On those days when we feel like giving up, what helps us get through? In whom do we put our trust? Our lives are complicated and it can feel like sometimes we are being pulled in so many directions and have so many concerns that there aren’t enough hours in the day to address them all! We might be facing a difficulty at work or home, maybe someone we care for is having a hard time in life and we want to help, perhaps our own minds are suffering from anxiety or fear over one thing or another. It’s common for people to try to find some relief in the things of the world: self-help books, social media, other forms of entertainment. But eventually, even the best of “worldly solutions” falls short. The most secure, guaranteed place to find refuge is in the arms of Jesus.

Jesus wants to help us carry the burdens that we face in our lives. We will never be free of struggles…they’re just part of living life and being human. But, Jesus invites we who are weary and burdened to come to him, and promises that we will be given rest (see Matthew 11:28-30). Jesus will help us stay strong in the midst of adversity, give us wisdom for making important decisions, and send hope in times where things seem bleak. “Cast all your worries upon him,” the Scripture says, “because he cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7). We can be confident that Jesus will help us throughout our lives precisely because he cares for each one of us. He showed the level of his care, how far he would be willing to go for us, when he suffered, died, and rose again to give us a path to eternal life with him. God will look out for you and for me always.

Our job is to exercise our muscles of faith and to have the courage to ask him to come into our heart and help us carry our crosses.

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


A NOTE FROM FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – July 2, 2023

In a few days, we as a nation will celebrate the Fourth of July, a day dedicated to recognizing our independence and freedom as a nation. A special thank you to all who currently serve or have served in the military and their families. We honor the sacrifices that you all have made to keep our country safe and preserve the liberty that we cherish as Americans.

You know… the concept of freedom is not only related to public or civil matters, but also is deeply rooted in our spirituality as Catholics. The freedom that we speak of is not and cannot be given by any individual or group, nor is it a freedom given so we could simply “do whatever we want when we want”… it is so much deeper and more beautiful than that. True freedom isa gift promised and given by God himself which most fundamentally allows us to choose to move toward that which is good and to reject that which is evil. It is meant to be used in loving service of one another (see Galatians 5:13) and is a sign of the presence of the Lord in our midst, for “… the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom.” (2 Corinthians 3:17)

It’s a good practice for us people of faith to take a little bit of time each day to first thank God for the gift of our human freedom and also, to ask him for the grace to look into our lives honestly and see where we are still chained down. Is there an anxiety that keeps your heart restless? Maybe a fear? Perhaps there is something in our past that tries to force us to live in guilt or feel sorry for ourselves? Today is as good a day as any to rejoice in the love and mercy of the Lord and to let him and his mother Mary untie those knots that remain in our mind and heart. To break free of those old, rusty, heavy chains. To begin refreshed and renewed. As a parish we hold each other in prayer and support… one of the great benefits of being part of a faith community! I pray that the Lord will bestow upon all of us a sense of his freedom, peace, and grace that is offered today and every day.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – June 25, 2023

Summer is here! It’s official! Hopefully this will be a time of increased relaxation for all, perhaps a time for vacation or simply spending some more time with friends and family. As I reflect on these past months, I am filled with gratitude for the people of St. Joseph Parish… gratitude for you! We truly have a wonderful parish with people who are committed to growing in their faith and helping to spread our faith to others. We have countless volunteers who selflessly donate their time, sometimes hours, week after week to lead and participate in ministries and other outreach efforts. We have generous supporters who, through prayer or financial means, help to keep our parish strong. Simply put… we are a parish that gets involved and has people who care!!! Only a brief look at our “community” page on our website shows just how active we are as a parish family. The care, dedication, and attention to detail that our ministers and volunteers give to their diverse ministries and to the success of our parish is second to none and for that I sincerely thank you.

As we begin to move into the summer months, I would like to invite and encourage anyone who has not joined a ministry or volunteer effort to consider doing so! We have such a variety of ministries and opportunities here at the parish… there is truly something for everybody. Volunteering not only helps to support our parish, but it also is very rewarding in our own personal and spiritual lives. Has God been pulling at your heart to join a particular group? Are you feeling a desire to get more involved? The Holy Spirit is always around us calling us into action. If you are feeling called to join a particular ministry or parish effort, please do not hesitate to contact us and join in the mission!


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – June 18, 2023

The heart of Jesus is full of compassion and mercy. He looked with love on the woman caught in adultery and gave her a second chance at life, he brought healing to the paralytic and to the blind men restoring them to health, he forgave the repentant thief on the cross opening the gates of the kingdom to him. The Scriptures describe such beautiful encounters with the gentle Redeemer. When he saw the large crowds of people in today’s Gospel, Jesus’ heart was “…moved with pity for them because they were troubled and abandoned like a sheep without a shepherd” (Matthew 9:36). I find it tremendously comforting that the heart of Jesus beats for you and for me; that Jesus wants to reach out to us and to bring his Sacred Heart near to our own heart; that God wants us to experience healing and newness of life each and every day.

We’ve all had different experiences this past week. Perhaps take a moment to bring some of them to mind now. I’m sure some of them were really good, maybe a handful were “neutral” and others maybe not so great. Sometimes we’re up, sometimes we’re down, and sometimes we’re right in the middle. If this has been a week of excitement and joy, that’s awesome! Jesus is with you celebrating too. If this week has been a challenge… maybe things didn’t work out, maybe anxieties were high… maybe loneliness was setting in… Jesus is with you too in the midst of the struggle. Jesus never leaves our side no matter what our present “situations” might be- he is always with us through thick and thin, in good times and in bad, when we are at our best and when we need to be carried along and shown the right way to go. He showed us the depth of his love for each and every one of us by offering his own life on the cross, conquering sin and opening for us the path to redemption. Now that’s love. “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13).

As disciples of Christ, we are called to do our best each day to model our lives after the pattern of Christ’s life. To be people who are understanding of others, to be people who are compassionate and merciful, to be people willing to offer others a second chance, just like Jesus does over and over again. It’s true, we won’t get it right every time. Mistakes will happen along our journey through life. But what each and every one of us can do despite any setbacks we may have is commit ourselves to a life of intentional discipleship despite our imperfections. We can continue growing in love of the Lord and each other with each passing week, exercising our “muscles of faith” by bringing prayer into our daily lives and receiving the Sacraments frequently, going out and helping others have an encounter with the gentleness of God. God gives us opportunities to do all of those things… our job is to seize those moments and make the commitment to ourselves and to God that we will follow his guidance wherever it leads us. May God bless you and your families this coming week and know that whatever happens… you always have a friend in Jesus.


With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – June 11, 2023

Today as a parish community we celebrate together with the Universal Church, the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ. The Eucharist, the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Jesus Christ is the center of our Catholic faith; truly the real presence of Christ, not merely a symbol or representation. Although we see bread and wine with our human senses, we are actually beholding and receiving the real body and blood of Jesus. What a privilege that we have each week at Mass to have the opportunity to encounter Jesus in this profound way! Imagine the depth of Jesus’ care for us that he desires to enter into our very bodies through the Eucharist. There is such an intimacy with Jesus that we experience in receiving the Sacrament; a connection that speaks to the depths of our being where the Lord bestows grace upon us and whispers to our heart that we are united with him, “whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him” (John 6:56).

Amidst all of the doubt, suffering, and pain that we can experience throughout our lives, Jesus desires to come to us and bring healing, renewal, and hope. Let’s face it… life is difficult. There are a lot of challenges that we encounter and plenty of obstacles for us to overcome. Bring those prayerfully before Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. Allow him to heal the wound and to bring peace. Jesus is the source of our hope in the face of adversity, giving us the reassurance that we will never walk our paths alone. May the heart of Jesus, in the Most Blessed Sacrament, be praised, adored, and loved with grateful affection, at every moment, in all the tabernacles of the world, even to the end of time. Amen.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – June 4, 2023

We are people of hope. Our Catholic faith, which has stood firm for thousands of years, is built on a pillar of hope. Where does this hope come from? It comes from knowing that God is always kind, merciful, loving, and forgiving. God doesn’t sit up there in heaven just waiting for us to make a mistake. Rather, he looks upon us with a deep love and affection like a parent who looks upon their child with great rejoicing and a burning love that words can’t describe. The Gospel from this weekend, in one of the more commonly recognizable verses even in the secular world, makes it perfectly clear. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” (John 3:16-17). God wants all people to be saved, to experience the gift of eternal life, to be filled with hope and peace and forgiveness as we continue our earthly journey toward our heavenly home. Jesus’ desire to bring all people salvation showed all throughout his public ministry. Jesus showed it in the way he spoke with kindness to the woman at the well, in the way he saved the woman who committed adultery from a brutal death by stoning, in how he forgave the repentant thief on the cross and opened the gates of paradise to him.

God will do absolutely everything he can to show us the right path and to give us his grace to choose it! Our job is to take the first step along that path and to surrender in faith and trust, like the Lord himself said, “for whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it” (Luke 9:24). We might stumble along the way, we may have moments of doubt, we might not understand why some things in our lives happen the way they happen or why things turn out the way they do. That’s ok… because God has a plan for each and every one of us and that plan is always right. Our job is to believe, to trust in that plan despite the setbacks that we all inevitably experience. To trust that God always has our best interest at heart. To encourage one another that good will always triumph over evil and that the struggles and adversities that we face in our lives will help us to grow as mature Christian disciples. Jesus will guide us… we are invited to follow. May we choose his path today and each day, while also helping and encouraging others to do the same.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – May 28, 2023

We have a very important birthday to celebrate today. One that surely we all would be interested in celebrating as people of faith… it’s the birthday of the Church! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO US!!! This day, Pentecost Sunday, is the day that the Holy Spirit came down upon the first followers of Christ, and the day when Peter publicly preached the Word adding thousands of new believers to the faith after he spoke (Acts 2:41). Sometimes it’s tempting to view days like this as just moments in history – events that took place in a time gone by and are merely marked on a calendar to be checked off. While it’s certainly true that Pentecost was a historical event that was revealed to us in the Scriptures, it is also very much a day for us now, here at St. Joe’s, in the year 2023.

Thousands of years after the events of the Scriptures, the Holy Spirit is still alive and well today, in our world, and in our hearts. The Holy Spirit is alive right here in our parish! We have so many beautiful ministries here with dedicated members and leaders who are striving to grow in their own faith and wanting to help others to grow in theirs. Ministries that extend open arms to welcome anyone who wishes to join them in doing the work of the Lord. What a blessing that is for us! That’s what being a parish is all about. That’s the Holy Spirit at work. We are an active, welcoming community that is growing and being renewed by Christ with each passing week. Why is that? Because our hearts are open to it. All God needs is an open and willing heart to start planting that seed of faith and to kickstart a renewal.

You know… the Holy Spirit continually calls us to action. God invites us to first recognize who we are as beloved sons and daughters in Christ. That’s our identity and is fundamental. That’s who we are at the deepest core of our being and we can’t move too far in the spiritual life without first recognizing that. But then… the Holy Spirit invites us to act and live as those sons and daughters on the journey. To be people of hope; to be people of kindness and gentleness; to be people that will have positive impacts on the world, not just go with the flow. The Holy Spirit guides… ever feel that “pull” in your mind or heart to join a ministry or to participate in a parish activity or to just simply to take a leap of faith? Ever feel a deep desire for something more? Maybe even a call to the priesthood, diaconate, religious or married life? Don’t ignore those feelings… with some discernment and prayer, you may find that it’s the Holy Spirit showing you a new path to take. God will never take you on the wrong path. He always knows what’s best for the one who He loved into existence. God calls us through the Holy Spirit and when we say “yes” and trust in Him, we are changed for the better and will never be the same.

So today is indeed a day to celebrate, and I invite you and your families to do something to mark the occasion. Perhaps take a walk in nature as a family or alone in the stillness to appreciate the beauty. Or maybe make that phone call or text that you’ve wanted to make to reach out to a friend or family member in need that keeps getting put off. Or maybe it’s just performing a random act of kindness for someone else. Whatever you do, do it for Jesus and in celebration of His goodness and His Church. Please be assured of my prayers for you, your families, and for our parish on this beautiful day for our Church and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – May 21, 2023

The Lord has a special message and a mission for each and every one of us. Regardless of who is reading this article today… whether you are older or younger, still in school, working, or retired, a long time parishioner here at St. Joseph’s or just visiting or joining us for the first time: You are chosen. Really and truly chosen by God for a special purpose.

Each one of us by our Baptism has been hand picked by God to help bring His presence into the world and to bring people closer and closer to Jesus. While there are certainly good things that happen in the world today, there is also a lot of suffering, fear, anxiety, and loneliness (just to name a few!). People are searching…deeply longing to find meaning in their lives, wanting to be loved, trying to discover something beyond the ordinary. Indeed, the human heart is a restless heart and frankly, we will never be completely satisfied by anything that “the world” has to offer. We were made by and for God! St. Augustine puts it best in his famous work, The Confessions of St. Augustine: “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.” And this is where we as people of faith can play an important role in helping others.

Through the witness of our lives (by striving to live in a good and upright way), through our interactions with others, through our own growth in spirituality and relationship with God, we can point people in the right direction- toward the peace, love, companionship, and hope that is found in Christ alone. It’s true… no two of us are the same and we all will have different ways of bringing people deeper into relationship with God. That’s the beauty of being a part of a faith community! We can all do our part in a unique way. God has blessed us with different gifts, different skills, different life experiences and perspectives so that we can understand and relate to a variety of people and share our own stories. Evangelization, helping others to become disciples or to grow in their discipleship, involves meeting people where they are in the midst of their current life circumstances- good, bad, or ugly- and helping them to see that they are not alone: that God made them in His image and cares for them, that God wants them and loves them and that God has a plan for them to prosper and succeed.

It’s true, the work of evangelization takes a lot of time and effort, but the fruits of our hard work would be nothing short of amazing! Imagine if each one of us could bring back just one other person to the faith. Our church would be full at every Mass! It’s not impossible… actually if we work with a spirit of intentionality and put our faith in God, we can and will bring people back. Sure we can’t solve every problem, we can’t promise a life free from “issues,” we can’t predict the future. But what we can promise is that Jesus will be with them and us at every moment of our lives… if our heart is open to journeying with Him, striving to make Him the center of our lives, and helping others to do the same.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – May 14, 2023

One of the most difficult things for us to do, yet one of the most essential, is to strive to make Jesus the center of our lives. Now that’s a tall order! We know all too well that there are many things in the world today and in our own personal lives that are competing for our attention. A quick look at our calendars would reveal that right away. We have commitments related to our relationships with friends/family. We have commitments involving our work or school activities. And who could forget the commitments to sports and recreation (super important especially after a busy week)! I’m sure there are many others as well and all of these are certainly important. But…and this is a big BUT… our commitment to Jesus Christ is by far the most important. With God at the center of our lives, all of the other things that we are involved with, all of the things that happen around us, take on a new meaning. When we’re celebrating or enjoying time with friends and family, we can recognize the presence of God’s love in the care that they show to us and the love that we show to them. When we are having a hard time at work or school, if the tasks seem to become to great, we can recognize the gift of God’s wisdom enlightening our minds and helping us to achieve greater successes than we could possibly do on our own. When we’re playing sports or enjoying some time in relaxation, we can thank God that we can experience the gift of freedom which allows us to live and enjoy life to the full.

This coming week, I’d like to encourage us all, myself included, to try to experience the presence of the Lord in the midst of what would otherwise be considered our “normal routines.” Bringing God into every aspect of our daily life puts us on the journey toward truly making Him the center of our lives. May the Lord bless you and your loved ones today and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – May 6, 2023

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; have faith also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If there were not, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and take you to myself, so that where I am you also may be. Where I am going you know the way”. (John 14:1-4).
Such beautiful words of peace and comfort from the Lord. Just think… God cares for each one of us so much that He wants to give us a special place with Him forever. There is no better place to be than close to the heart of the Redeemer. Our lives can be rollercoaster rides sometimes can’t they? Up, down, left, right, forward, backward, diagonal everywhere. Even if we have our schedule all planned out, there is always the possibility of something unexpected happening which always keeps life interesting! That’s why it is so important for us as human people to have something… or more importantly someone… who can give us grounding and security. Who can offer words that calm the storms of our lives and provide a firm foundation on which we can stand. For us as people of faith, that “Someone” is Jesus. He turns no one away, but always invites us to draw closer and closer, to experience conversion, to join together as a community of disciples striving to make a positive impact on the world.

The Scripture says that we are, “a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people of His own so that you may announce the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light” (1 Peter 2:9). We have a mission. We as the people of St. Joseph’s parish, each with our own experiences of life, have a mission. A mission to first experience the
healing, life-giving, renewing gift of Jesus Christ in our own lives- to have that personal encounter with the Lord- and then to share that interior renewal that we’ve experienced with others in our community and beyond. The places in our lives where we had the greatest struggle, the deepest wound, the darkest moments… are the very places where the Lord will give us experiences of His mercy that we can’t help but share with others! There will be calm after the struggle, healing for our wounds, and a light that comes into our hearts that is so bright that no darkness can ever overshadow it. That is a message of hope that we as Catholics can share with the world. Wherever you find yourself today in your mind and heart… please know that the Lord Jesus is with you, drawing you close to His heart, and leading you on the path to true peace and happiness.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – April 30, 2023

We are God’s children, made in His image and likeness. Each one of us, without exception, has been uniquely created and molded throughout our lives by God to be the people that we are. We have different personalities, appearances, interests, skill sets, experiences… the list goes on! But one thing that we all share (besides our common humanity and all that goes with it of course) is that we all have been given a name. When I was younger and even now for that matter, I could recognize instantly when one of my parents or friends called my name. I’m sure the experience is similar for you as well. We respond when our name is called! It’s something that is ingrained into our minds. Our name is deeply connected to who we are as people and having it known by others, especially by the people that we love, can fill us with a deep sense of love and connection.

The Lord Jesus gently calls the name of each one of us and asks us to follow Him as disciples, walking the road of faith with its twists and turns, and trying to do so better and better each day. Jesus knows our name, just as He knows the depths of our hearts, and we recognize His voice because He is the One who made us. God’s voice is very distinct to the human heart and soul. It’s unmistakable. Like the Scripture says, “…the sheep listen to his voice. He calls His own sheep by name and leads them out. When He has brought out all his own, He goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow Him because they know His voice” (John 10:3-4).

When the Lord calls, we are invited to respond with generous hearts. Sure, that’s not always easy! Especially these days, there’s so much “background noise” in our lives from social media, various forms of entertainment, work/home issues, that it is difficult to hear God’s voice in the first place! And after that… responding with a “yes” can be equally if not more challenging. Yet the invitation to follow Christ remains and is always freely given. The starting point is simply to have an open heart and a desire to have stillness and peace enter our hearts. To wake up in the morning with a positive and hopeful attitude that no matter what happened yesterday or what’s going to happen today or what we’re afraid is going to happen tomorrow… that God’s voice will always lead us in the right direction and point us toward what will bring true happiness and peace.

Eternal happiness, peace, and security comes from God and God alone; the world with all the “stuff” it has simply cannot give it the way God does. How blessed we are to be the sheep of such a Good Shepherd who said, “My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish. No one can take them out of my hand” (John 10: 27-28).

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – April 23, 2023

Every once in a while, it’s good to take a step back and think about how blessed we are to be people of faith. That we worship and adore a God whose love for us is inexhaustible, who is always reaching out with a gentle hand to draw us deeper into His mercy. We live in challenging times! There’s no doubt about it. To be a person or people of faith this day and age isn’t always easy. We’re put to the test in many ways by what we see, by what we hear, and by what happens around us day in and day out. Sometimes it can be tempting to fall into negativity, to think that faith or religion doesn’t matter, to surrender to the next cultural fad that claims to bring happiness. But we know that no matter what challenge we may face, no matter how tall the mountain or deep the valley may be, no matter what goes on in the world around us… that the Risen Jesus will always be there. He’s next to us during our daily lives for sure, walking with us like He did for those disciples on the road to Emmaus, but also especially, when we gather together as a community to celebrate the Sacraments and receive His Body and Blood.

We are the people that God has chosen to deliver a message of hope. How blessed we are to have a beautiful parish like St. Joseph’s where we can do just that. We come to pray together, to love God together, and to support each other along the journey- all with open arms welcoming others to join our community. This parish is vibrant and growing! We should keep up the good work. If you know of a friend, family member, someone in the workplace… anyone who would like a deeper encounter with Christ or is seeking more out of life, please welcome them to join our community! Sometimes all it takes is a personal invitation to come to worship or to a parish event to prompt someone else to go deeper into faith than they could go alone. I am blessed and privileged to walk this road with you and help build our community.

May God bless you, your families, and our parish of St. Joseph.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian



FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – April 16, 2023

Blessings and peace to you and to your families on this Divine Mercy Sunday, the Second Sunday of Easter! I hope you all have enjoyed your Easter celebrations. You know, it’s important for us to celebrate these Easter days and to celebrate them well as Catholic Christians. It’s one of many reasons that our faith is so special. We are people of the Resurrection! People who believe that Jesus conquered death once for all and opened for us the path to eternal life with Him. We don’t just love for today or for what we can see with our own eyes… we live for such a brighter future prepared for us with the Lord. We are people who believe that every life is valuable, indeed purchased at a great price by the blood which flowed from the crucified and risen Christ.

Our message to the world and to one another is a message of hope and joy. That Jesus Christ, the Word made flesh, suffered, died, and was raised from the dead once for all. That good will always prevail over evil. That no one will ever live their life alone, but that God will always sit beside us in the best of times and in the worst. Jesus destroyed the power of sin and death, bringing light to those in darkness, healing to the afflicted, and relief to we who are burdened. Not just for the “elite,” not just for the “smartest” or “best looking” of people, but for everyone without exception. God loves and cares for each one of us more than we could ever imagine; no words could even come close to describing the depth
of this love. This day in particular, Divine Mercy Sunday, we are reminded in a special way that God’s mercy and forgiveness is always freely given. It flows like an ever flowing stream from the heart of God into our very selves if we open our hearts to receive it.

May we always walk with the Lord, letting Him into our hearts, and sharing the grace and peace we are given from Him with all those we meet.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – April 9, 2023

On behalf of the parish of St. Joseph, Fr. John, Deacon George, our dedicated staff, ministers, and faithful people, I extend to you and your families our very best wishes for a Happy Easter. This is the day… this is the day that we celebrate the victory of our Lord Jesus over death. The day we celebrate the new life He has won for us. The day we come together as a family, united in our belief that God loves and cares for us and always welcomes us to draw closer to Himself and to one another.

As Catholic Christians we truly believe that God, the eternal Word, the Creator of the stars in the sky and the depths of the sea became man. We believe that He experienced every single thing that we experience in our lives, without falling into sin, “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has similarly been tested in every way, yet without sin (Hebrews 4:15). The events of Jesus’s passion say a lot. Ever felt lonely? Jesus understands… He asked His disciples to stand by and pray with Him during a very difficult time, only to come back to all of them asleep. Ever felt betrayed? Jesus understands… He was handed over to the Roman soldiers by Judas, one of His own disciples, for a mere 30 pieces of silver. Ever felt misunderstood, wrongly accused, scapegoated? Jesus understands… He was put on trial, scourged at the pillar, nailed to the cross for speaking only the truth. How blessed we are as people of faith to be able to say with the utmost confidence and certainty that there is nothing in the world that we can go through in our personal lives or in our community that God doesn’t understand.

The best thing that we can do for God is to love Him in return by giving Him the gift… the gift of ourselves. To make the time to say thank you especially by frequently receiving the gift of His body and blood at Mass. To be people who are loving and forgiving of others because we know that God forgives us so freely and mercifully when we ask, most especially in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. To not be afraid to be a believer out there in the world and put God in first place at work or school or wherever we find ourselves. The world so desperately needs to experience Jesus, and we are the people who can make that happen by accepting Jesus into our own hearts first… and then by making the decision to live our lives well; treating others with dignity and respect as fellow children of God made in His image and likeness.

Whether you’ve been a longtime member of our parish, been away for sometime, or just visiting us for the first time, please know that you are always welcome here at St. Joseph’s. We as a parish community love God and love each other in Christ. We do our best to strive each day to be the people that God desires us to be. We support each other in the good times and in the bad. God loves you so deeply and takes great joy in seeing all of us here together. There is no greater gift you can give to the Lord than the gift of yourself.

May the blessing of God be upon you, your families, and your loved ones today and always. Happy Easter!

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – April 2, 2023

And so it begins…we are now entering into Holy Week, the most sacred time of year for us as Catholic Christians. The events that we celebrate on Palm Sunday, Holy Thursday, Good Friday, the Easter Vigil (and of course, Easter Sunday) are central to our faith. The Life, Death, and Resurrection of Jesus are everything. We believe in a God who loves each one of us so much that He came down from Heaven, “the Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us” (John 1:14). He walked this Earth with gentleness and compassion- restoring sight to the blind, giving healing to the sick, and even raising the dead like He did for Lazarus. He gave a second chance to the woman caught in adultery. He converted the great persecutor of the Christians, Saul and allowed him to become St. Paul- one of the greatest evangelizers known to man. And even while suffering Himself on the cross in agony, He promised the repentant thief hanging on a cross beside Him a place in the Kingdom, “…today you will be with me in paradise” (Luke 23:43).

God loves you. He truly does. We are the people that Jesus had in His heart while He was suffering on the cross. Jesus knew that we couldn’t earn salvation ourselves- the debt of the ancient sin was too great. So with love He offered Himself as the perfect sacrifice and not only that, rose from the dead three days later, giving us a path to redemption and forgiveness even now through the Church’s Sacraments.

My friends, use these days of Holy Week to enter deeply into the mystery, each day moving closer and closer to Easter. If you’re available, come to the Mass on Holy Thursday, the service on Good Friday, and even the Easter Vigil (I know it’s long, but if you’ve never seen it before it’s an absolutely beautiful experience that you won’t forget). These are the most solemn days of our Church year and each day has a uniqueness in liturgy that you just don’t see any other day. May we as the parish community of Saint Joseph draw closer to God and to one another in these most sacred of days. God Bless you.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO, Mar. 26, 2023

Well…it’s getting close! Palm Sunday is just around the corner and then we enter into the most sacred times of Holy Week and the Easter celebrations. I hope that these last few weeks of Lenten preparation have been fruitful for you and your families… but if not, don’t worry! It’s not too late! God is always ready to meet us where we are and help us get closer to Him – any day, any time, any place. We go through these days together as one Church, one parish family of Saint Joseph and we support each other along the way.

As I’ve been reflecting on the Passion of Christ lately, the word “fasting” keeps coming into my mind. After all, by suffering on the road to Calvary and by hanging on the cross, Jesus performed the ultimate acts of self-denial. He gave himself completely for us, denying himself comfort and security so that we could be saved. Prior to really going deeper into my faith in the seminary, whenever I’d hear the word “fasting” especially during Lent, the first thought that came to mind was “great I get to loose weight!” Give up chocolate, soda, some type of food and bam… results. Oh how short sighted I was! See, fasting is way more than just giving something up and hoping for some helpful physical benefit (as good and welcomed as those side effects are!). Fasting is the art of giving something up – food, entertainment, some comfort – for the sake of filling ourselves with Jesus, imitating His actions of self-denial, and developing spiritual self-discipline along the way.

Just think, if we let something go and replace it with nothing there’s a void! Take TV for example. If we give up watching an hour of TV a day, that means theoretically there is still an hour left with nothing to do! That hour could be used for anything, but the best thing to fill it with is something that strengthens our faith. After all, the Lenten practices of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving are meant to boost our faith and trust and hope in God. Maybe in place of TV (or whatever it is you’re fasting from) it’s a bit of scripture reading. Maybe it’s some silent prayer. Maybe it’s using that time to help other people in need or a combination of the three or more! As we begin to close out our Lenten preparations and look forward to Holy Week and Easter, I invite all of us as a community to embrace the Lord’s call to draw nearer to Him, to carry our crosses with faith, and to look for ways to support one another as brothers and sisters in the Lord.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO, Mar. 19, 2023

I wanted to take this opportunity to extend my gratitude to all of you who participated in our in pew survey several weeks ago. We received over 550 results and over 125 written comments from surveys across all our weekend Masses. As we look to the future at Saint Joseph Parish, guided by the Holy Spirit, one of the purposes of the survey was to hear where our parishioners thought we should focus attention by prioritizing five categories (1 most important – 5 least important). Faith Formation was most important in 328 surveys, Social Concerns & Outreach was most important in 103 surveys, followed by Improvement Projects, Worship and Other. As a priest, I think it is excellent that we have a strong desire to deepen our spiritual lives and have made faith formation the top priority! Truly, all of the other categories are dependent on and grow out of our desire to grow closer to the Lord and the invitation to spread the Good News to our families, friends, and members of our local community.

This information and the helpful comments that we have received, including those suggesting some improvements to our parish facilities, are valuable as we develop a plan for the future. As we share this feedback with various ministries, councils, and committees these themes will help to guide our work. There are many initiatives centered around Faith Formation and Social Concerns & Outreach here at Saint Joseph that can help us become even more faithful disciples of the Lord. In the coming months, we plan to share information related to these initiatives and invite all to participate! Truly, the Catholic faith is very much alive here at Saint Joseph’s and I am blessed to minister to you all. Thank you for your love, dedication, and kindness that you show to our parish.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO, Mar. 12, 2023

Well…it’s the second week in March! Our Lenten time of increased prayer, fasting, and almsgiving is certainly in full force. What is this thing we call prayer, anyway? I bet if we got a group of people together and posed the question we’d get a variety of answers. Maybe some would say walking around appreciating nature; others might say the names of prayers like the Our Father or Hail Mary; still others could say devotionals like the Rosary, Chaplet of Divine Mercy, Litanies to the Saints. The list could be endless and those examples are all, in fact, diverse forms of prayer. And that’s the point! At its core, prayer is simply our way of being intimate with God.

Imagine having a friend or family member that you’re really close to, but stopped talking to completely. No texts, no Instagram posts, no phone calls… nothing to keep you together. I bet that relationship would fall apart real quick. Prayer is essential in the life of every Catholic Christian. It’s the method that God has given us to get close to him. It’s our form of relationship with Jesus who loves each one of us unconditionally, who gave His life on the cross to save ours, and who always reaches out His hand to draw us closer to Himself.

The most powerful prayer that you or I can ever make, besides attending Mass of course, is a sincere prayer from the heart: when our heart, exactly as it is, speaks to the heart of God. One can imagine the image of John the Beloved disciple leaning into the chest of Jesus (Lying back on Jesus’ chest was one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved- John 13:23). Our prayer doesn’t need to use lofty words or well crafted sentences… it just needs to be honest and sincere spoken with faith and with the intention of surrendering ourselves into the loving hands of God.

A while back, I wrote about the prayer practice of the Examen- taking some time to bring God into the events that happened in a given day. This time I would like to briefly share about a technique I learned while on retreat at the Institute of Priestly Formation in Omaha, Nebraska. It’s called the A.R.R.R. method of prayer. The A stands for Acknowledge. Once we have taken a moment (the space of an Our Father is a good time period) to place ourselves in the presence of God, its time to acknowledge our feelings. Has the day left us with some good feelings? Perhaps some bad or ugly ones? We get a lot of different emotional movements within ourselves as we live our daily lives and it’s important to recognize them and not dismiss them! Afterward, the next step is to relate those feelings to God (the first “R”). Tell God how you feel and why you feel that way! If we’re happy then give thanks for that. If sad or frustrated, let God know that too. He wants our whole heart, not just the good parts. God can handle any and all of our feelings as positive or negative as they may be. Once we have spoken with God about our feelings, the next step is to receive (the second “R”). I like to say that God takes the lemons of our life and turns them into lemonade! God always bestows grace on those who have an open heart – and this form of prayer is a perfect way to do just that. This part requires a bit of silence so that we can hear what God is speaking to our hearts. Maybe it’s an affirmation, a word of comfort, an assurance of peace to come. Perhaps it is a challenge or advice on how we can become better. Finally, as we come to the conclusion of our prayer, we are invited to respond (the third “R”). The response is typically characterized by gratitude and trust that God indeed listened to our prayer and will help us to overcome whatever obstacles come our way.

This is a prayer practice that has been very powerful in my own life. If you’re so inclined, give it a try! If it is something enjoyable to you then great! If not, that’s ok too. There are plenty forms of prayer to go around and we each have our own style that works best for us. May God Bless you and your Families with His abundant graces and peace this coming week and always.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO, Mar. 5, 2023

I just wanted to express my sincerest gratitude to the people of Saint Joseph Church for your loving acceptance of me in my new role as your Temporary Administrator. I am deeply honored by Cardinal Tobin’s appointment of me to this role and will strive to perform it well. The example of Monsignor Hubba’s servant leadership is something that I will keep close to my heart as we journey together as a parish.

Saint Joseph’s is very special… Why? Because of you. Simple as that. The people of this parish is what makes it truly special and a blessing. Your kindness, generosity, and love of the Lord, is a shining example that our Catholic faith is alive in our small corner of Bergen County. May we all embrace Jesus’ call to draw near to His Sacred Heart this Lenten Season and always.

With prayer for you and your families,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO, Feb. 26, 2023

It is with great sadness that I write to inform our parish community of the passing of our dear pastor, Msgr. David Hubba.

Msgr. Hubba was appointed pastor of our parish on August 1, 2013 and was installed as pastor on September 29th 2013. From that moment on, Msgr served us with singular devotion- bringing forth the message of the Gospel with a spirit of sincerity and pastoral love. Despite his declining health and the debilitating nature of his illness, Msgr was always concerned for the people of St. Joseph. I would frequently stop by his room to share the “happenings” around the parish and he was always listening with great interest and care.

On a personal note, living with and learning from Msgr. Hubba’s example has shown me what it means to truly be a parish priest and to live out priestly ministry faithfully and well. Even on the rough days health wise, I never heard Msgr complain. He had a trust in the love and care that God has for him as a beloved son and priest. He will be greatly missed by all of us here who had the privilege of knowing and working with him.

This is a very difficult time for all of us as a parish and especially, a time to turn to our Lord together as one parish community united in prayer. One of the most fundamental and beautiful aspects of our faith is our belief in the Resurrection from the dead- a belief that Msgr. Hubba firmly held and proclaimed throughout his decades of priestly service. For us, death is not the end, but a path to the eternal life that Jesus won for us by His Passion, Death, and Resurrection. As we mourn the loss of Msgr. Hubba in these coming days and weeks, I invite all of us to keep his memory close to our hearts. To share our stories, to pray, and to look forward to that day when we will all meet again in Christ. He was a good man, a holy priest after the heart of Christ, and a devoted, loving, and compassionate pastor who deeply cared for his parish and people in every way. Msgr, may you rest in peace and hear the gentle voice of our loving God say to you “Come, you who are blessed by my Father. Inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world” (Matthew 25:34).

With prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. JOHN RADWAN

These two brothers were born in early ninth century in Thessalonica, Greece. Methodious was born in 815 and Cyril in 827. At a young age the brothers lost their father and they were raised under the protection of their uncle Theocritus, who was an official in the Byzantine government, responsible for postal services and the diplomatic relations of the country. Being raised in an area with both Greek and Slavic speakers, endowed the brothers with a good knowledge of the two languages for the future works of evangelization. As befitting their family’s position, they received a good education. Both became priests and shared the same holy desire to spread the Catholic faith outside of their country.

In 861, Cyril and Methodius were dispatched by the bishop of Thessalonica for mission to Kiev, today Ukraine, to teach the people about the Christian religion. The brothers learned the local language so that they could use it to explain the Gospel. As a result many understood the message they heard and many asked to be baptized. After two years they went to another missionary project, to Moravia, today part of the Czech Republic. Again, their mission was very successful.

Some officials of the Church at that time thought that it was wrong to use the local language of the people instead of the Latin language in Church services. They complained about Cyril and Methodius and the two brothers were called to Rome by Pope Adrian II. But the Pope was so pleased with their good work in telling others about Christ, that he gave his approval for their work and made them bishops. Cyril died soon after this in 869 and Methodius went back to Moravia to the mission field. During the last part of his life, he spent working on a translation of the Bible, the work he had begun with Cyril. Methodius died in 885. He and Cyril are known as the apostles to the Slavs. On December 31, 1980, Pope John Paul II declared St. Cyril and St. Methodius co-patrons of Europe along with St. Benedict.

Through the intercession of St. Cyril and St. Methodius, we ask the Lord to help us to be respectful of all people, of their customs, language and culture that may be different from our own.

With prayer,
Fr. John


FROM THE DESK OF DEACON GEORGE MONTALVO – Feb, 12, 2023

Saints are people who inspire us. They are role models of how the love of God can transform a life. St. Tarcisius is a saint that had a tremendous influence in my life when I was young and still continues to be a source of inspiration. Here is his story taken from the EWTN website: “Tarcisius was a twelve-year-old acolyte during one of the fierce Roman persecutions of the third century, during that of Valerian. Each day, from a secret meeting place in the catacombs where Christians gathered for Mass, a deacon would be sent to the prisons to carry the Eucharist to those Christians condemned to die. At one point, there was no deacon to send and so St. Tarcisius, an acolyte, was sent carrying the “Holy Mysteries” to those in prison. On the way, he was stopped by boys his own age who were not Christians but knew him as a playmate and lover of games. He was asked to join their games, but this time he refused, and the crowd of boys noticed that he was carrying something. Somehow, he was also recognized as a Christian, and the small gang of boys, anxious to view the Christian “Mysteries,” became a mob and turned upon Tarcisius with fury. He went down under the blows, and it is believed that a fellow Christian drove off the mob and rescued the young acolyte. The mangled body of Tarcisius was carried back to the catacombs, but the boy died on the way from his injuries. He was buried in the cemetery of St. Callistus, and his relics are claimed by the church of San Silvestro in Capite.”

St. Tarcisius is an example of love for the Eucharist – The Body of Christ – and of the courage to defend it against any kind of desecration. At his young age of 12, he understood that what was entrusted to him was the Real Presence of Jesus and not mere blessed bread. Knowing this he was willing to give up his life before letting anyone desecrate it.
He was able to understand the mystery that Jesus is really present in the Eucharist. It is amazing that 67% of Catholics do not believe in the Real Presence in the Eucharist (according to Pew Center Research Survey). It means that some Catholics do not believe that during the Consecration the bread and wine transubstantiates into the Body and Blood of Christ; these Catholics believe the Eucharist is just a symbol. How far they are from what first century Christians held as an undeniable truth, and of what the Catholic Church’s teaching still hold as such. If it was just a symbol, no one would be willing to give up his/her own life as this Saint and many others did. The teaching of the Real Presence is so clear in the Gospel of John: In John 6, Jesus stuns His followers by saying: “I am the living bread which came down from heaven; if anyone eats of this bread, he will live forever; and the bread which I shall give for the life of the world is my flesh.” And when the disciples asked Jesus about this, He replied: “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you; he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. For my flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed. He who eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me, and I in him.” (Jn 6:53-56)

The Catechism of the Catholic Church (1324-1327), states that, “The Eucharist is “the source and summit” of the Christian life. It is here around the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist that our Christian identity makes sense. Jesus that gives himself to us, challenges us at the same time to give ourselves to others becoming bread for others. As the children of the parish are getting closer to receiving Jesus in the Eucharist, we ask you to pray for them and for their families, so they all come to learn and believe that Communion is Jesus’ body, soul and divinity in the form of bread and wine. As St. Thomas Aquinas, said the Eucharist is called the “bread of angels” because it is a foretaste of heavenly fellowship and spiritual eating that the angels enjoy and we look forward to in the life to come.

-Deacon George Montalvo


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – FEB. 5, 2023

One of my favorite things to do if I have a little bit of spare time on my hands is to get in the kitchen and cook! Whether it is a long and slow kind of a meal like a braise in the oven or something quick on the grill… I find preparing a nice meal to be relaxing and enjoyable not just for myself, but for those who will share it with me. Food is something that we can all relate to, so it’s no surprise that Jesus uses a food reference in the Gospel this weekend to make a point! Almost every dish is seasoned, at least in part, by using a bit of salt (unless blood pressure is an issue of course). But imagine if salt itself didn’t have a taste! That’s why Jesus said, “…if salt loses its taste, with what can it be seasoned? It is no longer good for anything but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot” (Matthew 5:13). A meal that is not seasoned, or seasoned by something that has no taste at all, is very “blah.” It doesn’t do much besides provide sustenance. But… when the seasoning is on point, we get to enjoy an incredible culinary delight and want to come back for more.

Friends, we are the salt, the seasoning if you will, of the earth with the mission to bring the presence of God into the world. Each one of us has existed in the mind and heart of God since before creation began. He hand fashioned us, each one of us, with painstaking detail – our unique personalities, gifts, talents, and deepest desires crafted into our hearts by God Himself. We might share the same jobs or can accomplish similar tasks, we might have similar hobbies or goals, but each one of us is called to bring our own unique way of loving God and others into the world… and it’s our mission as Catholic Christians to use our God-given gifts to spread the Gospel message in a way that draws people into the mystery of God’s saving love.

When I think about the state of things today, it becomes very clear that the world is longing for something more. For an experience of love freely given, for a sense of belonging, for self-acceptance and the acceptance of others. But sometimes, it looks for those things in all the wrong places – finding value in the things we do, or have, or what others say about us. But, the place to find love, belonging, self-acceptance is not found in going with the flow of the next new trend or ideology. It’s not found in the subjectivity of our own minds or even in the opinions of others. Rather, it is found most profoundly and deeply in the absolute reality of God’s loving relationship with us and what He says about us. That we are loved, blessed, people chosen for a great purpose.

It’s one of the beautiful things about belonging to a parish faith community! We as the parish family of St. Joseph’s are here for each other and are all on the road to growing in our Catholic discipleship. I got that sense from the first day I arrived at the parish with the incredibly warm welcome that I received and from seeing how people give so much of their time, talent, and material possessions to help build up the Kingdom of God in our little section of Bergen County. We, the people of St. Joseph Church, have the power to make a difference. Just like a pinch of salt adds a whole dimension of flavor to a meal, so too does each one of us add flavor, character, refreshment to the world – and together as one parish, our efforts are magnified. So the question I pose to all of us, myself included, is… what gift or talent of ours hasn’t been used to its full potential? Is there any part of us that seems to have lost its flavor? See, before we can go out and minister to others, we first need to look into ourselves and ask God to enter our heart to bring healing, love and peace. Then we will have something truly amazing to share with others.

May God bless us all as we strive to be the people and community that God has invited us to be.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE PRINCIPAL’S DESK – January 24, 2023

It’s been a little over 6 months since I took on my role as Principal of St. Joseph School. I was warmly welcomed by the St. Joseph School and Church communities and feel blessed to be a part of it all. I am truly enjoying getting to know the faculty, staff, students, and families and building meaningful relationships. My decision to return back to Catholic education was one of the best decisions I have ever made. As a product of Catholic education from elementary through grad school, I thank God every day for giving me the opportunity to freely share the gift of faith with all those I encounter at school. A Principal of a Catholic school is not only an educational leader, but also a spiritual role model. Children learn through modeling, and as a Catholic school leader, I know that my students are learning through my words, deeds, and interactions with others. As we enter Catholic Schools Week, I pray that God continues to bless all those who are a part of St. Joseph School; may we continue to be a shining example of Christ’s Love in Action. Thank you for your continued support in helping keep the Catholic faith strong and alive for our students!
– Kassie M. Pierinelli, Principal of St. Joseph School

FROM THE EDITOR’S DESK – January 24, 2023
HAPPY 2023! I wanted to take this opportunity to say hello, and wish you all a very happy and healthy New Year. I hope everyone had a blessed and joyful Christmas and holiday season. It can be a hectic time of year, and we want everything to be “just right”, but hopefully there were some quiet and peaceful moments enjoyed as well, with family and friends. I feel abundantly blessed this time of year, given the nature of my work, here at Saint Joseph, as well as my part time position as a kindergarten lunch aide. I am surrounded by the buzz of Christmas joy! There is nothing more beautiful than the sights and sounds of the Christmas season. Festive red, green and gold decorations adorning the church, children’s voices raised in song at holiday concerts, and the air of giving lifting everyone’s spirits. And most importantly, the reason for the season, the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is truly a special time to be working at Saint Joseph Parish. I feel so fortunate to be surrounded by dedicated people at every turn. Parishioners have welcomed me so warmly, whether in person, or in email, and those involved in ministries have guided and trusted me with their announcements. I am very thankful to you all, and hope to meet more Parishioners and Ministry Leaders in the near future. I am eager to learn about all the ministries here at Saint Joseph! It has also been wonderful to work with Msgr. Hubba again, as well as Fr. Christian, Fr. John, Phyllis, Gerry and Tom at the rectory. They have been so helpful in aquatinting me with the position, and helping me with Parish news and important information. They are an incredible team to work with! Having once worked at a rectory in middle and high school, this felt very much like a homecoming! I feel honored to have this amazing opportunity to work as a bulletin editor, and be a part of this beautiful community.
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
– Carleen Wagner, Bulletin editor


FROM THE DESK OF DEACON GEORGE MONTALVO – January 22, 2023

One of the Saints that has played a profound influence in my life has been Don Bosco. The Church celebrates his day on January 31. Don Bosco was an Italian priest who was born on August 16, 1815, from a poor family in Murialdo of Castelnuovo. (“Don” is the title given to priests in Italy.) His life was guided by a complete trust in Jesus and Mary. He always venerated Mary under the name of “Mary Helper of Christians”. His ministry was entirely dedicated to the service of young people, especially those who were most vulnerable and poor.

Parents have a vocation to be the first educators of faith to their children. As Christian parents, we are always looking for ways to better educate our children to become faithful Christians and good citizens, to be salt and light of the world. Don Bosco, nevertheless, a priest, also felt the vocation to gather and educate the poor children of the street of Turin, Italy.

How did He do it?
Children of the street are not the easiest or the most disciplined ones. He took a big task upon himself. Don Bosco understood that nothing would have been accomplished in his life and ministry if his mission was not always accompanied by prayer and total trust in Jesus and Mary. Don Bosco knew that these street children were lacking true love. He made sure to provide them with his loving presence and continuously reassured them that he really cared for them. Don Bosco led his children with gentle influence, rather than with strictness and harsh discipline. He inspired good behavior in his boys by encouraging a sense of personal responsibility, decreasing opportunities for disobedience, and praising their efforts to improve. When boys needed correction, he preferred mercy to punishment. He named his education method the Preventive Method. Don Bosco said that he aimed “to make the young delight in God.” That motto oriented all his efforts. He devoted himself to winning the confidence of his boys so that he could prepare them to live effective Christian lives. He arranged for them to be fully catechized in Catholic doctrine and practice. He frequently gave short, on-the-spot instructions about matters of faith. He also trained his boys in Christian service by creating opportunities for them to help others. Before he died, after many years of arduous work and devotion to young people, he said: “She (Mary Helper of Christians) has done it all.”

What we can learn from Don Bosco

Pray for your children always. If you are a grandparent pray for your children and grandchildren, so the children will be open to God’s will in their life. Express your love to your children constantly. Make sure they feel secure and loved. Remember that true love does not mean spoiling them with material things. Spend time with them and be present to them. Parents are called to teach their children the acceptable ways to treat others in the family and outside of the house. Children need to know clear boundaries and rules that will help them act positively and truthfully everywhere. Remember, children are growing up, sometimes they will need to be corrected and disciplined. Always correct with love and mercy. Parents are the first educators of the faith. They are the most influential people in the life of their children. Parents should talk about faith, create family opportunities to share with them the way they are living their faith life. Pray together before meals, and recite the Rosary together. As a family try to come to Mass, get involved in parish ministry (lectors, altar servers, or extraordinary ministers of Holy Communion, Usher, etc.) Seek opportunities to serve together the less fortunate and most vulnerable.

Happy Don Bosco feast! Don Bosco, pray for us!

-Deacon George Montalvo


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – January 15, 2023

Well…here we are again! Back in the season of our Church year that we call, “Ordinary Time.” The major celebrations are over, work and school obligations are back into full swing, and our daily lives have returned to their normal rhythm. If we are not careful, there can be a temptation to just let these days, weeks, months go by really without a second thought. But one thing that we know as people of faith is that with Jesus, nothing is ever just “ordinary.” In fact every day God invites us to experience something new and refreshing because God is always doing new things! “Behold, I am making everything new” (Revelation 21:5). While our daily schedules may be the same and we have a healthy routine that is working in our lives (which is an excellent thing to have), God is still inviting us to recognize His work in us. We really have an extraordinary faith. A faith that speaks of light even during times of darkness. A faith that promises new hope even in the face of adversity. A faith that meets us where we are and how we are, and calls us to be continually transformed into the people that God desires us to be. The key is to keep our minds and hearts open to receiving the blessing…and recognizing the blessing when it comes.

One prayer practice that I find helpful for noticing the presence of God in my life throughout the day is called the Examen. It’s a method of contemplative prayer that is derived from the thought of St. Ignatius of Loyola and has been practiced in the Church for centuries as a means of identifying the presence of God in the events of the day and discerning God’s will along the way. The prayer can be practiced at any time during the day, though personally I find praying it at night the easiest because that is when all of the events of the day have concluded. As with any form of personal prayer, there are many “variations” and “interpretations” that exist. In the following, I detail some general steps on how to get started with this practice.

First, it is important simply take a quiet moment to acknowledge that God is always present to us and is present in this moment of prayer. Whether it has been a quiet day or a rather hectic one, its important to take time for the silence and to ask the Holy Spirit to help us to look at our day with an honest and open mind.

Second, we can offer God a simple word of thanks for the day that we have just lived. Even if it has been a very bad day for us, the fact that we are even able to take this time for prayer is a gift! There is always something to be grateful for even if it’s the fact that we are awake! Then, once our mind and heart is ready, it’s then time to take an honest look at our day. If it is easier, break it down into different parts – perhaps morning, afternoon, and evening. Ask some questions and pay attention to any emotions that come up… What did I do today? What did I fail to do? Who did I meet? Did I fall into temptation? Was I the best person I could be? Could I have done better? These are only a few questions we might ask ourselves…it’s important not to be rigid in the prayer, but rather, to simply allow the Holy Spirit to guide our prayer as we are looking through each part of our day. If there is an emotion or event that God wants us to pay attention to, He will make it known! Next, if something sticks out to us from that day…spend a few minutes in prayer with that event or feeling. Let the prayer be spontaneous! We could feel like giving praise, maybe asking for forgiveness, or just resting in gratitude. Whatever it is, remain there for a few moments. And finally, look forward to tomorrow as a new day in Christ, an opportunity to begin again and to anticipate the good things that God has in store for us.

Our Catholic faith is rich in different styles and traditions of prayer and the Examen is only one of them! I encourage all of us to give it a try. If it works for us then great! It can be another tool that we can use to get closer to God. If we find that it is not our style, then that’s ok too. The main point is not that we are doing this prayer or that one but the fact that we are praying!!! Our prayer is a form of intimacy with God and it needs to come first and foremost from our heart. May God bless us all as we continue our extraordinary journey of faith together as the parish family of Saint Joseph’s.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF OUR DIRECTOR OF MUSIC, MONROE QUINN – January 8, 2023
“Please join in singing…”

“The woods would be very silent if no birds sang except those who sang best.” -Henry Van Dyke

Every weekend, I play the music for at least five Masses, not including weddings, funerals or as a substitute for other organists at nearby parishes. While playing so many Masses can indeed be demanding, I feel strongly that being a Director of Music is a position that is an honor to have. In addition to always working to improve my playing, as well as accompanying each cantor to the best of my ability, I will sometimes take a moment to look out at YOU, the congregation. For instance, if a parishioner doesn’t sit in their “usual pew,” it catches my attention. Or if a 10:30 am family suddenly shows up at a 5:00 pm Mass, it can put a brand-new spin on my whole weekend! But the main thing I watch for among the assembly is to see if people are singing.

My primary mission, besides being liturgically correct and picking music that is in line with Msgr. Hubba’s vision for our parish, is my desire for people to sing. Because the first two qualifications should be “no brainers” for any Director of Music, the third one, the people’s sung participation at Mass, is paramount. When the priest speaks the words “The Lord be with you” we respond as a matter of course “and with your Spirit.” Suppose the celebrant chanted this instead of speaking it? We would respond by singing the reply, “and with your Spirit.” With song we are still praying, just with words set to notes. Sung prayer is still prayer. Sing to the Lord: Music in Divine Worship, the official document on the function of music at Mass published in 2007 by the USCCB states: “The full and active participation by all the people is the aim to be considered before all else, for it is the primary and indispensable source from which the faithful are to derive the true Christian spirit.”

This is why, when introducing a new piece of music, the cantor and I almost always rehearse it with the congregation prior to Mass—to give everyone a chance to be familiar with the melody and encourage all to sing. For those who don’t sing at Mass, perhaps singing isn’t your “thing.” I get it. I am one of the world’s worst dancers. (Only slightly better than Elaine on Seinfeld.) So, if it were dancing instead of singing that was encouraged at Mass, I would be extremely uncomfortable doing so. Which leads me to the quote which opens this article. Henry Van Dyke composed the lyrics to the popular hymn, “Joyful, Joyful We Adore Thee,” with melody supplied by Beethoven. If we were to paraphrase Van Dyke’s beautiful words, we might find ourselves sadly saying “Saint Joseph Church would be very silent if no parishioners sang except those who sang best.”

But do be mindful of singing TOO well at Mass. Several of our current adult choir members were recruited because I heard them singing beautifully from the pews—and we’ve got some seats left!
-Monroe


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – Jan. 1, 2023

What does it mean to begin again? Much of the conversation around this time of the year, and understandably so, is about having a fresh start – remembering the past year with its ups and downs and looking forward to the new year with joyful expectation. Looking back on this past year, I feel deeply moved with gratitude. Among a plethora of things, I am grateful for being a part of this beautiful parish. I am grateful that we have such loving and caring people who really put their heart and soul into their faith and community, and I am grateful that we have an amazing staff who is dedicated to the mission of our parish to spread the Gospel message.

I think it is really special when January 1 falls on a Sunday. What better way to start off the new year than with an attitude of faith at Mass with the Lord. To put God in first place. Who knows what 2023 will look like. I have no idea! The world is a complicated place… and we are all complicated people. Undoubtably there will be both good moments and bad moments – our lives and circumstances aren’t perfect. Yet in the midst of it all, God will walk right by our sides pouring out abundant blessings if we are ready to seek them out and receive them. We are a people of hope and we put our faith and trust in God who never disappoints.

I truly believe that God has some amazing blessings in store for all of us as a parish community, looking toward the future in 2023 and beyond. We have all been through a lot, and yet here we are together, united, and determined to be people who strive every day to love God and one another more and more. This year will bring us many opportunities to love, to uplift, to continue our journey to becoming the people and parish that God calls us to be. I pray that God’s abundant blessings will be upon you and your families as we together, step into 2023.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO – CHRISTMAS 2022

On behalf of our pastor, Msgr. Hubba, Fr. John, Deacon George, myself, and our entire parish staff, I want to extend our best wishes to you and your families for a very Merry Christmas. Christmas is such a special time of year to be with family and friends and to share the love we have for each other. We truly have something wonderful to celebrate here. Love was born this day. True, pure, and perfect Love that stands by our side in good times and in bad. A love that can never be diminished or overcome. The light has come, the light that shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it (Jn 1:5). That means that no matter how hard life has been, no matter what has happened to us or around us, the gift of Jesus Christ we celebrate this Christmas will always endure and we, His beloved sons and daughters, will always be under the shelter of His care.

Enjoy those celebrations with friends and family today, or even just a quiet relaxing day at home. It’s so important for all of us especially after the struggles that these last few years have brought. But take a little bit of time to remember the real reason that we are celebrating. The presents, snow (if there is any), and parties are only a tiny part of what today is all about. It is firstly about our relationship with Jesus and the people He has put into our lives. Without Jesus, Christmas wouldn’t even be a thing! We celebrate because God cares for us so much that He chose to become a human person – with everything that entails. His hands got dirty just like ours; He experienced the whole range of our emotions from the highest highs to the lowest lows; He started off crawling and walked by putting one foot in front of the other just like we do. He showed us what it means to genuinely love each other, to sacrifice for one another, to put the other person and their needs before our own, For God so loved the world that He gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life (Jn 3:16).

Jesus always walks by our side, each and every day, whether we realize and acknowledge it or not. Any time we show love, even the tiniest bit, to each other and even to ourselves, we are reflecting the grace of God at work in our hearts. No one is perfect… that’s why we need Jesus the Savior! Life is hard, I know. We all have our strengths and of course our weaknesses. We have experienced genuine sufferings in our lives and have seen them in the lives of others. We might even struggle with faith or believing at all sometimes because of what we see going on around us. Jesus does not leave us alone in the struggle. He draws even closer and wants us to experience the peace and healing that only He can give. In this world you will have trouble, Jesus said, But take heart! I have overcome the world (Jn 16:33).

If you’ve felt far from God these last days, months, or even years; if you’ve felt discouraged by what is going on in the world; if you’ve felt uncertain about what the future will be… take hope in the birth of the newborn, pure, and innocent Christ today. He came into this world for you and for me. We are all invited to strive to make Him the center of our lives. It’s a daily struggle for all of us, but well worth it. He came so that we could have happiness and the fullness of life. He wants us to be happy and the way to do it is to keep God in first place. Being a person who chooses to live and actively practice our faith doesn’t mean all our problems go away (I wish that was true!!!). In fact, Jesus never promised that we would have an easy life, but He did promise that He would always be with us – behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age (Matt 28:20). We are all on a journey, putting one foot in front of the other, striving to be the best people that we can be – and Jesus walks with each one of us along the road with all its twists and turns and unexpected moments. What He asks in return, is that we have the faith to put our trust in Him – in what is Good and True and Beautiful. May this Season of Christmas be a time of renewal for all of us as we celebrate the great gift of God’s unlimited love.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


FROM THE DESK OF DEACON GEORGE MONTALVO – December 18, 2022

When my son was a child, there were a lot of decorations around our house that were set up during Thanksgiving week. The advent wreath, and the Christmas tree are still a family endeavor, but our favorite moment was and even now is setting up and blessing the Nativity set.

Advent, for us Catholic Christians, means a time to prepare for the coming of the Lord. The church gives us this time as an awareness of the great gift of Christmas in our lives. It wants us to remember that Jesus, who is the greatest gift from the Father, the one who was born many years ago in Bethlehem, wants to be alive in our lives and in our hearts. Everywhere we go now, we see Christmas lights. In the houses, on the streets and in the stores. Jesus, who is the light of the world, wants to light up our lives. He wants to light up our darkness and guide us to green pastures (Psalm 24) where we can find solace and rest.

Advent is a time for evaluating and examining our year. It is time for looking at what we’ve done right, what has worked and for looking at those things we did not finish, or what has failed. However, what is most important is taking the opportunity to set new goals for the coming year for our lives, including our spiritual lives. In the hecticness and stress that Christmastime brings to our lives (shopping, gift wrapping and family gatherings), may we find the time to reflect with our families. May we see the importance of this season and remind ourselves that Jesus is the reason for this season.

May you and your family have a blessed Christmas, and may Jesus be born in your hearts and become the never-ending Joy in your lives!

-Deacon George Montalvo


FROM THE DESK OF FR. JOHN RADWAN – December 11, 2022

Saint of the week: December 7 – Memorial of Saint Ambrose, Bishop and Doctor of the Church (c. 337-397)
Patron Saint of Milan and beekeepers

Saint Ambrose, also known as Aurelius Ambrosius, is one of the four original doctors of the Church. He was the Bishop of Milan and became one of the most important theological figures of the 4th century. Ambrose was born around 340 AD to a high-noble Roman family. He grew up with his siblings, Satyrus and Marcellina, in Trier, Belgic Gaul (present-day Germany). He was educated in Rome, where he studied law, literature and rhetoric. At a young age he was noticed as a great future influential person. Ambrose received a place on the council, like his father, and was made consular prefect, the Governor, of Liguria and Emilia, Northern Italian provinces with headquarters in Milan, the then second capital of Italy.

Ambrose remained Governor until 374 when he became the Bishop of Milan. After the former Bishop of Milan died, who was siding with Arianism, Ambrose attended the election to prevent any uproars between the Nicene Catholic Church and the Arians-heretics. While giving an address, the assembly began calling for him to become the next bishop. First, he attempted to hide and decline the nomination, but his colleagues gave him up. Within a week’s time, Ambrose was ordained and duly consecrated bishop of Milan on December 7, 374. At this time, he went on to study theology as a presbyter of Rome. Using his intellect along with his knowledge of Greek, he took the time to study the Old Testament and Greek authors. Although Ambrose came late to the study of theology, his scholarly personal ability enabled him to master it quickly. He wrote works refuting Arianism, others explaining on the True Nature of Christ and the Holy Spirit, and still others on the Sacraments, virginity, ethics, Sacred Scripture, penance, and the duties of the clergy. He used all of this while preaching. His abilities impressed Augustine of Hippo, who previously thought poorly of Christian preachers. In 387, Ambrose baptized Augustine. He said about himself; in baptizing Augustine, Ambrose harvested what the Holy Spirit had long cultivated.

Bishop Ambrose passed away on April 4, 397; his body remains in the church of St. Ambrosio in Milan till today. St. Ambrose was generous to the poor. He considered them not a group of outsiders, but rather those of the people most dear to him. Giving to the poor was just a repayment of God’s resources, which were intended for everyone equally. He introduced reforms in the order and manner of public worship. He was known for his “liturgical flexibility that kept in mind that liturgy was a tool to serve people in worshiping God, and ought not to become a rigid entity that is invariable from place to place.”

The Theological treatises of Ambrose had great influences on Popes Damasus, Siricius and Leo XIII. Ambrose studied largely on the Virginity of Mary and her role as Mother of God. He viewed celibacy as superior to marriage. Sermons were Ambrose’s main literary output. They were acclaimed as masterpieces of Latin eloquence, and they remain a quarry for students of the transmission of Greek philosophy and theology in the West. By such sermons, Ambrose gained his most notable convert, Augustine, afterward bishop of Hippo in North Africa and destined, like Ambrose, to be revered as a doctor (teacher) of the church.

Augustine went to Milan as a skeptical professor of rhetoric in 384. When he left, in 388, he had been baptized by Ambrose. St. Ambrose is credited with composing the hymn “Te Deum,” which is believed to have been written when he baptized Augustine of Hippo. Thank God for the life of Saint Ambrose, the Doctor of the Church.
St. Ambrose – pray for us! St. Augustine – pray for us!

-Fr. John Radwan


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO, December 4, 2022

It’s amazing how time flies! So hard to believe that we are officially in our first weekend of December. One week of Advent is behind us and the countdown to Christmas is very much alive with all the excitement for the awaiting joys with our family and friends. It’s good to enjoy this time – to make the Christmas cookies (and of course eat them!), to shop for presents, to listen to the music of the season. It’s a time when we are really thinking about making ourselves and others happy- and we could all use a boost of happiness! But in the midst of all that business, it’s also important to take time to focus on the most important part of our preparation- the part that can make us truly happy on the deepest level and that’s making our heart ready to receive the newborn Christ, to have our faith rekindled, to put God in first place.

Our faith in Jesus Christ and our readiness to receive it more deeply in our lives is the greatest path to human happiness. Nothing can replace it or even come close. Imagine how beautiful it is to know that we have a God who chose to become like us- to become a human in all things but sin. Jesus experienced it all- the joys of celebration like at the Wedding Feast in Cana, the sorrows of life at the death of his friend Lazarus, and the sufferings/humiliation/pain that we all have in our lives, especially by his death on the Cross. As we enjoy this time together as a parish family, I’d like to encourage each one of us, myself included, to make it a time of prayer. It could be as simple as saying a small prayer for the person for whom we are buying the gift or making the decision to listen even more carefully to the readings and prayers at Mass. The little expressions of prayer that we intentionally make add up and go a long way to making our hearts ready to enjoy Christmas and our life as Catholic Christians. May God abundantly bless us all, our families and our friends during these holy days of Advent.

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 27, 2022

Advent is a season crowded with religious themes in its four brief weeks. There is so much for us to do, and at a time when life is filled with so many other activities that vie for our attention, such as planning menus, shopping for gifts and arranging schedules for visiting and traveling. We can become half-exhausted merely thinking of it all.

Father Augustin George was a French theologian and a biblical scholar who played an important part in creating the acclaimed study notes for the original edition of the Jerusalem Bible. He pointed out the chief ingredients of the delicious stew that is Advent, including its summation of the expectation of a Savior, its call to repentance and its vision of hope as we look to God’s judgment:
For the prophets the essential point is to proclaim God’s mastery over history and his imminent appearance in glory; his appearance requires that people be converted if they wish … to enjoy the salvation he will give to his faithful ones…. Throughout both Testaments, the Bible proclaims that history has meaning, that it is moving toward an encounter with God, and that God’s judgment will definitively establish his holy people. The various depictions of the judgment are not meant to describe it so much as to summon men to a conversion in faith. Then, in Jesus Christ, they will receive the wondrous and mysterious salvation that God offers them.

This is a fine description of this holy season’s global meaning. But we should also consider something Father Eugene Boylan pointed out in his modern spiritual classic, “This Tremendous Lover”: We must remember that [God’s] love for men is not merely for humanity in general. God is in love with each human individual, personally and particularly. It is essential to remember that fact. Each of us can rightly regard our Lord’s Heart and interest as centered on our own self, for our Lord would have undergone all his passion for any one of us, and each of us was present to his mind just as clearly and significantly as if there were no one else to redeem.

Why not treat the blessed jumble of Advent in a very personal way, seeing its riches as immediately meant for each one of us?

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 20, 2022

Tuesday is the memorial of St. Cecilia, who, with St. Gregory the Great, is the patron saint of music. Since we have no documented information about her until the 5th century, we have to be satisfied with the dim heritage of legend, which informs us that she was martyred in the early 3rd century. She came from a Roman family that arranged a marriage for her to a man named Valerian despite her wish to devote her life to Christ. On the wedding day, Cecilia sang to God “in her heart,” praying for help. When she and Valerian were alone after the wedding, Cecilia refused to consummate the marriage, telling her new husband that she was under the protection of an angel, whom Valerian would see if he were to be baptized. So he sought out Pope Urban I and requested the sacrament, which Urban immediately granted him. When Valerian’s brother arrived soon after, he too was convinced to approach the pope and ask to be baptized, which he was.

From then on, the two young men devoted themselves to doing charitable works, and were eventually hauled before the Roman court, where they insisted on practicing their Christian faith. They, and soon after, Cecilia, were condemned to death. St. Cecilia has been a very popular saint, including with eminent artists. Chaucer, Dryden, Pope and Auden have written verses about her; Purcell, Handel and Benjamin Britten have celebrated her in music; and Fra Angelico and Raphael have chosen her for paintings. Some of Europe’s most renowned churches have mosaics, frescoes or stained glass portraying her. Our own church has one of St. Cecilia’s symbolic attributes, a stained-glass harp, although it is not readily visible since it is located off the stairs that lead up to the choir loft.

W. H. Auden’s “Anthem for St. Cecilia’s Day” includes verses that remind us of the saint’s continuing influence on our music:
Blessed Cecilia, appear in visions
To all musicians and inspire:
Translated Daughter, come down and startle
Composing mortals with immortal fire.


-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 13, 2022

The biblical Holy Land was about the size of New Jersey, but with more striking geographical features. The main ones run north and south, although they are cut through with some important valleys that run east to west. A key presence are the land’s mountain ridges, which have a crucial effect on the weather. The land to their west benefits from the Mediterranean Sea and is good for farming and raising sheep, but the rains have little influence on the eastern side of the mountains, and quickly turn to deserts, some of them as harsh as the Earth contains.

We are near the end of this liturgical year, in which the Gospel of Luke has been emphasized. Its concluding chapters present the life of Jesus as a journey to Jerusalem and the cross. He passes through Jericho, where he has a memorable encounter with the tax collector Zacchaeus. Jericho is near the Jordan River where it passes into the Dead Sea, 1,300 feet below sea level, the lowest place on Earth. Galilean Jews often chose the Jordan River route to Jerusalem instead of the more direct way through Samaria to avoid the long-standing bad feelings of encountering a people who were half-Jewish. (See Lk 9, 53-55, Jn 4,9.)

A road much used by devout Jews on their way to Jerusalem for the three great pilgrimage feasts juts off from the vicinity of Jericho. The distance to the Mount of Olives, where the worshippers could marvel at the splendor of the great temple below, was just over 15 miles, but the trek was difficult. The Temple, which Psalm 48:2 describes as “the holy mountain, fairest of heights, the joy of all the earth,” was about 2,450 feet above sea level and the Mount of Olives almost 300 higher than that, and there was no source of water along the way. To the right was the forbidding, harsh Judean desert.

The Episcopalian Bishop James Pike met his death there in September of 1969 after his car broke down in its desolate hills. Bishop Pike, a frequent guest on the media of his day, was a flamboyant dissenter from mainline Christian doctrines and biblical interpretations. As the ancient pilgrims climbed over 3,300 feet toward Jerusalem, they sang what were called the “Psalms of Ascent” (Ps. 120-135) in their joyous anticipation. This can be a fine inspiration for us to do our best to praise God with our singing each Sunday at Mass.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 6, 2022

The Irish have an expression, “the wild geese.” It originally came from the poetry of Michael Joseph Barry and referred to soldiers who fought unsuccessfully to restore James II to his throne and who then fled to the European continent near the end of the 17th century. The term is also sometimes applied to other emigrants, for example, men who have followed the occupation of mercenary or people who have left their native land to pursue economic opportunities in other countries, including those who judged that they had little choice but to leave when the great Irish famine struck. But the Irish were great travelers long before that.

In the 12th century, and even considerably before that, many scholarly Irish monks went to Europe, founding or enriching monastic foundations in, among other places, Lindisfarne (England); Vienna, Prague; St. Gall (Switzerland); and in Wuzburg, Nuremberg and Reichenau (Germany). The latter is on a beautiful island in Lake Constance, and is most famous for the presence of Blessed Herman the Cripple, who is traditionally credited with creating the beautiful “Hail, Holy Queen” prayer.

Reichenau owed its fame to Irish scholars. One of them left a notebook that contains delightfully human verses about the pet cat he kept:
I and Pangur Ba n my cat, ‘Tis a like task we are at:
Hunting mice is his delight, Hunting words I sit all night. …
So in peace our task we ply, Pangur Ba n, my cat and I;
In our arts we find our bliss, I have mine and he has his.

St. Paul has important verses right before his immortal description of love. They remind us that we all have contributions to make to the Body of Christ that is the Church—and they are far from exhaustive about what we can do to make it more effective: “Now you are Christ’s body, and individually parts of it. Some people God has designated in the church to be, first, apostles; second, prophets; third, teachers; then, mighty deeds; then gifts of healing, assistance, administration, and varieties of tongues.” (1 Cor 12, 27-28)

We should all be thinking of what we can do for Jesus Christ. Our efforts are needed.


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 30, 2022

Tuesday is All Saints Day, a holy day of obligation. It honors all of God’s “holy ones,” whether they are famous or not, or whether they are canonized (formally declared to be in heaven) or not. One of them is St. Cyprian. Little is known about Cyprian’s early life. He came from a family of Carthage that was well off, possibly of senatorial rank. Like St. Augustine, he became a teacher of rhetoric. Only rather late in his life did he become a Christian. He became the bishop of Carthage in the year 248, just two years before violent persecutions in the reign of the emperor Decius. When the martyrdoms began, Cyprian’s reaction was to get out of town. He said that he received a message in a dream to do so, since he could better care for the needs of his flock at a distance, something that sounds suspiciously like an attack of the nerves that, I imagine, might beset any of us in such dangerous circumstances—who can say?

But Cyprian, like St. Peter after his cowering before the slave girl’s uncomfortable questions after Jesus’ arrest, made up for his timid behavior by returning to his duties. Cyprian made up his mind to abandon his nice gardens and vineyards for a jail cell, resolving to face the prospect of martyrdom bravely, and even to situate himself in the path of the madness that then proceeded from the courts. A few years later, when another murderous persecution of Christians erupted in 257, Cyprian was hauled before the authorities, where he refused to offer the required sacrifices to the emperor. He was duly sentenced to death by beheading, after which he replied, “Thanks be to God,” and bravely met his fate.

After the first massacres of Christians that disturbed Cyprian’s episcopal ministry, a terrible plague broke out in Carthage, and the dead and dying could be found throughout the city streets. It was then that Cyprian wrote his work On Mortality, in which he said: “Only in the heavens above are to be found true peace, sure repose, constant, enduring and eternal safety. There is our dwelling, there is our home. Who is there who would not hasten towards it? There a great multitude of the beloved await us: innumerable hosts of fathers, brothers, daughters and sons. There, too, is the glorious choir of the apostles, and the exulting prophets, and the countless multitudes of martyrs, crowned now with victory after their wars and their sufferings, and there you will find the triumphant virgins, and the merciful enjoying their rewards. Let us hasten thither with ardent desire, coming face to face with Christ. After the earthly comes the heavenly; after the small comes the great; after the temporary comes the eternal.

St. Cyprian recovered commendably from his earlier display of weakness. So many times in life what is important is not that we have failed and sinned, but that, with God’s help, we persevere. He certainly did so, and deserves our admiration for it.



-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 23, 2022

One of the most irksome but unavoidable duties of suburban homeowners at this time of year is to reactivate the rakes and leaf blowers as the summer’s greenery departs, or to pay someone else to handle the problem. If you take care of this yourself, maybe it’s a good idea to regard the work as a healthful exercise. St. Josemaria Escrivá, who was canonized not long ago, in his collection of a thousand brief thoughts entitled The Way, asks, in one of them: “Have you seen the dead leaves fall in the sad autumn twilight? So fall souls each day into eternity. One day the falling leaf will be you.

Each year on All Souls Day (November 2), when the Church remembers those who have died, our parish has a special Mass to pray for those who have had their funerals here and those who are relatives and friends of our parishioners no matter where their funerals took place. We have sent letters of invitation to the closest family member of each person whose funeral took place at St. Joseph’s unless the next-of-kin lives very far away. All their names are read aloud at the Mass. Beyond those, we rely on your submissions of the names of those who have died since last November 2. We need them by October 25 to prepare the list our readers will rely on.

Our belief that life continues eternally beyond death is one of the key Catholic convictions. As St. Cyril of Jerusalem reminded us, early in the history of our religion, “The time to die is also the time to live.” For us, death is an intensified union with God and those who belong to him. As St. Augustine, one of the most eloquent of all the saints, declared so helpfully: “After death, true life; after desolation, true consolation; a life which delivers our souls from death and a consolation which restrains our eyes from tears.

– Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 16, 2022

Gerard Manley Hopkins (1844-1889), one of the most talented students of his era at Oxford, was received into the Catholic Church by St. John Henry Newman, much to the disapproval of his parents, who afterwards did not speak to him again until he was on his deathbed when he was only 45. During his university years he was already regarded as a future major literary figure, but, of his own volition, he renounced his poetic gifts when he entered formation to become a Jesuit priest. Gerard’s seminary days occurred during times of great change in Europe, when Bismarck was forging nearly forty petty kingdoms into modern Germany. His Prussian-dominated government, in an effort to compel the allegiance of the mainly Catholic population of Bavaria and the Rhineland, passed what were called the May laws, which contained many restrictive measures to achieve this goal. In what came to be known as the Kulturkampf (“cultural war”), Bismarck closed Catholics off from government jobs, expelled most religious orders (including the Jesuits), and insisted on government approval for all Church appointments. Twelve bishops and more than eighteen hundred priests were imprisoned for resisting, and were also hit with devastating fines. Catholic organizations became targets for further oppressive government actions. Widespread Catholic resistance followed until the Bismarck government finally gave up on its aims. Some Catholics fled this new Germany, and a number of them emigrated to the United States.

Among them were five nuns who left to work in Missouri, sailing on the Deutschland. The ship was caught up in a violent storm in the Thames estuary as it headed toward its stopover in London. It sank there with a loss of 260 lives, including the sisters. As Hopkins was reading a newspaper account of the tragedy in the seminary’s common room, the
rector, seeing how moved he was by the disaster, said to him: “Perhaps someone should write a poem on the subject.” And Hopkins went on to write his 35-stanza masterpiece, The Wreck of the Deutschland. The poem was rejected by the publisher it was first submitted to, who regarded its creative features as too difficult and exotic. Hopkins’s poetry only appeared after his death, when his friend and fellow poet Robert Bridges successfully promoted it. Father Hopkins’s stature in the world of literature has grown steadily ever since. Hopkins is not an easy poet to understand, with his astonishingly inventive use of words and rhythms. But his hope that his country would again welcome Christ in a Catholic understanding shines through, including in his great work’s last stanza, where he writes of the sister superior and the Lord:
Dame, at our door
Drowned, and among our shoals,
Remember us in the roads, the heaven

-haven of the Reward:
Our King back, oh, upon English souls! Let him

easter in us, be a dayspring to
the dimness of us, be a crimson-cresseted east,
More brightening her, rare-dear Britain, as his reign rolls,
Pride, rose, prince, hero of us, high-priest,
Our hearts’ charity’s hearth’s fire, our thoughts’ chivalry’s throng’s Lord.


Ron Hansen, a Catholic deacon who has written novels about Jesse James and the emerging Hitler as well as his greatly admired Mariette in Ecstasy, has treated the Deutschland incident in a superb short novel called Exiles (Knopf, 2008). It’s great reading.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 9, 2022

Tuesday is the memorial for St. John XXIII (originally Angelo Roncalli, son of a peasant farming family from northern Italy), who was Pope from 1958-1963. He was already 77 when he was elected to succeed Pius XII, an aristocratic man of slender build. When Cardinal Roncalli was on his way to join the conclave that elected him, he overheard a lady remark, “My, look how fat he is!” He turned to her with a smile and his always-ready wit and said, “Madam, the conclave is not a beauty contest.”

It was widely assumed that John XXIII would be a brief place-holder until a Pope of longer duration would emerge. But his five-year pontificate would be astonishingly influential: one of the most consequential in all the Church’s history, especially since he shocked the Catholic world, including the hierarchy, by convening the ecumenical (or worldwide) council Vatican II, the first such gathering in nearly a hundred years and the most important one since the Council of Trent addressed the convulsion of the Reformation. John also exerted an enormous impact by the great warmth and humor of his personality. His love for people, whether they were Catholic believers or not, was enormous and obvious, and soon expressed itself in whatever circumstance he found himself in.

He rose to the papacy after excelling first in pastoral work, then in a variety of diplomatic assignments in which he endeared himself to Orthodox Christians in Bulgaria (who, even years later, fondly remembered him as “the round one”), Muslims in Turkey, and, in the difficult times after World War II, Catholics in France. Following his papal election, before he eliminated the papal chair that was carried by six attendants, John XXIII gave them a raise because he was so much heavier than his predecessor. He also ended the custom of the Pope’s dining alone, relishing the company and conversation his new practice allowed. (He said that the old one made him “feel like a seminarian under punishment.”) And until he died, he continued to keep the diary he had begun at age fourteen. Published after his death under the title “Journal of a Soul”, it is a wonderful insight into his traditional piety and deep spirituality, a true modern classic of the Catholic Faith.

By the way, the immensely worthwhile Catholic writer George Weigel has written an incisive book marking the 60th anniversary of the opening of the Second Vatican Council that will be released this month. It is called “To Sanctify the World: The Vital Legacy of Vatican II” (Basic Books)—and it is sure to feature the author’s dependable gifts for astute analysis and clear synthesis.


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 2, 2022

Our “Beatlemania” event (October 14) should be a lot of fun. I hope you will consider attending and will spread the word about it. It can also help pay our parish expenses. My own first acquaintance with the Beatles dates from the 1960s, when they exploded onto the American scene. My sisters were big fans, and I heard the group’s first hit, “I Want to Hold Your Hand,” hundreds of times from their record players as the sound blasted through our apartment walls.

Julie Satow, in her recent book “The Plaza”, the story of New York’s renowned hotel across from Central Park, described how, months before the Beatles’ famous appearance on Ed Sullivan’s variety show, their managers made reservations for rooms at the Plaza, whose reservation clerk had no idea who they were. When the Plaza’s manager, Alphonse Salomone, eventually sized up the situation, he decided to cancel the reservation because he was afraid the group’s arrival might upset the hotel’s wealthy permanent guests. His daughter Lourdes, a student at Manhattan’s Marymount School, erupted: “You can’t do this, Daddy! I’ll never speak to you
again!” Mr. Salomone relented and honored the reservation.

Four thousand screaming fans welcomed the Beatles when they landed at the airport. The four stars then took separate limousines into the city, and were met by thousands more fans in Grand Army Plaza, across from the hotel. A large contingent of police were on hand to see that there was no trouble, which there wasn’t, especially if you don’t count the four girls who tried three times to invade the twelfth floor, where the Beatles were staying. They were carrying two large boxes that contained two more of their friends. Alphonse Salomone later noted that “the Beatles were exceptionally well behaved. No noise … No nothing. When they finally left there wasn’t so much as a coffee stain on a side table.” Happily, all went well between father and daughter also. Julie Satow described it deftly: For her part, Lourdes Salomone was exceedingly satisfied. “I was like the queen
of Marymount,” she said, referring to her school. “Everyone wanted to be my best friend.”

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, September 25, 2022

Each year dozens of our people take part in our parish’s small-group Scripture programs, learning about God’s inspired teachings. Friday is the memorial for our patron of Biblical studies, St. Jerome (c. 341-420), one of the most interesting persons in all the calendar of saints. Jerome, son of a prominent family, came from the Baltic region of Dalmatia. From his early days he showed remarkable intellectual talents and a tremendous thirst for learning, attaching himself to prominent teachers from as far away as Germany. His love of words and aptitude for learning languages were especially strong.

Jerome became a secretary to Pope Damasus, who asked him to undertake a fresh translation of the Bible from its original languages, a project that resulted in the Vulgate Bible, the enduring pillar of the saint’s fame. Jerome also went on to write widely respected scholarly commentaries on a number of scriptural books as well as many interesting letters, which display his irascible and witty personality. He did not hesitate to assail unworthy priests of Rome, a major reason why he was pressured to leave the city and relocate in the near East, first in Syria and then in Bethlehem, where he continued his work and became the Church’s first expert in Hebrew. In the city of Jesus’s birth, he also founded a religious community, making important contributions to the growth of monastic life in the Western Church. Jerome had vexing spiritual struggles in his life, once describing himself as being “buried in the tomb of my misdeeds, tied fast with the chains of my sins.” Even when most of these inclinations had left him in his old age, they didn’t disappear. One of his commentaries, written in his mid-seventies, has an articulate description of the blessings and the trials of his old age. Besides the waning of his disturbing passions and his acquisition of much wisdom, he notes an intimidating list of ordeals, including failing eyesight, digestive troubles, loss of teeth and the disabilities brought on by arthritis, which severely affected his ability to hold his pen and even to walk. Jerome, describing such exasperating woes, said that “When one is old, the spark now and then glows among the burnt out ashes and tries to come to life, but it cannot get the blaze going.”

His biographer J.N.D. Kelly notes that for more than a thousand years after his death, praise for Jerome increased. He was designated as one of the four great Fathers of the Western Church. His writings were extensively copied in the middle ages. Great figures of the Renaissance extolled his learning and the quality of his works (including their appreciation of classical culture). In addition, Kelly notes that from the 13th to the 18th centuries Jerome inspired “the brushes of great artists as no other early Christian figure.” In these paintings, many by artists of universally acknowledged greatness, Jerome is depicted as a penitent in the desert, as a dying man receiving Holy Communion, as a cardinal (even though that institution began centuries after his death) and as a scholar in his study, where he is often shown with his loyal pet lion, which he had supposedly freed
from a thorn that had become stuck in its paw—an incident that may have been lifted from a legend of St. Gerasimus, a Palestinian saint.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, September 18, 2022

Friday is the Church’s memorial for St. Pius of Pietrelcina (1887-1968), better known as Padre Pio. Born Francesco Forgione to a poor family in southern Italy, he showed a fervent love for God from an early age and joined the Franciscan Capuchins as a teenager. He spent the last fifty years of his life at their friary of San Giovanni Rotondo, now one of the most visited places in Italy.

Padre Pio became famous for unusual spiritual gifts and astonishing occurrences, such as the stigmata (the appearance of wounds much like those of Jesus, something he had in common with St. Francis of Assisi) and well-attested incidents of bi-location (being in two separate places at the same time). But he also had connections with the United States, which I’d like to emphasize in this piece.

To meet young Francesco’s necessary educational expenses, his father temporarily left Italy to earn money for them. After finding work in Brazil, he later took jobs in Pennsylvania and in Long Island, where he worked on farms and on the railroad for that purpose. St. Pio also formed a friendship with a woman from Morristown, New Jersey, who was devoted to him and was a great help to him in his work: Adelaide (Mary) Pyle. She acquired a house near Padre Pio’s monastery, offering hospitality to thousands of pilgrims over the years. Padre Pio also became friendly with many American soldiers during World War II, as Italy disentangled itself from its alliance with Germany and switched its allegiance to the Allies. Many of these soldiers donated generously to a project close to Pio’s heart, the building of a hospital to care for the poor. Today it serves more than a thousand people at any given time.

Padre Pio was canonized a saint in 2002. The film star Shia LaBeouf, who is making a movie about him, has pointed to him as a main factor in his recent embrace of religious values after years of living far differently. St. Pio was well known for his forceful, plainspoken advice about the spiritual life, drawn from his own experiences, many of them difficult ones. He once wrote that:
The most beautiful credo is that which comes from your lips in darkness, in sacrifice, in pain, in the supreme effort of an unbending will for good. It is this which, like a stroke of
lightning, penetrates the darkness of the soul; it is this which in the flash of the tempest lifts you and leads you to God.


-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, September 11, 2022

St. Joseph School and the parish’s religious education program for public school students are starting a new year. Sacred Scripture has much to say about their importance for our Faith. In the Bible we see not the professional classroom expertise that is so much emphasized today but non-formal education for practical living. God, of course, is the foremost teacher from whom all instruction flows in the law he blesses us with. Psalm 71, 17 rejoices because “Since my youth, O God, you have taught me.” This divinely based education, more valuable than gold or silver, and sweeter than honey (Ps 19, 10) enables us to walk in God’s paths (Isaiah 2, 3) if we receive it in the best way, not with our natural talents or IQs but with humility (see Ps 25, 9). Jesus first revealed himself as a teacher. He is, in fact, the supreme teacher, addressing us with clear authority, power and compassion. All four gospels call him a teacher (see Mt 19, 16; Mk 4, 38; Lk 9, 33 and Jn 1, 38 among other passages). He teaches in the great temple at Jerusalem, but also in the towns and villages his journeys take him to, and in his encounters with the people he meets, such as the Samaritan woman (Jn 4), Zacchaeus (Lk 19, 1-10) and Mary of Bethany (Lk 10, 38-42). He notes that the queen of the south came from far away to hear Solomon’s famed wisdom, but that in himself “something greater than Solomon is here” (Mt 12, 42; Lk 11, 31). Jesus makes masterful use of memory devices in his unforgettable parables and in the contrasts and exaggerations that are so characteristic of ancient Near Eastern speech. He also refers to the mysterious and crucially powerful instructional work of the Holy Spirit, whom he promises to send: “He will teach you everything, and remind you of all that I have said to you” (Jn 14, 26). John 1 calls Jesus the wisdom that has entered human life from God but is not recognized by so many in “the world” (Jn 1, 10-11). The Son of God is “the reflection of God’s glory and the exact imprint of God’s very being…”(Hebrews 1,3). It is life’s utmost tragedy not to know him. Other New Testament writings also weigh in about religious education. 2 Timothy 3, 16 reminds us that All scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, so that everyone who belongs to God may be proficient, equipped for every good work.

The NT also insists that personal imitation, especially following Christ in discipleship, is a key element of teaching. Worship, too, is important, as is participation in religious customs. Christians are to revere their religion just as Jewish families have traditionally done for centuries in Israel’s pilgrimage festivals and in parents’ explanations of the great events of salvation history, most notably at the Passover supper. One of the most venerated prayers of the Jewish tradition, which begins, “Hear, O Israel,” reminds believers that
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart. Recite
them to your children and talk about them when you are at home and when you are away, when you lie down and when you rise (Deuteronomy 6, 4-7).

The NT clearly insists on the need for parents to pass the faith on to their children, for example, urging fathers to “bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6, 4).

But others in the Church also share in this duty, such as our teachers, who are among today’s disciples of Jesus and who fall within the scope of Christ’s departing instructions to the disciples of his day (see Mt 28, 19-20) as well as Paul’s reminder to his protege Timothy that “the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to
reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others” (2 Tm 2, 2).

Our religion teaches people, old and young, how to be truly wise, even if so much of what we do inevitably consists of what the English historian Paul Johnson has called “the dull, unrecorded routine of everyday life.” The Old Testament compares God’s wisdom to precious metals (Prv 8, 19), to splendid jewels (Prv 4, 9; 20, 15) and to dawn’s light, “which
shines brighter and brighter until full day” (Prv 4, 18). But its opposite, folly, takes a person to a field infested with thorns (Prv 24, 31).
Christian teaching, a gift of God for the healthy growth of the Church (1 Corinthians 12, 28; Ephesians 4, 1), is to be cherished, handed on and remembered. Please support, assist and pray for all who make it possible in our parish

-Msgr. David Hubba


FROM THE DESK OF FR. JOHN RADWAN, September 4, 2022

This Sunday Gospel has to be one of the great attention grabbers of the telling of Jesus. It’s very strong what Jesus says, If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.” And the first thing you say, “Why is He so strong?” and we might think that Jesus is talking to himself.

When we’re children, we used to pray to God for ice-cream cones, bicycles and all these things. And we’re always thinking that to follow Jesus, it means that we get the good stuff, because He himself is full of love and caring. And that’s true. However, He is looking for something else in his disciples. He is looking for resolution, detachment from everything, total and complete commitment to His life. There comes a time in our life when we must take everything seriously. It’s no fooling around. Faith in God is the most important.

I’ll give you one example. James Conley grew up in Overland Park, Kansas, a suburb of Kansas City. His father was a building materials salesman and his mother a housewife; he has one adopted sister. The family was Presbyterian and attended church occasionally. While in college, at the University of Kansas, James Conley studied the “Great Books”— favorites included the Confessions of St. Augustine and the writings of Blessed John Henry Newman—and he converted to Catholicism at age 20. His father was “not too happy” about his conversion— he told him he’d given up the freedom of thinking for himself. “Don’t do that.” And later, when he decided that he would become a Catholic priest, his father was even more upset and said “If you get ordained in that Roman Catholic Church, you’re out of this house and I will never see you again.” And he was torn. But something deep inside him said, “I must do this.” And he did it. And he did it because he felt that he understood the suffering of Jesus and he knew it was the suffering Jesus that was inviting him to come with him into a new world. James entered the seminary and was ordained as a Catholic Priest. It was a matter of time; both his parents converted to Catholicism themselves in 1991. Fr. James was the same one who administered Baptism and Confirmation to his parents. Soon their son will become Bishop of Lincoln, Nebraska.

What Jesus is saying really is this, he is saying, I give you my life. You give me yours. I give without counting the cost. You give me yours without counting the cost. I give you my life to teach you how to love as I love. You give me your life to receive my love and bring it to other people. I begin a mission. You continue it. “But, in the continuing of it, I will never, never, be far from you. I will be with you all days, even to the end of the world.”

And that’s exactly what Jesus is telling his disciples. Yes, you love your mother. Yes, you love your father. But, in choosing me, you must just choose me as your first love. It takes courage. It doesn’t take talent — it takes courage. And you’ve got to have courage to make these kinds of commitments, commitments to your own word. And that’s why no one else, besides me, has the right to say my “yes” or “no” to the decision when Jesus says, “Come follow me.”



With prayer,
Fr. John Radwan


From the Pastor’s Desk, August 28, 2022

The 13th-century Japanese poet Kamo no Cho mei eventually became a Buddhist monk and moved into a tiny dwelling he built on a mountain in a region that had suffered from famine, earthquake, whirlwind and fire. He wrote about his experiences in a classic work entitled The Ten Foot Square Hut, which is familiar to every student in Japan. Describing himself as “a friend of the moon and the wind,” he said, “my only luxury is a sound sleep and all I look forward to is the beauty of the changing seasons.”

Perhaps the closest counterpart to Cho mei’s work in American literature is Henry David Thoreau’s Walden (1854), which relates his efforts to simplify his life as much as possible:
I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. There were some limits to Thoreau’s desire for seclusion. He enjoyed dinners with his friends the Emersons, and his mom brought him pies and did his laundry—but Walden is one of the great books in our tradition. Thoreau once declared, “I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude.”

Praying benefits from solitude. Jesus’s advice about how to pray well says that “when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you” (Mt 6, 6). But providing a setting of solitude is not exactly the same thing as praying, something the great modern Benedictine spiritual writer Hubert van Zeller once reminded us of when he wrote that a man may hang about in solitude and not bother to pray. Solitude is not itself praise, witness, gratitude, love. It may provide the best conditions for prayer but it is not prayer. Solitude is to prayer what acoustics are to a concert. You can get the acoustics right but you will still need the music. Prayer requires of us a determined commitment of time and effort.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, August 21, 2022

Last week’s piece had a number of my favorite proverbs, which I hope you enjoyed. I’m sure you have your own. Sayings such as these invite us to enjoy, and benefit from, popular wisdom. But there is a difficulty about proverbs. Sometimes they may contradict each other. For example, in my seminary days of long ago, Monsignor Richard Liddy taught a number of philosophy courses that had a heavy emphasis on the writings of the late Jesuit Bernard Lonergan. I remember a contrast they invoked between the sayings “Look before you leap” and “He who hesitates is lost.”

This reminded me of a remark by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, author of the beloved fantasy tale The Little Prince, that “A goal without a plan is just a wish.” This makes a lot of sense, but it also has to be balanced against something ex-heavyweight boxing champ Mike Tyson said, that “Everyone has a plan until he gets punched in the mouth.”

Despite Tyson’s qualification, it is a fine, and even necessary, idea for us to have a good plan for our lives. Our Faith certainly provides us with an unsurpassable one, which we can find clearly and abundantly expressed in the Catechism of the Catholic Church, our religion’s most comprehensive summary of Catholic beliefs and practices in modern times.
The catechism is built on four pillars, just as all the Church’s previous major catechisms have been:
1. The twelve statements of our Creed.
2. The life we receive from the Sacraments.
3. The description of the Morality Christ wants us to live by.
4. The elements of the Spiritual Life.

Each of these pillars is superbly enriched by specific references to biblical passages and by quotations from the saints and key authors of Catholic history, which are both profitable and enjoyable to encounter. If you are looking for a deeper familiarity with Catholicism and a practical plan for living it, reading the Catechism of the Catholic Church and praying with it is one of the best ways of reaching that goal. Catechetical instruction isn’t supposed to be just for children.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, August 14, 2022

Proverbial wisdom can be very solid and useful. Many times it is also witty and enjoyable to encounter. Every nation has its share. One saying that has taken root in the United
States and in other nations advises: “Don’t ask a man for a favor before he has had his lunch.” A Spanish proverb on a similar theme says: “Never ask of him who has, but of him you know wishes you well.” A Chinese adage counsels that “One kind word will warm three winter months.” Another wisely asserts that “One’s acquaintances may fill the empire, but one’s real friends can be but few.” The Bible also contains many proverbs. In fact, The Old Testament book of Proverbs has thirty-one chapters of them.

Here are some of my own favorites:
• “Happy the man who finds wisdom, the man who gains understanding! For her profit is better than profit in silver, and better than gold is her revenue;… and none of your choice possessions can compare with her” (3, 13-15).
• “The wicked man makes empty profits. But he who sows virtue has a sure reward” (11, 18).
• “A tranquil mind gives life to the body, but jealousy rots the bones” (14, 30).
• “Better a dish of herbs where love is than a fatted ox and hatred with it” (15, 17).
• “The way of the sluggard is hemmed in as with thorns, but the path of the diligent is a highway” (15, 19).
• “Better a dry crust with peace than a house full of feasting with strife.” (17, 1).
• “Like clouds and wind when no rain follows is the man who boastfully promises what he never gives” (25, 14).

Next week’s “Pastor’s Desk” will offer what, I hope, will be a helpful follow-up to this week’s.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the desk of Deacon George Montalvo, August 7, 2022

During the last three years, I have had the blessing and opportunity of celebrating the Sacrament of Baptism in a church in the city of Newark. Most Saturdays, 3-5 families bring their children to be baptized. With this experience I learned the following about Baptism:

  1. Catholics have a high degree of respect for baptism. This is the main reason for bringing their children to be baptized. Nonetheless, they might have different reasons to have their children receive the sacrament. Reasons that may be conscious or not. Some of them might be compelled by their cultural background.
  2. It might also be a lack of Information about the reality of the Sacrament of Baptism. Even though these Catholic families have a high respect for the Sacrament of Baptism, most parents are unaware of the importance of Baptism in their daily family and personal lives. Baptism is the first Sacrament a Catholic receives. It can be received only once; it cannot be repeated. Baptism is necessary to be part of the Church and enables us to receive other Sacraments. But foremost Baptism makes us children of God.
  3. Parents may also not be aware of the role and responsibilities they acquire when their child is baptized. During the celebration of Baptism, parents and godparents are “interviewed” or questioned before the community about three things: the child’s name, their request for baptism, and their commitment as Christian parents. These three are fundamental questions. The first question is always asked in the present tense. The idea here is that it is the first-time parents present their child to God and the community (represented by family and friends). God wants to have a personal relationship with one of his children; He wants to call us by name. He wants to be part of every baptized person. As a member of the Church, the newly baptized person (as the child is maturing) is expected to play his or her role in the life of the community. The second question requires the parents’ affirmation of their free decision to baptize the child. This is the formal petition for the Sacrament. The third one explains the obligation parents have as the first educators in the faith. They should teach their child God’s commandment to love God and neighbor as Christ taught us.
  4. Godparents in many cases have no clear idea of what their role is. The common belief is that godparents might take the place of parents if something happens to the parents.
    The important responsibility of godparents is to help parents fulfill the obligation they are accepting. Their role is two-fold: cheerleading and supervising. The first role is to encourage and inspire the parents to be active teachers by word and example. They become the parents’ support group in the life of the child. The second one is to help and correct parents when their actions or behaviors are going against what is good for their godchild. This is a loving relationship formed to promote everything that will help strengthen the love between the parents and enhance the Christian development of the newly baptized. A Christian parent’s duty is to bring their child from here to heaven.
  5. Families rejoice and celebrate their child’s baptism. Regardless of the reason for baptism, parents are always happy to see their children become sons and daughters of God. The Church trusts these parents to bring up the newly baptized according to the commitment they made at baptism. In a way, every family that baptizes their child becomes a “holy family” since they are taking home not only their child but the now and forever son or daughter of God.

    This has been a great experience that is helping me to understand and appreciate the Sacrament of Baptism more and more, and to realize what a great gift is given to us. I wish you all a wonderful summer and encourage you to take the opportunity to grow in your faith and understanding of the great gifts our faith has in store for you.
    – Deacon George Montalvo


From the Pastor’s Desk, July 31, 2022

August 1 is the feast day of St. Alphonsus Liguori (1696-1787), the founder of the Congregation of the Most Holy Redeemer. Our Archbishop, Cardinal Joseph Tobin, is a Redemptorist and was once the order’s world leader. The parish I was first assigned to as a priest, Holy Trinity in Hackensack, sent three men into the Redemptorists, Father James Seidel and his brother Father Clarence, and Father John Jerlinski. I don’t know who inspired them to join, but whoever it was helped the Church a great deal.

St. Alphonsus, who came from a noble family near Naples, was such a gifted student that he became both a civil and a Church lawyer at age 16. His father initially opposed his son’s attention to become a priest, finally consenting only after getting permission from the local bishop that Alphonsus would be allowed to remain at home, which is where he took the studies that prepared him for the priesthood. Among his many accomplishments were:
• His excellent preaching. Alphonsus avoided the flowery pomp that characterized preachers of his day, using plain and direct language that could be easily understood by even his least educated parishioners. He once said, “I have never preached a sermon that the poorest old woman in the congregation could not understand.” Someone complimented him in terms any priest would be both proud and humbled to hear: “It is a pleasure to hear your sermons. You forget yourself and preach Jesus Christ.”
• His extensive work giving parish missions. Effectively reaching rural Catholics became a lasting priority for Alphonsus. The Redemptorists became well known for this vital activity,
which persists even now.
• His extensive work as an author. St. Alphonsus wrote more than a hundred books, most notably his Moral Theology, which was issued in many editions and was long a classic in its field, and The Glories of Mary.
• His work as a moral theologian and as a priest in the confessional. Both were enormously influential at a time when the severity of the Jansenists and the laxity of their opposite
numbers were powerful forces. The moderation and kindness of Alphonsus benefited Catholicism enduringly.
• His personal example of persevering holiness in suffering. For the last twenty years of his life St. Alphonsus had to endure painful rheumatism, bouts of scruples and spiritual aridity, and an exasperating struggle to secure his new order’s approval (which, because of secular attacks and the treacherous connivance of one of his own Redemptorists, sadly even led to his exclusion from the religious community he had created!)

It is fair to say that St. Alphonsus’s importance to Catholic history has been greatly underestimated. He is a remarkable saint.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, July 24, 2022

Two of the Apostles were named James, a Hellenistic variant of the Hebrew name Jacob. Monday is the feast of St. James, the brother of John (sons of Zebedee). He is called James the Greater to distinguish him from James the Less. How he acquired this designation is unsure. Some scholars think he got it because he followed Jesus before the other James did, while others have speculated that maybe he was just bigger or older than James the Less.

James the Greater was the first apostle to become a martyr. His death was decreed by Herod Agrippa I in about 44 A.D. This Herod became a good friend of Caligula, who eventually became Emperor of Rome and awarded Herod rule over an expanded realm, including Judea and Samaria. (If you become known by who your friends are, it doesn’t heighten your reputation to be known as a friend of Caligula, who won a reputation for crazed behavior.)

There is a long tradition in Spain that James the Greater preached there and that his body now rests in the famous shrine of Santiago de Compostela in Northwest Spain’s Galicia region, the final destination of a revered pilgrimage route that begins in France and extends more than five hundred miles. Pilgrims prove they have traveled the road by a “passport” that is stamped at various hostels along the way. A wonderful film, The Way (2010), starring Martin Sheen and directed by his son, Emilio Estevez, offers a memorable acquaintance with the pilgrimage to Santiago de Compostela. While enjoying a golf foursome, Sheen (“Dr. Thomas Avery,” an ophthalmologist) learns that his son Daniel has died in France in a road accident while making the pilgrimage. After his father flies to France to identify his son, he decides to complete his pilgrimage, although he has long since stopped practicing his Catholic Faith. As he walks through some of the most beautiful landscapes you will ever see depicted in film, Dr. Avery meets up with three others who are making the journey: Joost, a loud Dutchman who wants to lose weight; Sarah, a depressed Canadian who wants to quit smoking; and Jack, an Irish author struggling with writer’s block. (The structure was purposefully created to resemble The Wizard of Oz.) Dr. Avery also meets a Catholic priest who is making the pilgrimage and asks him whether he believes in miracles, to which the priest replies, “I’m a priest. It’s kinda my job.” In a clever movie device, we see brief glimpses of the dead son Daniel several times. One time he is in a crowd along the wayside. And when his dad reaches the great church of St. James, we see Daniel helping swing its enormous censer, the renowned botafumeiro. If you ever get a chance to view The Way, I’m sure you will enjoy it and will find it very inspiring.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, July 17, 2022

When I completed my formation for the priesthood as a deacon at St. Mary’s in Nutley many years ago, one of the parishioners invited me to attend a meeting of Gamblers Anonymous, which operates much like Alcoholics Anonymous. There I heard testimonial stories from men who were trying to escape the clutches of a vice that has ruined many
lives. (Today, given our state’s many opportunities to gamble even without the bother of physically attending gambling locales, it is still ruining lives.)

One man at the meeting told of how he used to go to the top of Garret Mountain in Paterson on winter Saturday nights to get radio reports of who won college basketball games he was addicted to betting on. Another guy recalled taking his children to the circus, but instead of enjoying the spectacle, he bet on how many plops of you-know-what the elephants would drop as they paraded around the ring.

Gambling to a harmful extent is nothing new, as the early life of St. Camillus de Lellis (1550-1614) shows. He was a six-foot-six brawler and gambler who worked as a mercenary soldier, at least until he lost his weapons because of gambling. Fortunately, God’s grace proved stronger than his follies, and Camillus, with the help of Capuchin Franciscans, turned his life around. The great St. Philip Neri encouraged Camillus in his resolve to take loving care of the sick in the primitive hospitals of the day. Camillus went on to found fifteen houses of his new religious order, the Ministers of the Sick. Its members wore habits with a large red cross on them. Camillus opened eight hospitals, where he worked until the day he died. When he became too sick to visit the patients by walking, he would crawl to their bedsides to do so.

St. Camillus is the patron saint of nurses, perhaps surprisingly so by physical standards, since he was the size of a tight end in today’s NFL. But his large and tender heart makes his designation eminently justified. His feast day is July 18.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, July 10, 2022

Publications, like people, grow up. Years ago, Columbia, the magazine of the Knights of Columbus, offered interesting articles once in a while but was usually dull. That has changed recently. Now it rewards its readers with excellent pieces by accomplished writers. This June’s issue was especially worthwhile.

Alton Pelowski, Columbia’s editor, writing of the key importance of the Eucharist in Catholic life, takes note of a letter J.R.R. Tolkien, author of the Lord of the Rings trilogy, wrote to his son Michael, who was recovering from injuries he suffered during the Battle of Britain. Tolkien concluded his letter saying that: Out of the darkness of my life, so much frustrated, I put before you the one great thing to love on earth: the Blessed Sacrament. … There you will find romance, glory, honour, fidelity, and the true way of all your loves upon earth, and more than that: Death: by the divine paradox, that which ends life, and demands the surrender of all, and yet by the … foretaste of which alone can what you seek in your earthly relationships (love, faithfulness, joy) be maintained, … which every man’s heart desires.

Tom Hoopes has a tender article about his marriage with his wife April, who experienced a severe stroke. Hoopes writes of how the ensuing challenges they have faced together have made them even closer. He recalled an example they used many times when they helped prepare young couples for marriage: One-flesh union means you have to do things for each other. If she wants the ketchup, don’t tell her, “You have two legs. Get the ketchup yourself!” No. She also has your two legs. Get the ketchup for her.

Finally, Anthony Esolen, one of the very best current Catholic writers, pays tribute to the Catholic movie director John Ford, who created some of the greatest and most varied films in Hollywood history, including Stagecoach, Fort Apache, The Searchers, The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance, The Quiet Man and How Green Was My Valley (which won the best-film Oscar for 1941, topping Citizen Kane). The last-named picture told of the joys and struggles of an admirable family in a Welsh coal-mining village. When the father of the family declined to participate in a miners’ strike and was threatened for his decision, Beth Morgan and her young son go into the woods where the pro-strikers are meeting and says to them:
How some of you, you smug-faced hypocrites, can sit in the same chapel with him I cannot tell. To say he is with the owners is not only nonsense but downright wickedness. There’s one thing more I’ve got to say and it is this: If harm comes to my Gwilym, I will find out the men and I will kill them with my two hands. And this I will swear by God Almighty!

-Msgr. David Hubba


FROM THE DESK OF FR. CHRISTIAN SCALO, JULY 3, 2022

What does it mean to be truly free? I think it’s a very important question for all of us to ask both as Catholic Christians and as Americans as we celebrate our Independence this coming July 4th. We are grateful to generations of men and women who have served in the military to tirelessly defend the cause of liberty and to safeguard that freedom that
we all enjoy in our country. The notion of freedom itself, however, isn’t something that we’ve invented, nor is it something that was developed by one particular nation or governmental system. Rather, freedom is something built into the human heart and indeed, is a sign of the indwelling presence of God as the Scripture says, “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Corinthians 3:17).

We enjoy many liberties as a country. We can choose how we dress, what we say, the places we decide to go or live. We are blessed to be in a country where we can express our faith freely; a privilege that is not found in every place. It’s tempting to limit our understanding of freedom simply to what we are allowed to do. But freedom runs so much deeper than even the liberties that our Bill of Rights grants to us. As people of faith, we believe that being truly free is not simply about fulfilling every desire that crosses our mind (as appealing as they may be), but rather, is about living for God and allowing God to live in us and bestow peace.

One of the most precious gifts that God has given to each one of us is our free will. It is a powerful gift, and we all have seen the effects in our world when individuals choose to misuse that gift and cause harm. As Catholics, therefore, we have a continual call to use our gift of freedom to choose the good. To say a kind word when it would be easier to be rude. To lift someone up even when others are pushing them down. To turn to the silence of prayer, even in the times when the noises and distractions surrounding us are louder than ever. Remember, we are all on the journey and it takes a lot of practice to discern and frequently choose the good. But if we put effort into it, and rely on God’s grace to sustain those efforts, then we will truly make the world a better place and hear the voice of the Lord saying to each one of us, “Well done, good and faithful servant […] come and share your Master’s happiness!” (Matthew 25:23).

With Prayer,
Fr. Christian


From the Pastor’s Desk, June 26, 2022

For summer reading, you might consider:

Books of Religious Interest
June Cotner and Nancy Cupper Ling’s For Every Little Thing (Eerdmans, 2021), a collection of poems and prayers, especially for children ages 4-10.
One sample, from Rabbi Rami M. Shapiro:
Dear God, When I open my eyes this morning Please let me see you.
You on the bus; You in my teachers …You in all the places I expect; You in all the places I don’t.

Andre Dugast’s Jerome Lejeune: A Man of Science and Conscience (Ignatius, 2021) relates the life of the discoverer of the chromosomal defect that causes Down Syndrome, and his advocacy of its sufferers’ dignity.

Jesuit at Large: Essays and Reviews by Paul Mankowski, S.J. (Ignatius, 2021). Besides being an expert boxer, he was an outstanding writer. He died suddenly in 2021.

Willie Nelson’s Letters to America (Harper Horizon, 2021), with Turk Pipkin. Willie caused his share of troubles, such as asking his nephew to put his car into a burning garage so he could collect insurance money and getting into big-time tax trouble. But, in a letter to his children, he said that “It all starts with the Golden Rule—with treating others as you’d like to be treated.”

Peter Kreeft’s Three Approaches to Abortion: A Thoughtful and Compassionate Guide to Today’s Most Controversial Issue (Ignatius, 2022) is another of his many books that offer acute intelligence in gracefully written clarity.

Literature and Fiction
Stephen Fry’s Troy: The Greek Myths Reimagined (Chronicle, 2021).

Niall Leonard’s M. King’s Bodyguard (Pantheon, 2021) is a thriller in which Chief Superintendent Melville of Scotland Yard seeks to prevent the assassination of Kaiser Wilhelm, who is attending the funeral of his grandmother, Queen Victoria.

David Damrosch’s Around the World in 80 Books (Penguin Press, 20211) spotlights writings about storied locations worldwide.

Ann Patchett’s These Precious Days (Harper, 2021) collects her essays, many on life and time.

Jay Newman’s Undermoney (Scribner, 2022) is an entertaining account of corrupt players in the world of high finance.

James Runcie’s The Great Passion (Bloomsbury, 2022) tells of Bach’s creation of his masterly St. Matthew’s Passion.

History and Biography
Ruth Scurr’s Napoleon: A Life Told in Gardens and Shadows (Liveright, 2021) notes that the emperor loved his wife Josephine greatly, but got rid of her when she didn’t provide an heir for his dynastic ambitions. Josephine was an enthusiastic gardener, a pursuit Napoleon took up in his last exile. His favorite willow tree died in a fierce storm the night before he did.

Daniel S. Levy’s Manhattan Phoenix: The Great Fire of 1835 and the Emergence of Modern New York (Oxford, 2022) has many interesting stories about New York City’s growth.

Don and Patie Kladstrup’s Champagne Charlie (Potomac, 2021) tells of the interesting 19th-century American adventures of Charles Camille Heidsieck, a French champagne merchant.

Allen Guelzo’s Robert E. Lee: A Life (Knopf, 2021), by one of our most distinguished historians, sees Lee as a complex personality.

Ranulph Fiennes’ Shackleton: The Biography (Pegasus, 2022) relates the scarcely believable heroism of the pioneer of Antarctic exploration.

Lindsey Fitzharris’ The Facemaker (Farrar, Straus & Girous, 2022) is about WW I British surgeon Harold Delf Gillies, who developed many innovative techniques to allow horribly disfigured wounded soldiers to live normal lives, and did so with splendid kindness. One soldier later thanked him: “I don’t suppose for one moment that you remember me … for I was only one of many, but that matters little, for we remember you.”

Alex Kershaw’s Against All Odds (Caliber, 2022) profiles four Medal of Honor winners of WW II, including Audie Murphy.

Robert T. O’Connell’s Team America: Patton, MacArthur, Marshall, Eisenhower, and the World They Forged (HarperCollins Publishers, 2022) describes some of America’s most notable military leaders of WW II.

Giles Milton’s Checkmate in Berlin: The Cold War Showdown That Shaped the Modern World (Holt, 2021) recounts how, when Stalin closed road access to Berlin in 1948-1949, the western allies flew in supplies for 2.4 million Berliners in 1,900 flights a day, one every 96 seconds.

Other Non-Fiction
Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals (Farrar, Straus & Giroux, 2021) says we have to make sensible priorities and can’t spend too much time on things such as social media and answering all our e-mails. “… Every decision to use a portion of time on anything,” he writes, “represents the sacrifice of all the other ways in which you could have spent that time, but didn’t.”

Roosevelt Montas’ Rescuing Socrates (Princeton University Press, 2021) is about a Dominican immigrant who finds a volume of Plato in the trash and goes on to teach classics at Columbia. After an initial “intoxicating” acquaintance with thinkers whose Deconstruction and Post-modernism led to today’s “wokeness,” he concludes that “I ran out of patience with the evasiveness, obfuscation, and intellectual vacuity of many of the leading voices in the field. I felt confident enough in my background in philosophy and theory to call bull—where I saw it.”

Michael Schellenberger’s San Francisco: Why Progressives Ruin Cities (Harper, 2021) says that one problem among many is that high taxes and onerous regulations have driven the cost of building housing units for the homeless to $500,000 each.

Paul Litursky’s My Years Assisting J. Edgar Hoover, with Gordon Dillow (Scribner, 2021) notes that Director Hoover had his ways. Only he could write marginal comments in blue ink on reports to him. Litursky recalls that Hoover wrote one comment that said, “Watch the borders!,” which panicked bureau field offices near America’s frontiers until someone understood that he wanted them to pay attention to the margins on their reports.

Sam Kean’s The Icepick Surgeon: Murder, Fraud, Sabotage, Piracy, and Other Dastardly Deeds Perpetrated in the Name of Science (Little, Brown, 2021) tells of how advances in medical science—which we all welcome—have sometimes come about in immoral ways.

Dean Jobb’s The Case of the Murderous Dr. Cream (Algonquin, 2021) reports on the poisoning of his victims in the UK, Canada and the US.

Mary Roach’s Fuzz: When Nature Breaks the Law (Norton, 2021) tells about occurrences such as bears breaking into Colorado homes to steal dinners, monkeys in India treating people like their servants, leopards that kill Indian farmers, the American base at Midway having to close because of an invasion by albatrosses and Australia’s problem of being overrun with rabbits—and the ferrets brought in to control them.

Beth Shapiro’s Life as We Make It: How 50,000 Years of Human Innovation Refined—and Redefined—Nature (Basic, 2021) covers many interesting topics, including the extinction of the passenger pigeon. In 1534, the explorer Cartier noted that a single flock could take days to pass by. But in Petoskey, Michigan, in 1878, approximately 50,000 of them were killed daily over a span of five months. The last passenger pigeon in the wild was shot in Indiana in 1902.

Sean Flynn’s Why Peacocks? An Unlikely Search for Meaning in the World’s Most Magnificent Bird (Simon & Schuster, 2021) informs us that his pet peacock Carl, for all his glamorous colors and 12-foot tail, belongs to a species that defecates abundantly, ruins car paint by attacking its own images reflected in the vehicles, and, during mating season, shrieks loudly enough to be heard several miles away.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, June 19, 2022

Few nowadays have ever heard of the song “Silver Threads Among the Gold,” although it was immensely popular in its day and for many years after. It was released in 1873, the same year that saw the appearance of “Blessed Assurance” and ”Old-Time Religion.” Hart P. Danks wrote its music and Eben Rexford the lyrics. The song sold more than 3 million copies. When songs were reproduced acoustically, it was the most frequently recorded song of all. A 1932 poll by WABC Radio in New York that asked respondents to name their favorite song placed it first. Over the years it has been recorded by famous singers, including John McCormack, Bing Crosby and Jerry Lee Lewis. Some of the song’s lyrics read:

Darling, I am growing old, Silver threads among the gold, Shine upon my brow today, Life is fading fast away.
But, my darling, you will be Always young and fair to me….

Love can never more grow old, Locks may lose their brown and gold; Cheeks may fade and hollow grow, But the hearts that love will know,
Never, never winter’s frost and chill; Summer warmth is in them still….

Life didn’t work out well for Danks. A year after his song was released, his marriage failed. He never saw his wife again. In 1903 the landlady of the poor rooming house in Philadelphia where he resided found his dead body on the floor next to his piano. By his side was a copy of “Silver Threads Among the Gold”. On it, he had written, “It’s hard to die alone….”

On this Father’s Day, I hope the fathers of our parish can look upon their own marriages with grateful hearts. Jesus Christ counts on the efforts of men living as good husbands and fathers to get so much of his most important work done.

Every Christian marriage is meant to be a reflection of what God wants the Church to be and to accomplish. Happy Father’s Day to each of you!

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, June 12, 2022

James Russell Lowell’s reputation as a poet is not what it was in his 19th-century time, but he had his moments. His line “And what is so rare as a day in June?” still awakens enjoyment as we pass through the days of our current month. It comes from his delightful and deeply Christian poem The Vision of Sir Launfal, Lowell’s take on the legend of the Holy Grail, the cup Jesus shared with his apostles at the Last Supper.

As he savors the marvels of spring, the knight Launfal recalls a vow he once made to search for the Grail, then dreams about it. He sees his own castle:
… the castle alone in the landscape lay
Like an outpost of winter, dull and gray;
‘Twas the proudest hall in the North Countree,
And never its gates might opened be
Save to lord or lady of high degree….

As Launfal sets out on his quest, he recalls seeing a leper at his gate, who
… seemed the one blot on the summer morn—
So he tossed him a piece of gold in scorn.

The leper regards this as no true alms. Sir Launfal’s dream is interrupted by a description of a winter of shivering cold. The knight, now a white-haired old man, is enjoying Christmas in his hall, even as a shelterless wanderer is turned away. His dream resumes, seeing him return from his quest to an unwelcome surprise:
… turned from his own hard gate,
For another heir in his earldom sate;
An old, bent man, worn out and frail,
He came back from seeking the Holy Grail;
Little he recked of his earldom’s loss;
No more on his surcoat was blazoned the cross,
But deep in his soul the sign he wore,
The badge of the suffering and the poor.

Launfal encounters the pleading leper a second time, who begs him:
For Christ’s sweet sake, I beg an alms.

And Sir Launfal says:
… I behold in thee
An image of Him who died on the tree.
Thou also hast had thy crown of thorns,
Thou also hast had the world’s buffets and scorns,
And to thy life were not denied
The wounds in the hands and feet and side.
Mild Mary’s Son, acknowledge me;
Behold, through him, I give to Thee!
He parted in twain his single crust,
He broke the ice on the steamlet’s brink,
And gave the leper to eat and drink.
‘Twas a moldy crust of coarse, brown bread,
‘Twas water out of a wooden bowl—
Yet with fine wheaten bread was the leper fed,
And ‘twas red wine he drank with his thirsty soul.

And it was no longer the leper who was before Launfal, but Christ himself, who says:
Lo, it is I, be not afraid!
In many climes, without avail,
Thou hast spent thy life for the Holy Grail;
Behold, it is here—this cup which thou
Didst fill at the streamlet for Me but now;
This crust is My body broken for thee;
This water His blood that died on the tree;
The Holy Supper is kept, indeed,
In whatso we share with another’s need;
Not what we give, but what we share,
For the gift without the giver is bare;
Who gives himself with his alms feeds three,
Himself, his hungering neighbor, and Me.

Here Sir Launfal’s vision ends. From then on, his castle gate stood open to the poor—and to summer.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, June 5, 2022, PENTECOST SUNDAY

This week is rich in literary history Catholics can reflect on with benefit. I captured the items from Tom Nissley’s delightful reference book A Reader’s Book of Days (W.W. Norton, 2014).

Graham Greene had a stormy relationship with fellow writer J. B. Priestly. It was so bad that it almost reached the libel court. But Greene mellowed after the BBC had Priestly give a series of radio talks about the practically miraculous evacuation of British and French troops from Dunkirk, where the Nazis had them trapped during World War II. He and Churchill were the main voices fortifying Britain’s resolve early in the war. Graham later wrote that “for those dangerous months he was unmistakably a great man.”

This year marks the 40th anniversary of the death of the poet Kenneth Rexroth. He was not a Catholic, but spoke importantly on matters anyone should regard as important. He once said that: “The mature man lives quietly, does good privately, assumes personal responsibility for his actions, treats others with friendliness and courtesy, finds mischief boring and keeps out of it. Without this hidden conspiracy of good will, society would not endure an hour.”

In 1958, Ross Bagdasarian, younger cousin of the playwright William Saroyan, created—and provided the voices for—the greatly popular 1958 record album “The Chipmunk Song,” which he released under the name of Dave Seville.

In a 1943 issue of the New Republic, critic Malcolm Cowley called T. S. Eliot’s Four Quartets “one of those rare books that can be enjoyed without being understood.”

On June 8, 1290, Beatrice Portinari died at age 24. She was the inspiration for Dante’s Beatrice, his guide through Purgatory in the Divine Comedy. Dante had loved her since they were children, although he had met her just once.

In 1972, Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn gave Harvard’s commencement address, which, in Tom Nissley’s words, “proclaimed that the West, with all its material abundance, was weakened by cowardice, decadence, mediocrity, and spiritual exhaustion.”

For years the brilliant Catholic writer Flannery O’Connor exchanged hundreds of letters with an Atlanta clerk named Betty Hester, who wanted to be identified only as “A” in O’Connor’s collection of letters, The Habit of Being, one of the great spiritual books of our times. Flannery’s last letter to “A,” written from her hospital bed in 1964, told her that “I sure don’t look like I’ll ever get out of this joint.” Her prediction was on target, since she died that year at the age of just 39.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, May 29, 2022

During this season of the NBA playoffs, some of us may remember when the New York Knicks were formidable contenders for championships. One of their fine players from that era was Jerry Lucas, a tall forward who had starred for Ohio State teams before his professional career, during which knee troubles limited his success. Lucas had a phenomenal memory, and wrote a book about it called The Memory Book. He made a number of appearances on late-night TV, including on Johnny Carson’s “Tonight” show, where he
demonstrated his unusual talent. Lucas memorized Mario Puzo’s novel The Godfather, the basis for the famous movie of the same title. He also memorized the Manhattan telephone directory, and could provide the phone number of anyone listed in it.

This is Memorial Day weekend, when we are asked to gratefully remember those who have given their lives for our nation. It has its roots as a commemoration of our Civil War dead and has since grown to include those who have given their lives in America’s subsequent conflicts. This is a hallowed tradition for us, one that should mean much more than the launching of this year’s summer (even though summer actually starts a few weeks into June). Ideally, it should be an exception to an observation by the 17th-century poet Robert Herrick, who wrote:

O time that cut’st down all
And scarce leav’st here
Memorial
Of any men that were.

We should never forget those who gave their all, including life itself, for us.
-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, May 22, 2022

The Marianists (The Society of Mary) are a religious order with roots in 19th-century France during the greatly troubled times following the French Revolution, which was hostile, often violently so, to the Church. But our religion is not easily extinguished.

Blessed William Joseph Chaminade (1761-1850), a priest from Bordeaux, and two women collaborators, founded the Marianists, whose branches included faith communities of priests, sisters and lay people. When their presence reached the United States, the Bishop of Cincinnati sent one of their priests, Father Leo Meyer, to Emmanuel parish in Dayton, during an outbreak of cholera. There he met John Stuart, who had lost a daughter to the epidemic and wished to return to Europe. Father Meyer gave him a St. Joseph medal and promised to come up with $12,000 to buy Stuart’s farm, 125 acres of vineyards and orchards. Soon, in 1850, a school started there that eventually became the University of Dayton.

That university includes the world’s largest library dedicated to Mary. Besides a staggering number of books, it has galleries of art and Marian artifacts, and study facilities. It also has an impressive website, https://udayton.edu/marianlibrary/, a wonderful resource for anyone who would like to know more about Our Lady or pray about her more effectively. On it, you can find the encyclopedia All About Mary, the Church’s documents about Mary, art works, music and many other items that are a joy to explore for anyone devoted to her, whether in her traditional month of May or at any other time.
-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, May 15, 2022

At my first assignment in Hackensack, we would get visitors who wanted money. Some lived in rooming houses, others had just been released from jail or were otherwise down on their luck. One day, when a petitioner asked for $5 for something to eat and I wasn’t doing anything, I followed him on his journey to a nearby place of refreshment, a tavern near the Anderson St. railroad station called the Charl-Marie. I assumed, I’m embarrassed to say, he was going there for a bit of a nip. It wasn’t until much later that it occurred to me that this very respectable establishment also sold food and that maybe the man was there to get a hamburger.

The great 18th-century writer Samuel Johnson had a far more humane attitude than I did. His friend Hester Thrale noted in her journal that: “He loved the poor as I never yet saw anyone else do, with an earnest desire to make them happy. What signifies, says some one, giving halfpence to common beggars? “They only lay it out in gin or tobacco.” And why (says Johnson) should they be denied such sweeteners of their existence? It is surely very savage to deny them every possible avenue to pleasure, reckoned too coarse for our own acceptance. Life is a pill which none of us can bear to swallow without gilding; yet for the poor we delight in stripping it still barer, and are not ashamed to show even visible displeasure, if ever the bitter taste is taken from their mouths.”

Johnson was a sincerely religious man. For many years during Holy Week and the Easter season, he would examine his conscience and pray for improvement. In 1757, he reflected:
“Pardon my sins, remove the impediments that hinder my obedience. Enable me to shake off sloth, and to redeem the time misspent in idleness and sin by a diligent application of the days yet remaining to the duties which thy Providence shall allot me. O God, grant me thy Holy Spirit, that I may repent and amend my life, grant me contrition, grant me resolution for the sake of Jesus Christ, to whose covenant I now implore admission, of the benefits of whose death I implore participation. For his sake, have mercy on me, O God; for his sake, O God, pardon and receive me. Amen.”

In 1775, Johnson looked at himself with searching and unsparing honesty and prayed: “When I look back on resolutions of improvements and amendments, which have year after year been made and broken, either by negligence, forgetfulness, vicious idleness, casual interruption, or morbid infirmity, when I find that so much of my life has stolen unprofitably away, and that I can descry by retrospection scarcely a few single days properly and vigorously employed, why do I yet try to resolve again? I try because reformation is necessary and despair is criminal. I try in humble hope of the help of God…”

The Easter season still has several weeks to go. I think we can benefit from Samuel Johnson’s prayers.
-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, May 8, 2022

Because May is First Communion season, I thought you might like to have a few observations about its importance. So here’s my train of thought—although it may be more
like a little red wagon. When I made my own First Communion in 1955, just after the craze about the frontier hero Davy Crockett, we experienced it on a Saturday morning, just a day after we made our First Confessions. The morning was far preferable to the afternoon since, back then, communicants had to fast from food and drink, even from water, from the previous midnight. The boys wore white suits and shoes, and the girls wore white dresses and shoes. (After I was ordained a priest, the parish I first served in during the 1970s decided to “ride with the times,” and let the clothing choice rest with each family. One girl arrived in a dress that wasn’t white, which became the cause of much crying. Some years later, those who set the trends decided to make First Communions more family-centered and, at the same time, encourage greater attendance at Sunday Mass. We are still hoping for favorable results from this procedure.)

But comparing the above to the most important reality of First Communion, namely the true presence of Jesus Christ given to us under the divine disguise of sanctified bread
and wine, is like making a quantitative comparison between tiny Mercury and gigantic Jupiter in our solar system.

Last week’s “Pastor’s Desk” mentioned the teachings of St. Cyril of Jerusalem to the newly baptized in the weeks after Easter. In one of them, Cyril gave a deeper explanation of the Eucharist to the new Catholics, one all of us should remember. After recalling Jesus’ words at the Last Supper, that the bread and wine, when blessed, are then his body and blood, he wrote that: “Therefore, it is with complete assurance that we receive the bread and wine as the body and blood of Christ. His body is given to us to under the symbol of bread, and his blood is given to us under the symbol of wine, in order to make us by receiving them one body and blood with him. Having his body and blood in our members, we become bearers of Christ and sharers, as St. Peter says, in the divine nature.” … Do not, then, regard the Eucharistic elements as ordinary bread and wine: they are in fact the body and blood of the Lord, as he himself has declared. Whatever your senses may tell you, be strong in faith.
-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, May 1, 2022

St. Cyril of Jerusalem (c. 315-386), by nature a very kind man, had the misfortune of living in greatly stressful and roiled times when theological controversies produced rancorous results that sometimes led to political conflicts with Roman emperors and even street violence. But although the issues at stake can easily strike modern people as impossibly complex and fruitless, they were actually very important.

In Cyril’s case they involved the teachings of a priest named Arius, who held that Jesus was not really divine. This belief
prompted some other theologians to hold that he was somewhat divine, and still others, who won the Church’s endorsement at several of the early ecumenical (or worldwide) councils, to clarify the doctrine that he was a divine person with two complete natures, those of God and of a human being. (This is what we profess every Sunday when we pray our Creed.)

Cyril was named to a post of prestige as the bishop of Jerusalem. But he ran into problems because Jerusalem was then under the authority of the bishop of Caesarea, one of those who taught that Jesus was just divine to a certain extent. This led to Cyril’s being deposed and banished three times before he finally became secure in his episcopacy. Although not all of St. Cyril’s writings have survived, his renown is secure because of his works on catechesis (religious instruction). They number 24 in all. After an introductory one, the next 18 were explanations of the Creed meant to prepare those who would embrace the Faith in their Easter baptisms. The last five, sometimes known as Mystagogical Catecheses, provided deeper instructions for the newly baptized during the time after Easter.

– Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, April 24, 2022 (Divine Mercy Sunday)

Other post-resurrection appearances of Christ include the following:
1) To Mary Magdalen (Jn 20, 1-18), and to her along with Joanna and Mary the mother of James (Lk 24, 12): N. T. Wright points out that the resurrection was clearly a surprise to the three women. Jn’s account honors Mary Magdalen as the first person to report the empty tomb to the apostles and also reports her conversation with Jesus.
2) To two disciples on the road to Emmaus (Lk 24, 35): Here Jesus, who at first is unrecognized as evening falls, explains the OT Scriptures that foretold him and then breaks bread with them as he had done with the apostles at the Last Supper. This is still the pattern for the Mass’s Liturgies of the Word and the Eucharist.
3) To his disciples, when he eats fish with them (Lk 24, 36-39): Here we have assurance that the Lord’s bodily life endures.
4) When he empowers his followers to forgive sins (Jn 20, 19-23): The Church’s Council of Trent cited this passage as the biblical justification for the
sacrament of Penance.
5) When he addresses the apostle Thomas’s initial doubts and elicits from him a profession of his divinity (Jn 20, 24-29): In their commentary on Jn, Francis Martin and William M. Wright IV note that “Thomas identifies the risen Jesus with the Lord God, ‘YHWH himself,’ and call his statement “the most robust profession of faith in the Gospel … .”
6) When he shares a breakfast with the apostles at the Sea of Galilee (Jn 21, 1)
7) At Peter’s rehabilitation and the conferral of Peter’s future assignment (Jn 21, 15-19): Martin and William Wright express the Catholic interpretation of Jesus’s encounter with Peter with fullness and clarity: “This exchange … provides much food for thought about the ministry of the pope and basic aspects of the Christian life, such as sin, repentance, and discipleship. When Peter denied Jesus three times, he rejected his relationship with Jesus. In this scene, which recalls Peter’s denials, we see the tremendous love and mercy of Jesus for Peter. Jesus makes the first move and initiates the conversation with Peter. He invites Peter to repent and return to him by professing his love. With Peter’s threefold profession of love, his three-fold denial is undone, and Jesus restores the relationship between them. Jesus’ mercy is so complete that he does not hold Peter’s past sins against him. Instead, Jesus gives Peter the honor and responsibility of serving as the delegated shepherd of his sheep.”

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, April 17, 2022 (EASTER SUNDAY)

Saint Julie Billiart Catholic Church, Hamilton, OH

The scripture scholar Gary Habermas has written several books and many articles about the resurrection, all of them strong defenses of its reality. After observing that no serious student denies that Jesus was crucified and that his followers were convinced that he had appeared to them afterwards, Habermas asserts ten impressive arguments in favor of the resurrection as Christians have long professed it. What follows condenses them into the limited space a weekly bulletin article allows for.

Habermas begins with St. Paul’s writings, which were finished even before the final versions of the Gospels. Paul himself says that he preached material he had previously received (1 Cor 5, 2-7), almost certainly from Peter and James (Gal 1, 18-20). The great English biblical commentator C. H. Dodd, speaking of a two-week stay of Paul with Peter, remarked that “we may presume they did not spend all the time talking about the weather.” Paul would also confer with Peter, James and John, the foremost apostles, on a second occasion. Paul was happy to say that they endorsed his preaching content about the resurrection appearances of Christ (see 1 Cor 15, 11-15). Furthermore, we must not forget that Paul himself was an eyewitness to the Risen Lord, the immediate and decisive explanation of his conversion (Acts 1, 1-9; 22, 1-11; 26, 9-19; 1 Cor 15, 8; 9, 1).

Other NT non-Pauline writings contribute further support for the reality of the resurrection. The accounts in Acts contain material that is clearly older than the book itself, which takes us back to just a short time after the historical events. Scholars have identified instances of Semitic usage in the book, especially in accounts of the preaching of St. Peter (Acts 2, 22-33; 3, 14-15; 26; 10, 39-43). His preaching very simply recounts the resurrection, which is usually also a sign that the material it relates comes from an earlier layer of tradition.

The Gospels have plenty to say about the resurrection and the Lord’s appearances following it. The importance of Jesus’s empty tomb is, of course, of crucial importance. Habermas notes that the first witnesses to it were women and that, in those times, women were not usually allowed to be formal witnesses in Jewish courts so, if these accounts were just made up by Jesus’s followers, why wouldn’t they have claimed it was men who reported them? And the reports of the empty tomb were made in Jerusalem, where it would have been easily possible to inspect the burial place to see if it was truly empty. And if Jewish leaders wanted to spread the story that the Lord’s body was stolen by his followers (Mt 28, 11-15), at the very least this is testimony that the tomb was indeed empty.

Habermas concludes his defenses of the resurrection’s reality as follows: “Surprisingly, comparatively few recent critical scholars think that the resurrection can be explained naturally. … Most succinctly, the evidence indicates that Jesus died, but was still seen afterwards. Since naturalistic theories fail to explain these two aspects, the best conclusion
is that Jesus was raised from the dead.


-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, April 10, 2022 (Palm Sunday)

Theology has a dual description of the saving work of Jesus Christ, which distinguishes “objective redemption” (what the Lord did to save us) from “applied redemption” (how Christ’s salvific deeds are passed on to us). The great season that awaits us in the Triduum of Holy Week leads us into Easter, when we rejoice that through baptism the Lord has offered us, if we are willing to accept it, rescue from our sins and promotion to an entirely new range of life in union with him. The traditional term for this is “sanctifying grace,” which is considered to be both “healing” and “elevating.”

The healing feature cures both Original Sin, which is not our fault but rather the inherited weakness of our humanity that results from Adam’s sin, and “actual sins,” which we are to blame for once we have reached the stage in life when we are responsible for our decisions and actions. The elevating aspect inducts us into God’s life of faith, hope and love, enlarging our capacity for living.

Holy Thursday celebrates Christ’s gift of himself in the Eucharist, recalled and made present again at every Mass. At the Last Supper, Jesus prayed over simple bread and wine, saying that, from then on, they are his true body and blood, given to us as our spiritual food and as victory over the forces of sin. On Good Friday we recall the Lord’s suffering and death, the sacrifice he willingly offered, despite his human revulsion for what awaited him, for the pardoning of our wrongs. This is his ultimate expression of obedience to his Father’s will, worth more than any merely human apology can give. Easter’s triumphant conquest of Christ’s death and ours can be seen as the victory of his unsurpassable sacri1ice. After the Risen Lord’s manifestations of this conquest to his followers over the weeks that immediately follow the resurrection, he returns to heaven, as the feast of the Ascension celebrates. He does not disconnect from us or abandon us, but sends the Holy Spirit to enliven and guard the Church he has formed and of which he continues to be the head. Humanity was in a sorry state before the Son of God came to dwell with us. Unless we can appreciate our disability without him, we can hardly value what he offers us. Jesus Christ not only repaired the damage sin did to us, but has recreated us to be God’s children. This means that our situation after his coming is much more than just a restoration to the human condition as it existed before Adam’s sin. The startling words about Original Sin embedded in the Easter Vigil’s magnificent “Exultet” summarize things so well: “O happy fault that won for us such a redeemer!

The coalescence of all these saving events, and their continuing call to us to renew our baptismal commitment, especially by regular participation in the Eucharist at Mass, are of incomparable importance and necessity. Together they comprise the Paschal Mystery.
-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, April 3, 2022

The divine person Jesus Christ had a complete human nature as well as his nature as God. What was he like in his humanity as we meet him in the Gospels? The late lay theologian
Frank Sheed addressed this topic in a number of his works. This article relies on his insights. Sheed, a native of Australia and law student there, moved to England, where he married Maisie Ward, daughter of a prominent Catholic family. Both took part in the activities of the Catholic Evidence Guild, which defended Catholic beliefs in outdoor settings to all who cared to listen. Together they founded the publishing firm Sheed and Ward. Its branches in London and New York introduced many great European Catholic authors to English-speaking readerships. Frank and Maisie eventually settled in Jersey City and are buried in the city’s Holy Name Cemetery.

Mr. Sheed cautions us about seeing the Jesus of the Gospels as being invariably meek and mild, although these qualities are strongly present in him: “Loving-kindness is very far from being the whole picture. His speech is terse and to the point, with no sentimentality at all. Most of what he said would not go very well with most of the statues and paintings.”

We are told that he loved “his own” (the apostles) to the end (Jn 13, 1) and had a special affection for one of them, that he had close friends in Martha, Mary and Lazarus, and that he loved the rich young man who declined to follow him because he was attached to his possessions. Jesus praises only a few people:
Nathanael, “an Israelite without guile” (Jn 1, 47); a centurion of great faith (Mt 8, 11); a scribe who is “not far from the kingdom” (Mk 12, 34); Mary of Bethany, who “has chosen the better part” (Lk 10, 42); and John the Baptist, of whom he said that “no man born of woman is greater than he” (Lk 7, 28).

Jesus could be very vehement about upholding what was morally right and denouncing what was wrong. To the chief priests and the elders he said that tax collectors and harlots would enter the kingdom of God before them (Mt 21, 31). He compared some of the scribes and Pharisees who opposed him to whitewashed tombs filled with dead men’s bones, and, in case that didn’t get their attention, he called them a “brood of vipers” (Mt 23, 27-29). And when Peter opposed the Lord’s prediction of his passion and death, right after his great act of faith in Jesus, Jesus immediately reprimanded him, saying “Get behind me, Satan” (Mt 16, 23). He also ransacked the tables of the Temple’s moneychangers, calling them thieves (Mt 21, 31).

Jesus experienced hunger, weariness and temptation. He also knew the frustration of having followers who were slow to catch on to his teachings, and who sought positions of power for themselves, and, in the case of Judas, the pain of treachery from one of his closest disciples.

There was complexity in Jesus because of his true humanity. This makes him more human. The same is true of his sinlessness. We have probably, at one time or another, excused our moral lapses by saying that we are “only human.” But sin makes us less human.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, March 27, 2022

The Council of Chalcedon (451) formally defined the relation of Jesus’s divinity and humanity when it declared that he was one divine person who possessed two complete natures, one of God and one of mankind. (The term “person” refers to who someone is, while the term “nature” indicates a person’s capabilities.) These sharpened distinctions were not sudden discoveries of the fifth century but truths implicit in the biblical texts and in the Church’s growth in exploring them in the times that followed.

This week we will consider Christ’s divine nature as Scripture asserts it. The Jesuit theologian Domenico Grasso’s description of miracles is comprehensive and concise. He wrote that they are: tangible facts (evident to the senses); above natural forces; caused by God; and having a religious or moral purpose. The Gospels preserve the memory of more than 30 miracles Jesus worked. Most can be categorized as:
-nature miracles, including the changing of water into wine at Cana (Jn 2, 1:11), the miraculous catch of fish (Lk 5, 1-11) and the calming of the storm on the Sea of Galilee (Mt 8, 23:27)
-healings, the most numerous category, including the cleansing of the lepers (Lk 17, 12-19) and the cure of the man blind from birth (Jn 9, 1-41) – two of twenty in all
-deliverances from demonic possession and mental illness, for example, the Gerasene demoniacs (Mt 8, 28-34) and the Epileptic boy (Mt 17, 14-21)
-resuscitations of the dead (which differ from Jesus’ resurrection, since those others restored to life would eventually die), including the restoration to life of the daughter of Jairus (Lk 8, 41-42 and 49-56), the son of the widow of Naim (Lk 7, 11-17) and Lazarus (Jn 11, 1-44)

The two greatest theologians in the Church’s history after biblical times are St. Augustine (354-430) and St. Thomas Aquinas (c. 1225-1274). Both regarded the miracles of Jesus as key indications of his divinity. Augustine once said that “I should not be a Christian but for the miracles.” Aquinas wrote that “The faith of Christ believed by the saints and handed down to us has been marked by the seal of God shown in works no creature can perform. These are the miracles by which Christ has confirmed holy apostolic doctrine.”

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, March 20, 2022

During the next few weeks of Lent we will concentrate on Jesus’s public life and works and their background.

The Roman Empire controlled the Holy Land from 63 B.C. until well after Christ’s lifetime. Rome’s methods combined tolerance of local customs with a harsh use of force. National ways, including the administration of local government and the free practice of religion, were allowed to continue provided that the people submitted to Roman authority and foreign policy and paid the burdensome imperial taxes. Worry-free areas would be put in the charge of prominent Roman nobles. The emperor or his military delegates would oversee the more troublesome regions. The Romans often used subservient client kings, but would not hesitate to remove them if they were ineffective or unreliable.

Herod the Great was one such king, ruling Palestine from 40 to 4 B.C.. Although in many ways his reign was orderly and prosperous, he also ruled with an iron grip that was worsened by his suspicious nature. His building projects were marvels of their time, and their remains still fascinate us. He launched a project to rebuild Jerusalem’s Temple with unprecedented magnificence; built lavish palaces (including at Masada, the fortress that dominated the western Dead Sea area); constructed the largely buried fortress called the Herodium, which he intended as his mausoleum; built an artificial harbor (with engineering’s first use of concrete); and erected the massive walls over Abraham and Sarah’s tombs at Hebron.

After Herod died, his kingdom was split among his three sons. Two got small territories. The third, Archelaus, the most talented and best connected, received much of what today is most of Israel and the West Bank. But his tyrannical ways led to organized petitions to the emperor for his removal, so that, from 6 A.D. on, his kingdom was governed by a Roman procurator, who was nominally under the authority of the Roman governor of Syria but was pretty much on his own. The most famous of these procurators was Pontius Pilate, who ruled at the time of Jesus’s death. Pilate had a military force of about 3,000 not Roman legionaries but auxiliaries, many of them Syrians, Samaritans or Arabs. When their usually decisive ruthlessness was not enough to control unruly situations (which were not uncommon), the procurator could call on the Roman legion based in Syria for speedy help. The procurator also had authority over the judiciary (although Jewish religious courts handled most incidents), the heavy Roman taxes and the police.

Israel was theoretically a theocracy, a nation ruled by God. The High Priest held liturgical preeminence and had considerable standing among Jews, but he was very much under Rome’s thumb. Under him were some 25,000 Temple officials, including about 7,000 priests and many other workers who performed a wide range of tasks. Scribes (Biblical scholars), mostly laymen, including a considerable number of Pharisees and some priests, were even more influential. Their chief teachers (rabbis) attracted followers who would accompany them for instruction. Their influence exceeded that of the Sadducees, religious traditionalists, usually from the wealthy classes.
-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, March 13, 2022

Last Sunday’s bulletin explored our Catholic faith as a religion revealed to us by God. It emphasized how the Lord disclosed to us life’s central truths, some of which are accessible to our unaided human intelligence and others of which we can know only by trusting God’s teachings as communicated to us through Scripture and Tradition, both divinely guided, preserved and proclaimed by the Church Jesus left us.

This week we look to the supreme revelation of God, Jesus Christ, the Son of God who took on a real human nature and united himself with those who believe in him. His gift to us was not just a magnificent course of valid teachings, but himself. God’s ultimate revelation to us is not only a set of truths (which it certainly is), but a divine person who became like us in all things but sin (see Hb 4, 15).

We usually think of words as being language that allows us to share ideas. But God’s words in the Bible also imply his stirring actions that cure our failings and build his kingdom in our lives. The Gospel of John begins by referring to Jesus as the Word of God. And Hb 1, 12 tells us that:
In many and various ways God spoke of old to our fathers by the prophets, but in these last days he has spoken to us by a Son.

Jesus shows us most clearly what God’s life is, and also what our lives should be. It is in his person, and in his teachings and actions, that God shows himself to us as his supreme Revelation. The Catechism of the Catholic Church summarizes this reality with succinct clarity when it says that:
God has revealed himself fully by sending his own Son, in whom he has established his covenant forever. The Son is the Father’s definitive Word; so there will be no further Revelation after him (CCC #73)

Jesus invites us to an unprecedented relationship with God and with each other. This is God’s intended gift of love that will completely fulfill our yearnings. In the remaining Sundays of Lent we will explore the public life of Jesus. He is God’s fullest disclosure of what and who we believe.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, March 6, 2022

Catholicism is a revealed religion, meaning that it has been disclosed to us by God, who communicates his true teachings to us, with all their wisdom and goodness. Some of these truths can be discerned by our rational intelligence, which is what is meant by natural revelation. Good examples of natural revelation are the Ten Commandments and the immortality of the soul, which can be known by some people of acute intelligence but which others are not capable of figuring out, whether they lack the aptitude to do so or because they are busy with other necessary responsibilities. God reveals these teachings, even though they are otherwise available, so that no one will be deprived of the truth.

Other truths would never be learned, or even suspected, by us unless God taught them to us by supernatural revelation, or disclosures God gives us that surpass our human powers of knowing. Among these are God’s existence as a trinity of persons, each having divine nature while remaining three different persons; the Incarnation, by which the Son of God assumed a human nature without relinquishing his divine nature; and the real presence of Christ in the Eucharistic elements of bread and wine, specially consecrated at Mass. In such teachings a kind of curtain is opened by God, allowing us to see what would otherwise be hidden from us.

The revealed truths are offered to us through the books of Scripture and through the tradition that has been passed down to us. Both are in the custody of the Church, which is appointed by God to protect them and to share them with us. The term “orthodox” (right teaching) describes our possession of these divine truths.

The late Jesuit priest Father John Hardon gave us a needed reminder of a sobering reality when he wrote that “orthodoxy is no guarantee of perseverance and still less of living up to what the faith demands.” A well -spent Lent will help.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, February 27, 2022

Frederick the Great, the second king of Prussia, had a terrifying father, king Friedrich Wilhelm I, who went to almost unbelievable measures to toughen his son. He carried a heavy bamboo cane, which he didn’t hesitate to use on anyone he thought deserved it, rich or poor alike. Once Friedrich saw one of his subjects cross a street to avoid him, because, he said, he was afraid. “Afraid?! Afraid?! You’re supposed to love me!” As he caned the citizen to the ground, he added, “Love me, scum!” Much worse for his son, he had Frederick’s friend, an army captain, shot while Frederick was forced to watch. (The two had run off to England without permission, causing Friedrich Wilhelm to suspect that something treasonous was going on.) Frederick eventually became warlike enough to at least faintly evoke his father’s memory.

But Frederick the Great, who saw himself as a champion of the Enlightenment, also had ambitions for higher culture. He played the flute, dabbled in composition and hired one of Bach’s sons as his court musician. Frederick was greatly pleased when he learned that the elder Bach would be visiting Berlin, and invited him to an audience, at which he set Bach to the enormously difficult challenge of improvising, on the spot, five variations of a fugue the king gave him. Bach wound up doing eight variations.

Like Bach, Handel was a devout Lutheran. The two grew up not very far from each other, but never met. Handel went to England to seek his fortune, and there composed his great works, including Water Music, Music for the Royal Fireworks and, of course the Messiah. At one point, he and Bach were both in Germany briefly and tried to get together, but it didn’t happen.

It’s nice to think that that disappointment has since been remedied. And it would be fascinating to eavesdrop on the conversation that Handel and Bach, the composer of so many immortal fugues, harpsichord pieces and cantatas, might have. The cantatas were musical meditations on the biblical texts for the Lutheran worship of Bach’s time. In his capacity of organist and music director at St. Thomas’s Church in Leipzig, Bach wrote hundreds of them, many of which were later lost, some as kindling for fireplaces.

Some years ago, a priest I was assigned with came back from a pilgrimage to the Holy Land. He gave the rectory priests business cards from a merchant who ran a religious gift shop in Jerusalem. They said, “If you meet me and forget me, you have lost nothing. If you meet Jesus Christ and forget him, you have lost everything.” As Lent begins, we should try to remember that.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, February 13, 2022

2021 Deaths of Business Notables:

Bernard Madoff: In an historic fraud, he bilked people out of $65 billion by creating phony statements at his investment firm. Among those who lost their life’s savings were Elie Wiesel (survivor of the Holocaust and world-famous writer) and the Wilpon family, former owners of the Mets baseball team, and thousands of elderly people. His son Mark committed suicide on the second anniversary of the revelation of the schemer’s misdeeds.
Spencer Silver: In 1968, his experiments yielded an adhesive that left no residue. A colleague, Art Fry, came up with the idea of using the results as for choir hymnals. The ultimate outcome was Post-It Notes. Silver’s employer, 3M, gained the financial benefits.
Ron Popeil: A greatly successful seller of products on TV, including Veg-O-Matic, spray-on hair and the Pocket Fisherman. His signature line was, “But wait, there’s more!”
George M. Sherman: After working in managements for GE and Black and Decker, he ran the Danaher Corporation and saw it grow 20 times over. A close friend recalled that “relaxing with George was exhausting.” He died from complications of a brain injury he suffered after his daily Peleton bike workout.
Nikolas Davatzes: He took the A&E channel to a more popular success by altering its program content. Before that, he had worked for Xerox. He said that “I had a great reason for going to Xerox. I was tired of being poor.”
Donald B. Poynter: He invented liquor-flavored toothpastes, making it possible to brush your teeth with whiskey, bourbon, rye or scotch tastes. He also enriched the novelty business with talking toilet seats, a hot water bottle shaped like Jayne Mansfield, a mini electric chair that administered a shock to anyone who picked it up, and the Little Black Box, which, when you turned it on, saw a hand emerge to turn it back off. His son Tim said that “every day to my dad was April Fools’ Day.”
Peter Buck: He built up the Subway sandwich franchises, which now sell in 40,000 locations worldwide, after investing in a Connecticut sandwich shop. It took 15 years for the venture to turn a profit. He drove a 17-year-old car and ate at least 5 Subway sandwiches a week. Asked whether he was a billionaire, he replied, “Yeah, I guess so.” (His net worth was $1.7 billion.) Even so, he said, “I can go any place in Danbury and nobody recognizes me.”

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, February 6, 2022

2021 deaths of those prominent in politics and public service:

Deborah Rhode: Stanford law professor and author of more than 30 books, including The Trouble With Lawyers (2015). Many of her books were about how people with low or moderate incomes need better services than the legal profession now provides. For poor defendants, she once wrote, “Death sentences have been upheld even when lawyers lacked any prior experience or were drunk, asleep, on drugs or parking their car during key parts of the prosecution case. In many jurisdictions, it is safer to be rich and guilty than poor and innocent; the worse sentences go to those with the worst lawyers, not the worst crimes.”
George Schultz: Highly respected Secretary of State during Ronald Reagan’s presidency, he was a key part of winning the Cold War.
Rush Limbaugh: For 30 years, he was America’s most popular radio personality, emphasizing conservative values and America’s strengths. This, and the humor he deployed so skillfully, did not endear him to his ideological opponents.
Frank Shankwitz: Coming from a difficult home background (“ … we lived in the back of our car, we lived in tents, we lived in flop houses”), he worked, joined the Air Force and later the Arizona Patrol and met Chris Greicius, age 7, who had terminal leukemia and was a fan of the TV series “Chips” (about California’s motorcycle highway patrolmen). Shankwitz got the boy a uniform and a badge and a seat on a motorcycle. After Chris died, he and Chris’s mother, Linda Pauling, and several others started the Make-A-Wish Foundation, which has fulfilled the dreams of more than 500,000 critically ill children.
Vernon Jordan: A widely respected leader of the civil rights movement, described by one of his obituary writers as a “pragmatic liberal,” he was willing to talk with adherents of any political persuasion, often inviting them to his home for barbecue gatherings. He became the Wall Street Journal’s editorial page editor and served on the board of Dow Jones, which owns the paper.
Prince Philip: The Duke of Edinburgh and Queen Elizabeth II’s husband. At the height of the Cold War, when the subject of a possible visit to Russia came up, he said, “I would very much like to go to Russia, although the bastards murdered half my family.”
Ray Donovan: A New Jersey construction executive who became Ronald Reagan’s Secretary of Labor. After being exonerated on a false charge of criminality, he asked, “What office do I go to to get my reputation back?”
Colin Powell: After serving in the ROTC at New York’s City College, he joined the Army and rose to become chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff and George W. Bush’s Secretary of State. His hobby was restoring Volvos. He bought the first one so his college-bound son would have a car, then restored, altogether, 30 of them.
Bob Dole: Longtime Senator from Kansas and Republican nominee for President in 1996. He was so gravely wounded in World War II that he was left for dead. After, he had the use of only one of his arms. His protégé, former Secretary of State Mike Pompeo, recalled that to the end of his long life, he adored veterans, who would grab his left hand and thank him for his service. He would tell them, “I’ve still got more service to give, and so do you.”

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, January 30, 2022

Prominent entertainers who died in 2021:

Larry King: King, who took his show business name from an ad of a Miami Beach store (“King’s Wholesale Liquor”), interviewed 30,000 people, many of them celebrities and
politicians. Obituary writer Lukas J. Alperrt described him as follows: “Known for his rolled-up shirt sleeves, suspenders and pompadour hairstyle, Mr. King had a gravelly baritone that gave off an authoritative, no-nonsense air. But his reputation for gentle questioning made his show, ‘Larry King Live,’ the go-to destination for anyone embroiled in controversy.” He was married eight times.
Cloris Leachman: She had numerous TV and film roles as a comic actress, my own favorite being her one as “Frau Blücker” in Mel Brooks’s Frankenstein (1974), where the mere mention of her name caused any nearby horse to raise up in terror. She also offered “Dr. Frankenstein” (Gene Wilder) refreshments three times, including “Some Ovaltine?”
Hal Holbrook: His one-man portrayal of Mark Twain was a three-time Broadway success. He also played “Deep Throat” in the film All the President’s Men and Commander Joseph Richefort, the naval intelligence officer who construed Japan’s plans to attack Midway, in the film Midway.
Jackie Mason: Formerly a rabbi like three of his brothers, he became a greatly popular comedian.
Jay Black: The star singer for “Jay and the Americans.” His soaring voice made for such hits as “Cara Mia,” “This Magic Moment,” “Come a Little Bit Closer” and my own favorite, “Granada.” He was recruited to replace the original “Jay” while working at a Thom McAnn’s shoe store in New York. His given name, David Blatt, was changed to Black by mistake. “I was on the Mike Douglas show. One day Mike asked me what my last name was and I mumbled Blatt. He said, ‘Black?’ I said yes, a little lie. But everyone loved the name. Mike
Douglas died without knowing he named me.” Jay was a friend of John Gotti and sang at the weddings of two of his children.
Stephen Sondheim: A Broadway immortal, he wrote for West Side Story, Sweeney Todd, A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum, and A Little Night Music – sometimes just lyrics, at others, both lyrics and music.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, January 23, 2022

Sports Figures Who Died in 2021:

Floyd Little: From a line of great Syracuse University running backs (following Ernie Davis and the greatest of all runners, Jim Brown), Little starred for the Denver Broncos. NFL commissioner Roger Goodell called him “not only a Hall of Fame running back, [but] a Hall of Fame person. Faith, family and football were the pillars of his life.”
Henry “Hank” Aaron: Best known for breaking Babe Ruth’s career homerun record, he went on to become an eloquent spokesman for civil rights. Cardinals’ pitcher Curt Simmons said that “trying to throw a baseball by Hank Aaron is like trying to sneak the sunrise past a rooster.” Aaron admitted that he wasn’t a very good golfer: “It took me seventeen years to get three thousand hits in baseball. I did it in one afternoon on the golf course.”
Tommy Lasorda: A player, manager and spokesman for 70 years as a Dodger, he once praised double-headers, saying “that way I get to keep my uniform on longer.” When Padres’ Kurt Bevacqua accused him of trying to bean him, Lasorda responded that he wasn’t worth beaning, because “he couldn’t hit water if he fell out of a … boat.”
Lubomir Kavalek: A chess champ who led Czechoslovakia after the Soviets crushed its bid for freedom, he won the U.S. championship three times and wrote a chess column for the Washington Post for 29 years.
Harthorne Wingo: A reserve forward for the New York Knicks, including on their 1973 championship team that had six Hall of Famers, he was best known for his remark when the team’s fortunes faded, “Ship be sinkin’.”
Elgin Baylor: An all-time great for the NBA’s Lakers and member of the league’s all-star team for its first 50 years, his scoring moves seemed to defy the laws of gravity.
Bobby Brown: A Yankee star who went on to become a cardiologist and American League president. When he was engaged, his fiancé asked him what she should tell her parents. He said, “Tell your mother that I’m going to medical school and your father that I play third base for the Yankees.”
Bobby Bowden: One of the most successful college football coaches ever, he won two national championships and, for 14 straight years had top-5 teams. When he retired from Florida State, he dryly remarked that “after you retire, there’s only one big event left.”
John Madden: At age 32, he became head coach of the Oakland Raiders for ten years, winning a Super Bowl and achieving the league’s all-time winning percentage. Later, he became a tremendously popular broadcaster for all three major networks.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, January 16, 2022

Some significant people died in 2021:

Of religious interest:
Hans Küng: The Catholic world’s most prominent dissident theologian, who was also, somewhat surprisingly, close to Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI, despite their many disagreements.
Fr. Joseph Koterski, SJ: A philosophy teacher and writer who died while preaching a retreat. Known for his zeal for discipleship and his love for the Western tradition’s Great Books, he served as a chaplain to the Missionaries of Charity and to the Sisters of Life, and used to be a pretty good boxer.
Anglican Archbishop Desmond Tutu: With Nelson Mandela (a prisoner for almost 30 years), he was a key figure in ridding South Africa of its segregationist apartheid ways. When a woman referred to him as Archbishop Mandela during a visit to California, he showed his typical good humor by replying to her, “So, you are getting two for the price of one!” He once plunged into an angry mob that was about to set fire to an accused snitch, saving his life.

Writers:
Lawrence Ferlinghetti: Poet, publisher and owner of San Francisco’s famous City Lights Bookstore. In his novel Little Boy, published when he was nearly 100, he asked, “Am I the consciousness of a generation or just some old fool sounding off and trying to escape the dominant materialist avaricious consciousness of America?”
Anne Rice: Her books, mostly on vampires, sold more than 150 million copies. A onetime convert to Catholicism, she soon left the Faith.
Jonathan Spence: A Yale scholar who specialized in books about Chinese history, which included his superb work The Memory Palace of Matteo Ricci, on the early Jesuit who sought to win over China’s influential mandarins by bringing them the fruits of Western science and learning.

-Msgr. David Hubba

NOTE: In last week’s “From the Pastor’s Desk,” it was mentioned that India’s government, led by the Hindu-dominated party of Prime Minister Narendra Modi, barred a charity founded by Mother Teresa from accepting foreign donations for its charitable work. It has since been announced that approval for the missionary group to receive foreign funding has been restored. India’s Ministry of Home Affairs did not say what prompted the reversal.


From the Pastor’s Desk, January 9, 2022

Among 2021 happenings were these:

• San Francisco’s Board of Education voted 6-1 to rename 44 schools because they accused the people they were named for as being linked to slavery, oppression or racism. Included were George Washington, Abraham Lincoln and Senator Diane Feinstein (a decidedly liberal politician).

• There were a number of kidnappings in Nigeria, including one of 27 students, 3 staff and 12 family members in the state of Niger (one of whom was killed), and another in which 317 girls were taken from a boarding school in Zamfara State. Past abductions had been the work of jihadists, but now unrelated groups pursue this sordid business for profit. A local newspaper commented that “kidnapping for ransom is now the most thriving industry in Nigeria.” Haiti has experienced similar outrages. 17 Amish and Mennonite missionaries were held for ransom there by one of the some 200 criminal gangs that control more than half the nation’s territory.

• U.S. resident Paul Rusesabagina was one of 21 people put on trial in Uganda on politically motivated charges of rebellion and terrorism. He was portrayed in the film “Hotel Rwanda” for heroically sheltering and saving 1,268 Tutsis, for which he received a Presidential Medal of Freedom.

• In Kabul, 53 school girls were killed in a terrorist bombing.

• More than 750 Ethiopian Christian worshipers were taken outside of the Oriental Orthodox Church of Our Lady Mary of Zion and shot to death.

• Among episodes of violence in the U.S. were the killing of the 10 residents of Boulder, Colorado, by a recent resident from Syria and the killing of 5 and the injuring of 48 by a driver who crashed his SUV into a Christmas parade in Waukesha, Wisconsin. In San Francisco, coordinated looters ransacked several luxury stores and stole large quantities of expensive merchandise. The incidents sparked similar thefts in other cities.

• In several incidents, migrants near our southern borders died at the hands of “coyotes” who were illegally transporting them for fees up to $10,000. 13 died when a Ford Expedition, stuffed with 25 people crossed in front of a tractor trailer in California. 10 died when a van holding 29 people lost control in Texas. In another incident, 55 migrants were killed and 104 injured when a trailer truck carrying more than 160 crashed in Chiapas State, Mexico.

• 14 of 15 occupants of an Italian cable car died when it fell in the Alpine region of Lake Maggiore. A 5-year old boy survived.

• 21 long distance runners died at a sporting competition in China when they were caught in a high-altitude storm.

• 5 Australian children died and 4 were critically injured when a sudden gust of wind lifted a Councy-Ride more than 3 stories into the air.

• Mayor Jim Plunkett of Fitsgerald, Georgia, was defeated in his re-election bid, receiving just 5% of the votes. He lost favor with the voters when his expensive plan to erect a giant topiary chicken (with an apartment for rent, sort of like New Jersey’s Lucy the Elephant) failed to be completed. The mayor thought it would lure tourists to the small town. After the votes were tallied, the mayor remarked that “the chicken is obviously polarizing.”

• Another Georgia story related the doings of its innovative minor league baseball team, the Savannah Bananas. At its games, if fans catch a foul fly ball, it’s an out. Also, batters are forbidden to step out of the batter’s box (to help keep games from exceeding 2 hours). And if you guessed that the team’s uniforms are bright yellow, you are right.

• In an act of monumental national ingratitude, India’s government, led by the Hindu-dominated party of Prime Minister Narendra Modi, barred a charity founded by Mother Teresa from accepting foreign donations for its charitable work.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, January 2, 2022

Ravenna, on Italy’s east coast, was ideally situated to interact with Byzantium, the capital of the Roman Empire’s eastern rule. That connection gave rise to the Byzantine art that notably beautifies the city’s churches. Sometime in the 500s a mosaic in one of those churches mentioned Balthassar, Melchior and Gaspar, names that have become traditionally attached to the mysterious travelers we now call the Magi or the Wise Men or the Three Kings. (Since then, Balthassar has lost an “s” and Gaspar has turned into Caspar.) Even before the Ravenna mosaic, there was an Egyptian reference to the three mysterious journeyers, with a different name assigned to Balthasar.

We really know very little about the magi, whose appearance in Matthew’s gospel has left the door wide open to many speculations. We can’t even be sure that there were three of them. That number has been assumed because of the three gifts they presented to the infant Jesus. Some biblical commentators have even speculated that the magi would have struck the Jews as unsavory characters associated with fraudulent and superstitious practices forbidden by the first commandment, or even as allies of demonic forces.

And yet, the 60th chapter of the book of the prophet of Isaiah mentions a future time when the wealth of the nations, including gold and frankincense, would be brought to Israel. Psalm 72 is also worth paying attention to. Speaking of the Messiah, it says that:
“The Kings of Tarshish and the Isles shall offer gifts;
the kings of Arabia and Seba shall bring tribute.
All kings shall pay him homage,
all nations shall serve him.”

The account of the Magi’s visit is usually interpreted as an indication that Jesus would have a universal impact. This view is reinforced by the conclusion of Matthew’s gospel, where Jesus, as he departs from his apostles, tells them to “Go … and make disciples of all nations … .”

For this article I relied on Michael Patrick Barbers’ “The True Meaning of Christmas” (Ignatius Press). I’m not smart enough to come up with all its insights, but, I like to think, smart enough to know good material when I see it.

– Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, December 26, 2021

The Little Sisters of the Poor, who run assisted living and nursing homes with the kind of superior care that is possible only because of the divine love that underlies their very existence, have a splendid monthly magazine called Serenity, which is available for just $5 a year. (Anyone who requests it should really offer more for it, postage expenses being what they have become.) In one of its recent issues, three of the sisters reflect on key values their members rely on. Sister Mary Alexandra, who works at their home for the elderly in Enfield, Connecticut, told of its statue of the Holy Family, which depicts the boy Jesus standing between Mary and Joseph with his arms lifted up toward them:
“… because of the way Jesus is placed in between his parents, it looks as though he is actually pointing to them rather than to the congregation! It’s like he is saying to us, “Look at them: the perfect Christian man and the perfect Christian woman. The quintessential saints of the Church. Study them, learn from them, follow their example. My Father has given them to you, to the Church, to guide you as your spiritual parents in your journey to holiness.”

Elsewhere in the issue, an unnamed sister comments on a painting by the British artist John Everett Millais. It includes Jesus’ grandmother, St. Anne, who stands behind Joseph’s work bench tending to a nail that has injured the young boy, whose hand is bleeding, as it will one day at Calvary. The painting is a reminder of the important role grandparents so often play in our families. Sometimes they are delightful visitors, sometimes they help provide daily care, and sometimes they even assume the parental role when needs or troubles require their loving help. The sister who called attention to Millais’s painting also wrote of how Pope Francis has reminded us of the ways grandparents help our grandparents help our families:
“How important grandparents are for family life, for passing on the human and religious heritage which is so essential for each and every society! How important it is to have intergenerational exchanges and dialogue, especially within the context of the family. … Children and elderly build the future of peoples: children because they lead history forward, the elderly because they transmit the experience and wisdom of their lives. This relationship and this dialogue between generations is a treasure to be preserved and strengthened.”

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, December 19, 2021

Christmas comes to us this Saturday as a welcome assertion of joy and hope in what has been a dreadfully trying year. Christmas has been surrounded with delightful human customs that we have come to value greatly. On a lower level are the cheerful decorations that contrast so vividly with the darkness that has been accumulating in recent weeks. Who doesn’t enjoy their creative splendor?

Then there are the feelings of closeness to family and friends, and even to people we don’t usually deal with. In his enjoyably instructive book “True Meaning of Christmas: The Birth of Jesus and the Origins of the Season” (Ignatius Press), Michael Patrick Barber notes that in Charles Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol”, Scrooge’s nephew identifies these Christmas pleasures articulately when he tells his uncle that Christmas is: “… a kind, forgiving, charitable, pleasant time: the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow passengers to the grave.”

And it is surely true that the season can awaken our finest impulses. But towering over these pleasing benefits is one stupendous reality: that the Son of God, the light of the world as he once described himself, has come into our lives to completely transform them for the better. From the time of the unforgettable event in ancient Bethlehem, God has invited us to be with him forever. The Church Father St. Ambrose, addressing Jesus Christ, expressed this immense blessing beautifully when he wrote:
“Now your candle shines bright and night itself gives forth uncommon light. May no night ever interrupt it, and may it shine with perpetual faith.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, December 12, 2021

Mary, under her title of Our Lady of Guadalupe, is the patron saint for all the Americas. The magnificent basilica in Mexico City that honors her under this name stands near the place where St. Juan Diego received the garment that, enchantingly, was blessed with the famous image of Mary that is revered to this day. The feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, normally celebrated on December 12, is not observed this year because it conflicts with an Advent Sunday. In a way, this in itself pays tribute to the humility that so characterized Mary. St. Therese of Lisieux once paid tribute to this humility and to how it leads the humble people of this world to trust in her love with these simple and profound words:
“I know that at Nazareth, Virgin full of grace, you lived very poorly without asking for anything more. Neither ecstasies, nor miracles, nor other extraordinary deeds enhanced your life, O Queen of the elect, the number of the lowly, the “little ones,” is very great on earth. They can raise their eyes to you without fear. You are the incomparable Mother who walks with them along the common way to guide them to heaven.”

In his Confessions, St. Augustine movingly admitted his complete dependence on God’s mercy:
“Rightly … have I firm hope that you will heal my infirmities through him who sits at your right hand and intercedes for us. Otherwise I should despair. For great and numerous are
these infirmities of mine, great indeed and numerous, but your medicine is mightier.”

Our Father John, at a recent meeting of the priests of our deanery, proposed that local parishes should host Advent Penance services where people could choose to make their confessions to their “hometown” priests or to priests who serve in other parishes. Our turn to be the host parish will on Monday evening, December 20, at 7pm.

-Msgr. David Hubba



From the Pastor’s Desk, December 5, 2021

The annual Bergen Catholic High School Holiday Chorale will again take place at Saint Joseph Church on Monday, December 13 at 7:30 pm. ALL ARE WELCOME.

Wednesday is the solemnity of Our Lady’s Immaculate Conception, a holy day of obligation and the feast day of our national patron saint. The Basilica of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, D.C., a church of splendid beauty and one of the largest churches in the world, is a magnificent tribute to Mary under this title. (If you have never visited it, you might consider entering it onto your list of special places you would like to see. Located on the campus of Catholic University, it is readily accessible by the District of Columbia’s Metro rapid transit system or by and it has free parking. Some Catholics misconstrue the meaning of the Immaculate Conception, thinking that it refers to Mary’s giving birth to Jesus. (We celebrate Christmas in recognition of that infinite blessing.) The doctrine of the Immaculate Conception asserts that, from the very first moment Mary existed, she was free from Original Sin (the inheritance of our human condition) and Actual Sins (those of our personal responsibility). This great favor was given to her by God’s special grace because of the unique task entrusted to her of being the mother of our Savior. St. John Henry Newman wrote a beautiful reflection on Our Lady that is very much suited to her
title of the Immaculate Conception:
“Mary is the house and the palace of the Great King, of God himself. Our Lord, the co-equal Son of God, once dwelt in her. He was her guest; nay more than a guest, for a guest comes into a house as well as leaves it. But our Lord was actually born in this holy house. He took his flesh and blood from this house, from the flesh, from the veins of Mary. Rightly then she was made to be of pure gold, because she was to give of that gold to form the body of the Son of God. She was golden in her conception, golden in her birth. She went through the fire of suffering like gold in the furnace, and when she ascended on high, she was, in the words of our hymn, “Above all angels in glory untold, Standing next to the King in a vesture of gold.”

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 28, 2021

In exploring my files for this article, I read a piece by John Norton from the Catholic weekly newspaper Our Sunday Visitor. It mentioned a heroic priest from the World War II era.

Jesuit Father Alfred Delp was one of several thousand Germans arrested by Nazi authorities after the failed 1944 attempt to do away with Hitler. Even though he had no involvement in the plot, he had been part of a resistance cell, and paid for it with his life in February of 1945 after being charged with having a “defeatist” attitude. He spent his last Advent chained in prison. While there, even though his hands were manacled, he wrote his Prison Meditations, in which he remarked that “There is perhaps nothing we modern people need more than to be genuinely shaken up,” reminding us that we are not the center of our lives but that God is.

Father Delp’s reflections reminded Mr. Norton of some thoughts of Pope Benedict XVI from ten years ago, that
Advent is a time when we ought to be shaken and brought to a realization of ourselves.… Being shattered, being awakened only with these is life made capable of Advent. … [I]n the wretchedness of realizing our limitations, the golden threads that pass between heaven and earth in these times reach us. These golden threads give the world a taste of the abundance it can have. … Advent comes every year to remind us … that our lives might find their just orientation towards the face of God. The face not of a “master,” but of a father and a friend.

In Advent we prepare for Christmas, including by repenting our sins. We likewise look forward with strong hope to the time when Our Lord will come to us again, putting God’s final touch to human history in the general judgment. But, of course, every day offers us a decisively beautiful chance to encounter God and his gifts.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 21, 2021

In his recent book Letters to America, the great country music legend Willie Nelson recalled that he and his sister Bobbie were raised by their grandparents. “After my granddaddy died, things were even tougher. For Thanksgiving dinner one year, we split a can of soup.” As we look forward to our nation’s treasured Thanksgiving holiday this Thursday, I don’t suppose any of us are facing a comparable hardship, unless we have recently suffered the loss of a loved one. But whether the day promises us much-anticipated joys of delicious food and welcome camaraderie, or even if it contains the re-emergence of some predictable relational tensions, it reminds us that, if we compare our blessings and our hardships accurately, we will find many reasons to be grateful. Charles Dickens had it right when he urged us to:
“Reflect on your present blessings of which every man has many, not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.”

Our Thanksgiving Day Mass, the only one for the day, will be at 8:30 am in the main church. I hope you will be able to join us as we take part in the Eucharist, the unsurpassable way to thank God for all he has done for us. It is also very uplifting to see how many of you contribute to our Thanksgiving food drive for the needy, which concludes this Sunday afternoon. Items should be dropped off at the rectory garage throughout the day’s Mass schedule.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 14, 2021

It would be hard to come up with a better analog for the spiritual life than a pilgrimage. After all, we’re on the way somewhere in our lives and aren’t just staying put.

Soon after Our Lord’s earthly life, Christian pilgrims began making their way to the places where he set foot, taught and worked, especially to Jerusalem, where he died for us and rose from the dead. Much later, Christian pilgrims journeyed to such revered destinations as Canterbury, where St. Thomas Becket was martyred at the altar of his cathedral, and Compostela, where the tomb of St. James was venerated by pilgrims who made the arduous walk along the famous camino trail.

Pilgrimages and other travels of spiritual significance also preceded Christian times.
Psalm 107 speaks of journeys of futility:
Some wandered in the desert, in the wilderness,
finding no way to a city they could dwell in.
Hungry they were and thirsty;
their soul was fainting within them.
They cried to the Lord in their need
and he rescued them from their distress
and he led them along the right way,
to reach a city they could dwell in.

St. John Vianney, known as the Curë (parish priest) of Ars, led a life of amazing austerity. He worked tirelessly among his people and the many pilgrims who came, often for 15 or 16 hours a day, to make their confession to him. He was certainly no adherent to a non-carbohydrate diet, since for years his typical meal consisted of a potato or two and a cup of milk, a strong irony since he lived near Brillat-Savarin, the most eminent expert on food in France’s history.

In addition to his other priestly duties, St. John gave regular catechetical talks to children and adults. Many of these talks, presented in simple and direct language, have survived. In one of them, the Curë spoke of how prayer strengthened him on a long journey he once had to make:
Prayer … makes time pass very quickly and with such great delight that one does not notice its length. Listen: Once when I was a purveyor in Bresse and most of my companions were ill, I had to make a long journey. I prayed to the good God, and, believe me, the time did not seem long.

Prayer sustained the Curë, and it can do the same for us, including in the most difficult of our trials. For St. John, prayer was no grim obligation, but a joyous delight. As he once said:
Prayer is nothing else but union with God. … In this intimate union, God and the soul are fused together like two bits of wax that no one can ever pull apart. The union of God with a tiny creature is a lovely thing. It is a happiness beyond understanding.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, November 7, 2021

Twenty-one years ago the television personality Steve Allen died in a way many of us would gladly sign up for, if we could. He was taking a nap and never woke up.

In an entertainment career of more than fifty years, Allen displayed astonishingly diverse talents. He was a skilled pianist, although he couldn’t read music, and the composer of over 5,000 songs, including the durable standard “This Could Be the Start of Something Big.” He also played the title role in the film The Benny Goodman Story. But he won fame on TV.

Allen was the original star on “The Tonight Show,” preceding Jack Paar and Johnny Carson. Besides the studio comedy and interviews that have remained staples of the late night shows, Steve and his crew of comedians carried out zany stunts, such as taking to New York’s streets for go-cart races, or to pose as customs inspectors. (“Excuse me, sir, are you hiding any contraband fruit or nuts?”) Once Allen tied 500 teabags to himself and jumped into a vat of water to make iced tea, an idea David Letterman later copied.

His quick wit was always ready for some fun, especially in the spontaneous interviews he conducted like no one else. (“And what’s your line of work?” “I’m in the steel business.” “I suppose we all do a little of that every now and then.” Or my own favorite: When he once offered to come up with punning questions to answers that studio guests provided, someone challenged him to come up with one for our local highway 9W, to which Steve reacted by pretending to ask the famous composer: “Herr Wagner, do you spell you name with a V?” The reply was: “Nein-W!)

Allen also had a serious side. After earning a Ph.D., he wrote a number of books and often took part in political discourse, championing social justice causes and generally defending liberal views. Allen was a frequent guest in the early days of William F. Buckley Jr.’s “Firing Line,” contesting Buckley’s stances. In the 1970s, Allen tried a creative approach to panel-discussion TV by hosting imaginary exchanges among famous thinkers. (You might get Aristotle, Thomas Aquinas, Galileo and Emily Dickinson sharing their ideas.)

In his final years, Allen led efforts to combat the increase of smutty material on television, a trend he saw as degrading TV and us. He ran ads for organizations he was strongly involved with, the Parents Television Council and the Council for Media Integrity. In his last days, he was writing a book on declining TV standards that he entitled Vulgarians at the Gate. His thoughts on the subject are still worth attending to at a time when changes are needed in the medium to which he brought such class and through which he gave viewers so much joy and light.

-Msgr. David Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 31, 2021

This week has two of the Church’s most important days of worship.  Monday is All Saints Day (not a holy day of obligation this year), when we recall the famous and ordinary people who have reached the life of Heaven.  Tuesday is All Souls Day, when we pray for all the dead, especially those completing their readiness for Heaven in Purgatory.

One saint of great importance who is not widely known today is St. Anselm (c. 1033-1109), a Doctor (or key teacher) of the Church, whose life was too complicated to describe in a few paragraphs.  A native of the border region of today’s Italy and France, he became an exemplary Benedictine monk who relished his monastic life but was called on to serve the Church as Archbishop of Canterbury, England’s chief diocese, at a time when the usual heavy demands of that office were entangled with the difficult political realities of dealing with kings and the pressures their expectations of loyalty often imposed.  Pressed between this and a need to pursue reforms in the Church, Anselm once said, “I saw in England many evils whose correction belonged to me and which I could neither remedy nor, without personal guilt, allow to exist.”  In addition to this dilemma, he was twice forced into exile. Anselm is probably best known now for his contributions to philosophy.  His briefly-stated attempt to prove God’s existence argues that since God is “that than which nothing greater can be conceived,” he must have existence since, without it, we could conceive a superior entity.  We can chew on that for quite a while, as philosophers have for centuries, whether praising or disputing its validity. Anselm’s spiritual guidance is far easier to comprehend.  I’ve always valued these words he once wrote as a fine way to begin a session of prayer:

Come now, little man, put aside your business for a while, take refuge for a little from your tumultuous thoughts; cast off your cares, and let your burdensome distractions wait.  Take some leisure for God; rest awhile in him …, put out everything except God and whatever helps you to seek him. … Say now to God with all your heart, “I seek your face, O Lord, your face do I seek.”

James Monti, who writes about the history of the liturgy, translated a medieval hymn for the excellent prayer periodical Magnificat.  It offers consolation to anyone who has seen a loved one die, especially in its lines:

In a verdant place, O Lord, set them there; On the water of refreshment, lead forth their souls to life.

At our customary All Souls Day Mass (Tuesday evening at 7:30) we will read out the names of those who have had funerals at Saint Joseph this past year.  If you will be attending this Mass and have experienced a recent loss of someone whose funeral took place elsewhere, you are welcome to submit his or her name so it can be added to the list. We can all take heart from Bach’s cantata “Gladly I Bear the Cross” as we ponder the inevitability of death.  It says, at one point:

My journey through life is like a voyage at sea,
affliction, trouble and distress engulf me like waves and daily threaten me with death;
but my true anchor is God’s mercy, which often gladdens my heart.
He tells me that he will never forsake or neglect me.
And when the angry tempest is over, I shall step from the ship into my own city, the heavenly kingdom, to which I shall attain with the blessed, freed from cares
.

-Msgr. Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 24, 2021

Wednesday is the anniversary of the Battle of the Milvian Bridge, which took place near Rome on October 27, 312 A.D. It is one of history’s most consequential events.

Until it took place, Christians had a precarious existence in the Roman Empire. Not long before it, there were terrible sporadic persecutions of believers. But in the early 4th c, there were four contenders for the imperial throne, and in 312 the two strongest, Maxentius and Constantine (who improbably were brothers-in-law), were about to go to war for western dominance. The day before the battle, Constantine had a vision of a flaming cross suspended in the sky, accompanied by the saying “By this sign you will conquer.” Constantine ordered the image to be incorporated into his banner and the helmets and shields of his soldiers. After his victory, he and Licinius, the regional ruler of the eastern empire, agreed to issue the Edict of Milan, which granted toleration to Christians. Twelve years later, Constantine overcame Licinius and became the sole ruler of the Roman Empire.

Constantine made Christianity a virtual state religion, curbing pagan practices with mild measures, abolishing crucifixion because of its connection with the death of Jesus, and even writing a prayer his soldiers were expected to recite. Oddly, Constantine was baptized only shortly before he died, a practice sometimes adopted by those who wanted to enter the next life unsullied by sins.

There is a statue of “Saint” Constantine in our cathedral. Wanting to verify this, I called our Archdiocese’s most knowledgeable researcher on the Basilica of the Sacred Heart, Father Michael Gubernat. He assured me that there was such a statue: a wooden one embedded in the screening that separates the sanctuary from its surrounding ambulatory, near the Archbishop’s chair. Although Constantine was apparently never canonized by the Catholic Church, he is regarded as a saint by several of the Orthodox Churches, so his title is not completely indefensible.

On the opposite side of the sanctuary there is a statue of Constantine’s mother, St. Helena, who is most notably honored for her discovery of the Lord’s true cross in Jerusalem. The great novelist Evelyn Waugh, arguably the finest English stylist of modern times, wrote a slim novel about her called Helena, which he regarded as his favorite work. It offers a thoroughly enjoyable reading experience to anyone who takes advantage of its riches.

-Msgr. Hubba


From the Pastor’s Desk, October 17, 2021

On the third day of the Civil War’s Battle of Gettysburg, the decisive occurrence was Pickett’s Charge, a Confederate assault on a strong Union position that was Robert Lee’s greatest failure and won the battle for the North. The prelude to the southern attack was an artillery duel that was not exceeded until the World Wars of the 20th c. When 300 guns exchanged fire for half an hour, the historian James M. McPherson wrote, their sounds could be heard in Pittsburgh. This reminds me of how the mantra “Follow the science” has so often been heard during these months of the Covid-19 pandemic from public health officials, political leaders and opinion voices of the media.

Since October has been a month that includes a strong Right to Life message from our Church, I think about why this advice has not been applied to the destruction of growing, even viable children, who have been aborted in astounding numbers since the Roe v. Wade decision of 1973 and its expansive implications ever since. The original ruling addressed the fate of unborn babies in the first trimester of pregnancy, but has somehow came to be extended to babies able to live independently and even ones who are alive after the abortion procedure has been carried out. Furthermore, the Hyde Amendment, which for years kept abortions from being paid for by taxpayers, has recently been disavowed. So, what does “the science” have to say about the inception and growth of human life? That has long been clear. From the time when the human egg and sperm unite, a new life is formed. A few years ago an outstanding 3-volume reference work appeared: Encyclopedia of Catholic Social Thought, Social Science, and Social Policy. It would be ideal if every parish and public library had a set. I excavated six of its articles for this piece.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church, with its usual apt summary of our beliefs, states that
“Human life must be respected and protected absolutely from the moment of conception. From the first moment of his existence, a human being must be recognized as having the rights of a person among which is the inviolable right of every innocent being to life.”
This is so because every zygote (the fused union of parents’ genetic contribution to life) is a unique individual reality which, if not interfered with, results in the birth of a new child. This is settled, inarguable science, not uncertain or debatable assertion. The strongest and most elegantly expressed Church teaching on the respect for life issues in recent times was Pope St. John Paul II’s 1995 encyclical Evangelium Vitae (The Gospel of Life). It speaks of the “marvelous process of the unfolding of life,” reminding us that “right from fertilization the adventure of human life begins,” which is “a most beautiful thing, … an event worthy of being exalted in joy and glory.” The encyclical is a powerful affirmation of “the incomparable and inviolable worth of every human life,” something we must never forget to acknowledge and to respect in our living. As John Paul wrote: …in every child which is born and in every person who lives and dies we see the image of God’s glory.

-Msgr. Hubba